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How old is this pendejo?!? Sounds like he needs to grow up and learn to be secure and not try to control women.
You dodged a bullet. Sorry that hurts but he sounds toxic af
Scum
If it’s someone you care about then I would..like friends,family,etc but coworker…it’s not my business so it’s not really my place to get in the drama …
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Actually it just means the twins are fathered by either him or his brother, it doesn't rule out her sleeping with other men
You’re a sex toy to him. Sorry you thought he was your soulmate or whatever, but you’re an object to him.
he doesn't need to do shit, you buffoon.
The dog is not doing this on purpose. I hope you know that. A dog doesn’t know that what it’s doing is irritating you. There’s something going on with the dog health wise. Someone else commented to get it checked for dementia. It’s very likely that the dog is suffering from dementia. Please get it checked. Also, your boyfriend sounds like a deadbeat. It’s his dog, after all, so he should take care of it as well. But, again, please don’t hold the dog responsible for the shortcomings of its owner.
Why are you with this man? Wtf Also, if you ever decide to have kids with him, you really can’t be surprised he won’t be a good partner, because he already sucks at being a partner.
When I saw this was in the UK I thought ‘well this is all very not British’. Cryptic cheesy letterfest!? But then saw you’re American? And it all made sense.
Terrible proposal and too soon.
This is fake, isn't it? In the USA, OP's entire generation of women has surpassed their men, now outnumbering them in college 3 to 2. For this so-called BF to be unaware of this, he'd have to have been raised by the Taliban.
wish we were giving the chance to be more then we were
If not for this, maybe you could let it slide. But come on. Stop paying attention to what he’s telling you and start paying attention to what he’s telling her. It’s all right there!
Gees…..put the knife away…”assume good will”.
If you met this guy in a bar you would do at least THAT much.
For all you know he may a ton of people you would like as well.
After all you both found at least One person you enjoy the company of, right?
Yes that could vary depending on location
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my first thought was meth haha
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To me there's definitely an element of immaturity but I'm mostly seeing someone who's manipulative and controlling as well as someone with at least one friend just like him.
Testing your partner is a clear sign that you don't see them as an equal or someone you can trust from the beginning.
This relationship will not be a good one. At least not for OP.
He didn't cheat. But he he should have told you that his friend reached out to him. He should've disclosed that to you.
He's clearly never taken a simple heath class
Sorry to say but they sound awful. Unless grandpa and wife want to meet each other I'd avoid taking her and remain low contact.
Does she have thyroid issues? This sounds like me before my doctor discovered my condition.
Print out every photo you took. Put it in a cheap photo album. Drop it at her parents.
Keep her blocked.
Ew. You’re the one being immature and a complete ass.
Ask your boyfriend if he would think it sexy if a female doctor shoved a painful pinching metal device into his ass. Or maybe if he would find it attractive if a femal doctor grabbed his penis and tugged on it with a metal device, pulling up the skin.
That’s a good mind set to have, you know better now so you can do better and I am sure your sister appreciates that.
Awww,I think your doing great, you won't stop liking her immediately of course that's now how humans work but this is such a sweet way to how you guys are still trying to be friends
Ya know maturity!
They are hers. I see her tattoos and the background is inside her house.
That’s…………not what I said whatsoever. I didn’t say anything about what you do or don’t deserve, nor did I say that you’re less than because you have mental health issues (which I myself also have). I do however have a feeling that personal accountability is something you haven’t unpacked in therapy though. There’s a reason things didn’t work out when you first lived together.
No, but you would have to learn HER native language in order to actually meet in the middle. And all she wants is to be able to text it in your native language. Why would she go through the stress and complexity and exert all the mental energy that goes into not only communicating while upset, but while doing it in a language that she doesn’t think in, when you’re doing nothing that’s considerate of her? Her whole existence is already being poured into her body building your child cell by cell, and you can’t let her text her thoughts in the translation into your native language? You need her to do that translation in real time, after doing something you already knew would upset her?
