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Date: April 27, 2023
First, this was really amazing and I wasn't expecting you to post something like this. I may have judged a little early, expecting you to go down the “maybe she doesn't love you and you're not compatible” route. So sorry for that and thank you so much for your post.
What you said about understanding her love language is also a big part of what I want to do, but it's difficult to get her to open up about that. That's why I asked her if she could write a list, not only about what she's comfortable with and prefers doing (giving) but also what she likes receiving.
I'm not sure how important she values that (or she is unsure how much it will achieve) because she doesn't get around to it and I want her to understand the importance. But…
It's a fine line because as you've said I've tiptoed over that line into the “why do you think something is wrong with me” territory. But I've explained I'm never upset with her and want us to work on the problem together and she understands now.
The not responding to certain things like cuddling I guess I have to deal with and find something she does respond to right? Unless there's a shyness there that stops her feeling good and instead makes her turn off?
The daily affection part you mentioned is really the main point of my post. (And love language & confidence) We need ways to introduce her to easy and comfortable ways of showing affection, that she actually likes doing and will become habitual and natural. Then we're both happy.
Methods like you mentioned with the sticky notes are great and more ideas like that would help immensely. As well as ways of forming it into a habit. (Also I leave notes etc. but I don't know if they have the same impact for her, she doesn't really say…)
We're really nowhere near toxic and I'd like to think you can gather that from what I've said. It's a small barrier but if we overcame it together I truly think it would be a pretty perfect relationship.
P.S – She's laughing in her sleep right now and that's why I love her.
so does everyone else in this world lol