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Birth Date: 1992-05-16
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Date: October 17, 2022
First, Porn is only going to increase your sex drive and make the feelings more insatiable. Its not the orgasm that your body really wants, its the human contact and intimacy that comes with sex and porn is just a poor visual substitution for it. Its like eating celery when you're craving chocolate cake.
Second, Has she been to the dr to talk about the lack of sex drive? That doesn't sound like a normal response after pregnancy. If she hasnt seen anyone or talked to her OB about it that might be a really good first step.
But that's a change you're thinking of making, not a change you've already made. OP's wife has already had the surgery. Telling her he liked her better before is only going to hurt her because, short of getting more surgery, there's nothing she can do about it now.
You want a child that you don't have to raise or pay for… that's not really your child then. Both of you sound like flags.
Kick him out!!
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Honestly, it sounds incredibly exhausting. You're so strong for being able to get through the days and finding joy in your children. At the end of the day you know the right direction to go and I have so much hope for you to make a happy life. If divorce is the answer then make sure you have a safe and swift exit plan because disrespectful and manipulative men will find a way to claw you back in. You have the support of your lawyer, your therapist, and hopefully a good network of family and friends. There's no good way to approach a divorce but if it needs to be done then you've gotta rip that shit off like a bandaid (safely and swiftly). There'll never be a perfect time or a perfect way to say it. Just make sure that you're safe and he can have reasonable access to be their father. You are so bloody strong and you seem intelligent and thoughtful, you'll make your own future the best it can be ❤️
This is something you need to talk to a therapist with. This shit is way above reddits paygrade.
Just send her a pic of the conversation you quoted.
DO NOT DO THIS.
Take a knife and give them both some facial scars.
He doesn't want to leave any chance of you pulling bullshit with his condom. He is a smart man. Be offended all you want but this is something all men should do all the time. Well there are different ways but still.
She’s lying. You dump her.
Dating in 2023 really is awful.
She’s not expecting you to know who she is. She’s introducing herself to you, since you’ve never met. Stop overthinking everything she does or says
And it’s the worry that stops your tool from performing.
Intentions aside, she’s being disrespectful and disregarding boundaries
In my opinion a SO comes before friends.
If your son was in this didn't want to see his gf's friend how would like her to act?
Just wanted to add to all the great advice: His ultimatum was equivalent to “kill your dog or I'm leaving”, because where is your dog supposed to go? He's very unlikely to get adopted, people want puppies. Your ex didn't take 10 seconds to think about what choice he was forcing you to make. He was being a typical impulsive cruel self-absorbed abuser, only seeing the world through the lens of how things make him feel.
His daughter can't contact you because if he got the impression she was taking your “side” her life could get a lot worse. The only people hurting her are the ones who intentionally explain this situation to her in the most hurtful way possible. You aren't the one hurting her, and you can't protect her from her own father. It's tragic, but the best you can do is connect later on when it is safe and reassure her that her dad left you because you wouldn't let him abuse your dog. She'll understand.
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You ask for a prenup she would really pissed. Thank goodness you found out now and not years in. Cut your losses.
Well, partly because I don't want to seem desperate or pushy… but I am also trying to decide if it's worthwhile and if he even IS interested in what we discussed, or if he's just “playing”.
My wife likes to dance, I do not dance. I'll slow dance with her, but.. I'm no dancer. We went out to a bar and some guy bought me drinks to dance with my wife. She danced and had fun. I got drunk for free. We went home and had our own fun.
You have to stop being jealous. She's with you.
Let me start responding to this by disclosing a few things; first, I'm a guy and I'm happily married. I tell you this so that you understand I'm not here being negative for the sake of being negative; I love love and wish you nothing but the absolute best. I separately do quite well financially and my wife earns a solid income. That's important due to how the two of you treat finances. In saying that, if you or anyone else doesn't want to combine finances, that's your decision and yours' alone. But at some point you need to stop viewing finances as “my” and start focusing on it as “our.” You describe it as if you two are completely separate entities. Second, let's focus on what you wrote. You two made a decision to stay longer. Negligible or not, the decision had been made. You want to argue about it leading up to it? Fine. Once it's done? Absurd. If it was truly an “irretrievable” loss (which is silly), then again, it should have been argued and settled prior. Now, I unfortunately assume it was argued the entire time, but you'll have to let us know. At that point, it's like, what are we doing here? You shouldn't be guessing what happened. You should know.
As for assignments, you both need to put things into perspective; what's his end game? What's your's? Does he want to be the sole income? If so, you're wasting your time in his eyes. Does he want dual income? If so, why would he be fighting it? Makes no sense.
To bring it back, he might have an argument (he doesn't – I'm an accountant so I'm really amped for this) if you travelling made fiscal and logical sense, but it unfortunately does not. He's travelling for free. You have the ability to travel, but you have to pay for it. Who's paying for it? You, and you alone. Are you both also paying for rent?
As for school, you made the agreement assuming you'd be fine if you travelled. You've learned it doesn't work well. Life happens and things change. He askes you if you could go on the trip to which you respond you'd do a hack job. Why doesn't this bother him? This is again where I take pause. Someone concerned about income would respond differently. He quite clearly is planning for a single income home. That's fine if you're good with it. Are you?
Outside of leaving, your argument should be that he takes over the entirety of the expenses.
No one is seeing this pattern? Just me? What is this, the fourth one of these in two weeks? Just slightly different details.
All bullshit.
What kind of abuse?
Yeah I guess you’re right, I just always feel guilty when something like this happens, like I’m a bad person for not being more “chill”
What was in the Vape? There are vape juices that are only flavours, no nicotine, no THC. Have you discussed that? Does it make a difference?
It's okay to dump someone you don't like
You've got it totally backwards, It's not accommodating at all to have physical activities that pregnant people can't be included in, because that means that neither will any other non-able-bodied person be included. It's pretty exclusionary to have something like that at your wedding actually, especially considering the OP feels like if this woman can't be involved, what's the point of them even being there.
r/narcissisticabuse might have more fitting resources
Thank you – no, it's pretty clear I'm on my own with my own feelings. Hell I asked her if she thought I overshared on Friday because I told her how tough it was to see my Mom in pain. She said yes and that I violated her boundary and ruined her happy mood.
I know that I need to focus on my family right now and am considering walking away… this is all such a hot thing to deal with and my head is a mess. I really don't feel like my normal self at all.