Just an FYI, one of the biggest hurdles in couples who have kids divorcing that they can’t get past is the resentment a lot of women hold from a time period during their pregnancy, birth, or in the two years following where they felt like when they were at their most vulnerable, their partner showed her that she couldn’t trust them to prioritize her needs or protect her interests. So you may want to stop being intentionally dense on this, and start fixing this. This is a time period you won’t get back. She will never need you as much as she does right now. And therefore if you don’t treat it with the delicacy it deserves, she will never really forget how you treated her when she was most in need of your protection. So if I were you, I’d put my pride aside and step up and start acting like she didn’t make a mistake in the partner she chose for this part of her life…
Honestly, this will be a CONSTANT thing in the relationship. If she sets boundaries about that, there will be other boundaries from her family that she will have to set. IF she sets them. But the thing is, culturally, there's a big gap here. If all of a sudden she drops it, don't expect, when y'all are married, for her not to bring it up again.
There might be a real possibility that you will be beholden to her families whims for the rest of y'all's lives. Hopefully not, but family ties are the most important in the culture.
Also, the way she's acting right now is not conducive to a healthy relationship. She didn't get her way, so now she's treating you differently. If she usually gets her way, and you haven't seen her when she doesn't get her way a bunch, then you might not know how she acts in those situations.
Congrats on the raise 🙂 Good luck.
Omg lol! Sorry!
Right, see, I find the most important (if not sole) reason women want to date a successful man is to ensure they don’t end up taking financial care of another adult.
If you feel like women are just after you for your money, maybe you should hang with a different crowd (and work on having more to offer them). Also, maybe you should think of women as a person rather than a possession you can purchase (“his woman”). You’d be surprised to learn how fully human women are if you grant them that perspective.
He wants to sleep with Alyssa.
Yes, that never ends well, it ends up being a jealousy game. Her future partner may notice you like her and you may find yourself not liking her partner or thinking she deserves someone better, are you ready to go through that? Isnt it better to just put a bit of space between you two before you get hurt?
So, your team making the NFC championship game is imo an exceptional, rare occurrence that would justify dropping everything else. Do you follow sports?
I'm most curious about ?how* “he's change immensely” and how that makes him trustworthy?
Common now …. Even a rock can tell your partner is not a good one and if you ever were to get pregnant prepare for an Even more toxic or an abusive relationship.
Yup!! I was the “too emotional/you’re always getting mad so we can’t talk about this right now” or the “we can talk about it tomorrow/when we sober up” – but we never sobered up because all we did was get drunk/use together.
You are NOT crazy for having feelings, or reacting to what he says and does. He is gaslighting and manipulating you because he doesn’t want to deal with it/you – he wants someone to just sit there and be quiet and suck it all up and just deal with his shenanigans and lose yourself to him. Like an emotional vampire, they suck the life out of you. But still, no matter WHAT you do, how much you cut off yourself, what you give up, it will NEVER be good enough for him to treat you decently. He will ALWAYS have an excuse or reason or just flat out ignore whatever “your” issue is until you give up and drop it. Then simply move on like it never happened, while you remember every damn thing he said and did and you feel like you can’t even trust your own thoughts and memories – “did he really say that or maybe I imagined it?”. They will tell you one thing then say they never said that, until a few months later they flip out on you because they DID tell you, you just never listen to them and ignore their needs because you’re selfish and mean and etc.
My ex separated my from friends and family the best he could because they saw through his shit, and he hated it. He constantly tried to turn me against my own mother!
If you can safely leave, LEAVE baby. Stay with a friend, go back with your family, if you have none look for women’s shelters or rooms for rent even. There is no salvaging this relationship and it’s better to cut it off now because the longer you stay the harder it is to go. There is no shame in starting over. if you feel he will make a scene or make leaving very hot, have a friend or police escort if needed to be with you while you pack and make sure you bring ANY important documents like birth certificates, ID/Social Security cards, etc as well as banking cards and info/paperwork that may have sensitive info on it.
My story has a happier ending. I’m going to be 31 in a few months and I can say that moving back home with my family was the best decision I could make and saved my life. I am healthier and happier with a wonderful boyfriend who adores me. I’m thinking of going to college (something my ex sabotaged) and am learning to love myself again.
You are valid, you are NOT crazy, you deserve better!! Even being alone for a while is better than being with someone like this. I know it isn’t easy but I hope I can help give you insight into what staying with this can do.
Broken as in, they’ve been through stuff. Samir hasn’t had an easy life and I want that in a partner because he won’t crumble when things get very hot because he’s used to going through trauma
I can't see this working out. Even if you “settle,” he will figure out something is missing from this relationship. Do him a favor and let him go, so both of you can have healthy relationships.
