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Twice I have come across a man assaulting a woman in a vehicle parked by a canal. The first time, when the man saw me watching (trying to decide what to do), he yelled at me. I was so intimidated, that I went away. I felt horrible after! I felt that I really let that woman down. So, when I encountered a man assaulting a woman a few years later, I stopped near enough to see and hear, but not near enough for him to reach me, and called 911. Told the dispatcher a man was assaulting a woman, described them both, as well as the vehicle and license plates.
I felt like I somewhat atoned for my first failure.
even though she knew very well that I would never hurt her.
I mean…you pinned her to the ground for multiple minutes while she was crying and terrified. Sorry but “I would never hurt you” rings pretty hollow after that. You didn't humiliate her, you traumatized her. Whatever your intention, what you did comes across very much as a threat. “Remember when you think you're strong that I can easily hurt you if I want” is not a loving or protective message.
Honestly there's nothing you can do except give her time and perhaps write out a genuine apology acknowledging how wrong your actions were. She has to decide whether or not she trusts you and feels safe with you going forward. I do understand not wanting her to walk home alone at night, but I can't for the life of me understand why you thought THIS was the way to convey your concern. You need to do some introspection to figure out why you thought this was appropriate so you can assure her nothing like this will ever happen again.
Twice I have come across a man assaulting a woman in a vehicle parked by a canal. The first time, when the man saw me watching (trying to decide what to do), he yelled at me. I was so intimidated, that I went away. I felt horrible after! I felt that I really let that woman down. So, when I encountered a man assaulting a woman a few years later, I stopped near enough to see and hear, but not near enough for him to reach me, and called 911. Told the dispatcher a man was assaulting a woman, described them both, as well as the vehicle and license plates.
I felt like I somewhat atoned for my first failure.
even though she knew very well that I would never hurt her.
I mean…you pinned her to the ground for multiple minutes while she was crying and terrified. Sorry but “I would never hurt you” rings pretty hollow after that. You didn't humiliate her, you traumatized her. Whatever your intention, what you did comes across very much as a threat. “Remember when you think you're strong that I can easily hurt you if I want” is not a loving or protective message.
Honestly there's nothing you can do except give her time and perhaps write out a genuine apology acknowledging how wrong your actions were. She has to decide whether or not she trusts you and feels safe with you going forward. I do understand not wanting her to walk home alone at night, but I can't for the life of me understand why you thought THIS was the way to convey your concern. You need to do some introspection to figure out why you thought this was appropriate so you can assure her nothing like this will ever happen again.