I assumed that since they stated 25M first that they were the 25M and their partner was 27F? I thought this was standard on every post, or am I missing something? Even if OP is 27F this is still crappy and a manipulative and abusive tactic
Yeah that’s happening! I’m personally reaching the anger stage of grief right now and I’m rereading all the paragraphs he wrote out to confront me with. I was and still quite a bit, deeply confused about why he’s mad at me for being mad at him for defending against such a racist remark. He’s also tried justifying that saying the N word would be fine if people moved on.
But overall thanks for your reassurance it means a lot. I really thought for a sec I missed something there but I think I did the right thing in fighting for my values there. I guess I was just with the wrong person.
My first ever Reddit purchase was to award you. Hilarious. I understand your humor.
I assumed that since they stated 25M first that they were the 25M and their partner was 27F? I thought this was standard on every post, or am I missing something? Even if OP is 27F this is still crappy and a manipulative and abusive tactic
Yeah that’s happening! I’m personally reaching the anger stage of grief right now and I’m rereading all the paragraphs he wrote out to confront me with. I was and still quite a bit, deeply confused about why he’s mad at me for being mad at him for defending against such a racist remark. He’s also tried justifying that saying the N word would be fine if people moved on.
But overall thanks for your reassurance it means a lot. I really thought for a sec I missed something there but I think I did the right thing in fighting for my values there. I guess I was just with the wrong person.