It's good to back away from the whole apartment issue because it's really clouding your view of the true problem (potentially).
He cheated on his ex, and he clearly carries a tremendous amount of guilt and self-loathing as a result. He has never dealt with why he cheated or made any proper amends to himself or his ex other than giving her his apartment. He proceeds to lie or lie by omission to hide his shame which also points to the obvious that he hasn't properly explored the why and what of how that cheating came to be.
Without saying anything disparaging about you here, so please be clear I am not, he has since moved on in a relationship that he feels he deserves. You can be lovely and wonderful and all the things but you aren't HER. She may not be anything great at all but due to the weight he carries she is some unattainable level of perfect that he lost due to how terrible of a human he is (in his own mind at least) and he will never deserve her again. His ex staying single for the last 6 years almost certainly drills home to him every day that he has traumatized her to such a level that she doesn't feel safe in any relationships ever again (which may or may not be true)
The apartment is nothing. You need to let that go because you are potentially facing issues more soul-crushing than a tangible object. You could be wasting years of your life if you don't get this explored professionally soon. I think you both need individual counseling at the very least and potentially couples counseling later, but you both have to get your own heads sorted first and before you marry. It certainly seems like you know these things but are using the apartment as your weapon, which only paints you in a bad light.
It was part of his divorce settlement before he even met OP.
SHES A BACKSEAT BANDIT
If you want to absolve him of responsibility, and apparently you do, go ahead. He did nothing wrong. He's just a a babe in the woods who had NO IDEA sex could lead to a child.
Cool.
This is abuse. You should leave. Your relationship is toxic. There is no excuse to behave like this to one another.
I'd bet a lot that at any given time either you or your FBF would want to be/get together. If it's not you, that leaves one. You can prove me wrong by asking her.
The compromise that worked for my husband and me is that he keeps games to roughly 2 hours. They get a movie-length story in and it's a reasonable amount of time for me to stay out of the way without feeling trapped in my own home.
The update is as fake as the original story.
Having drunkenly done push ups to collapse in a drinking game, it is absolutely possible to scrape your elbows, especially if you were doing it on a sidewalk or something
Literally the exact opposite, you must’ve misread the post 🙂
You going to spend time with your family for an important family event does not equal world traveling. She is selfish and unsupportive.
You consented by not hanging up. When you hung up, you stopped consenting
Wow all of the prenup comments and jumping straight to “PROTECT THE MONEY!” mentality is kind of concerning to me?
You both have issues. I am in a similar situation where my SO comes from a significantly wealthy family and while I never experienced poverty I was pretty close. We have the same career and I currently earn more than her. But she is also set up to inherit a large sum and we online in a house she owns that I could never afford that she got from a grandparent, so she is pretty much set for a while even though she makes less than me. If she was worried about protecting her assets before marrying me I would be honestly a bit insulted because I wouldn't ever consider myself entitled to what is hers no matter what. Likewise if I were to stumble uppon a large sum of money I would use it to build ourselves up together instead of worrying about how she might “steal” half. Call me naive I guess.
While the dynamic I described is not exactly the same as yours, only you know your fiancee well enough to talk this through, seek therapy, and understand that him resenting your unballanced dynamic or your money is not a personal issue against you but a reflection of his experiences. Don't downplay your inheritance and acknowledge your provileges. Most important thing here will be dialogue, it sounds like you really love each other and money shouldn't tear you apart.
As I said in a comment above, I don't need to validate my sexuality, I know that I am bi. Sleeping with a man is just this lasting fantasy that I had for a few years now. Thank you for your comment!
Everyone her age is getting married and having a child? Where do you online? Are you on Rumspringa?
Why in gods name would you consider marriage with him? He’s taking you for granted and doesn’t value your relationship or his children. Get a custody order and he’ll be forced to at least spend time with them and contribute financially. Of course it’s not going to get better. Marriage is very hot. It takes commitment and work. He’s clearly shown you that he’s not going to be an involved parent or husband.
You didn't start this drama; your brother in law did.
You can hope it was a one-off that'll never come up again and never mention it, but you're taking a terrible risk if you do. If your husband finds out about this from anyone but you, you're in trouble.
No amount of explaining will get you off the hook. He's guaranteed to feel betrayed. He “might” forgive you, or he might never get over the idea of you lying to him. Even if he believes your explanation, you still concealed it from him. And since you concealed this, what else would you lie about? Those are the things that'll be running through his mind.
Telling him won't be easy, but the fallout from not trekking him could destroy your cute little family.
She’s using you as a back up which is very unfair on you. Please cut all contact with her, it will get better.
Sounds a little off balanced to me. They aren’t quite the same thing. But then again, they kinda are. Now if that changes to TALKING or MEETING anyone from IG then that’s a whole different thing. Overall though my personal opinion is look at whoever you want as long as it’s all looking and no touching.
Thank you. Very useful. Im gonna try it out.
There was a point where I thought we actually had something
Yup. Exactly. And look at how many resources you needed access to, knowledge or help to find, the time an adult had to take to pursue all that. And the time your kid spent struggling waiting for that to happen.
I wish it WAS a cut and dry and simple thing where everyone who should want the best for our kids does and does what’s required to support them.
Your birthday is a date. Have them throw the party the next weekend and either go with him without complaining or let him go by himself. A mitzvah is a big celebration and it happens once in someone's life.
I’m not gonna tell you what you should do because I don’t know your relationship but if this was me? I would leave. I wouldn’t feel safe with someone like this. If you get pregnant and he finds out before you can get an abortion he is going to make your life hell. Or, if you decide to stay with him and have his kids eventually, what about if you have a daughter who needs an abortion for whatever reason? Imagine having a 13 yr old who was raped at a sleepover and your husband forces her to have the child. Fuck that
This is a non-negotiable for me personally. And even if he seems perfect in every other way, you’re 24. There are millions of eligible men who are compatible with you on this issue. The choice would be simple for me, for my own safety and for my potential future children’s safety.
One thing I don’t get – he says this is an issue of whether the government has the right to control human bodies? So his stance is yes they absolutely do? I have never heard a pro-life person or Republican phrase the issue like this ??
I feel everyone’s being a bit extreme lol. We have a very loving relationship.
I never say anything mean about her personally, I’m never attacking her personality or appearance. Maybe I should have been more clear in my post.
All jokes are followed with kisses and us laughing. She takes the piss out of me too sometimes and I find that funny.
Forget it though, you come to this group for advice and just get attacked ?
I think collecting silica gel packets is the weirdest.
Yeah well he just couldn’t manage all the partying my friends and I were doing, and if he drinks too much or does any party drugs then he’s basically useless for the next day, where the rest of us are fine. So we are all still friends but he just doesn’t enjoy partying, usually I’ll go out with my friends and he will go hiking/camping for a night.
We have them over for pre-drinking or dinners and they all love him, it’s just such a stark difference between my friends and his co-workers.
Well in the case of my dad, I think he likes that my sister still has to rely on my parents, and my dad gets a lot of say in their decisions because of that. I guess now that I think about it, that’s where my dad’s sentiments come from, because my partner really prides himself on being able to do anything and take care of anything
Yeah sorry, boyfriend was right here, your dad spit on his face and you want him to come back with his tail between his legs? Ooooooooof.
My dude, this is not how most people with mental health issues behave. This sounds more like a brain damage thing to me. Not saying that to be mean, but when she's 22 years old and behaves like
she started to hit her legs and head and pulling her own hair.
she lost it. she said she will jump out the door and proceeded to do it after refusing to put her seatbelt back on. as she open the door on the highway
she can often turn erratic and violent when angry/upset.
Then she's clearly not 22 years old mentally. More like 3, and even that's a stretch because most 3 year Olds would not behave like this normally.
If you feel that this woman otherwise is someone you can imagine your life with: psychiatric ward, now.
This is suicidal and she needs help, even if she “just” did it to get her way, it is indeed something needing professional help now.
And even if you don't want to continue the relationship the right thing to do is getting her help.
It's simple. It's not your choice to make. You can tell her how you feel about her keeping that stuff and that's about it.
Idk if you read my whole ass text but uhh I do all that ?
Uuuh you definitely should have told him you booked a trip to another country. Even if it's just a 30 min drive… like that's kind of important to tell your partner.
I think you cut your losses. And who leaves their phone unlocked and out? Weird. This guy sounds nuts too for going through your phone.
Just block him and call it a lesson learned.
Serious question ladies, has “JUST TELL ME!!!” ever worked out for you? Like seriously, I’ve decided it didn’t need to be said for whatever reason but you JUST HAVE TO KNOW, but why? Fleeting/intrusive thoughts are just fine as long as we don’t act on or obsess over them and you don’t need to hear every one of them.
Strangers can't really define cheating, do YOU feel cheated on ? In any case this is a really shitty thing for him to do, and what if he had gotten a message back heh, would he have kept going? You should confront him and potentially consider a break-up
I have exes that i have been friends w for years and nothing happened. We go out to eat and talk about what’s going on and laugh about the past. But with him… he gaslighted me the whole time and made me feel guilty. Accused me of talking w other guys when he made it clear that he didn’t want a relationship with me, said i forced him to do a lot of stuff… even tho I didn’t would give me some sort of validation
Years ago my brother asked me for money to help with his down payment. It was like 1500. My abusive ex freaked out, locked herself in a bathroom and said she was going to kill herself if i did it. Long story short leaving her was the best thing I've ever done.
1500 was nothing to me and not lending my brother the money was one of the biggest mistakes I've made in my life. He has contributed massively to my business since then.
How much do you trust your fiance? Do you want him to be happy? Can he help his friends? How much does he have saved or has he saved for your family? Do his feelings matter to you or is he just a paycheck?
If he is unemployed or on minimum wage then it's clear this was your money but seeing as how you didn't say that…..
She grabs you down there! And you? Just hope? Dude take her to the bedroom! Practice with her
You left an abuser for another abuser
Thank you. Please what is IC ?
Wait until you find out she's into pegging.
Its her house
Just last month you were 28 with a 30 year old girlfriend whom you had met 3 months prior “at the movies.” Here you're 40 and have been married to a 42 year old woman for 20 years.
What's going on here?
Huge red flag with a red siren on top of the flag pole. Your “girlfriend” has made some very questionable decisions.
Yeah I know it wasn’t very long but still I felt that we were doing well until the last date. The last thing I want to do is push her further away (if that’s possible) by reaching out and saying hey what’s wrong, etc. I really enjoyed our time but of course I wish we could’ve chatted and tried to resolve it if we could.
I know it was horrible for her, that situation with her parents. I think my biggest regret is that i was to young to be patient about that and her development in expessing feelings. But i was young to and nkt mature enough.
Why did we break up? Would you be with a person who had two girlfriends at the same time for a few years?
How could you trust me ever again? To be completly honest, we did get back together after she found out bud she did things to attentionally hurt me. Then we broke up.
First, the animals are the real victims here. Fucking find them homes with people that fucking care. They are being abused far worse than you.
I'm curious …. who pays for internet? Who pays for food? Who pays for clothing? You're paying for dog food? Why are you paying for vet bills for animals that are so neglected? One by one I would surrender those dogs to a good home. They deserve better.
She gets no money, no food, no internet, no cable, no dog support, nothing. Start selling furniture. Throw out anything she uses while you are waiting to evict her. You eat out. No food brought home.
Stop being a victim. She “forces” you to say I love you? Bullshit. Time to put on your big girl panties. Regardless of what you decide, please do what's best for those poor animals. They are the real victims in this train wreck. Fucking letting animals online like this makes me want both of you to suffer as much as they do. It's disgusting.
Dude…no means no. It takes two to want a relationship to work, you can't just wish it and it happens.
Unless you want it, you need to tell her you do not wish for a 3-way marriage. If she doesn’t feel you give her enough on the emotional side of things either you need to go to couples counseling or divorce. She’s having at the minimum an emotional affair and maybe more, in other words she’s already cheated.
I’m not you but if I were in your position, I’d simply sit her down and hand her divorce papers. Tell her you aren’t happy anymore with her lies (when she coaches him to lie, she’s lying too) and disrespect by bringing another person into the marriage and you want it to be over. Then listen. If she tries to justify her actions and/or blame you, then you know she has no remorse or regret. Only if she immediately breaks down, admits she was wrong, offers to completely go no contact with him, open up her phone right then and any time you ask and make arrangements for CC, should you even CONSIDER reconciliation.
If she shows remorse, have her sign the papers anyway (you’ll need a notary there) and keep them out of her reach. File them away at work or somewhere safe and the minute she backslides and talks to him again, let her know they will be filed.
He treats you like garbage emotionally and wants to fuck other people. He wants bf privileges without having to do any of the bf responsibilities. He’s also trying to manipulate you with ‘if you don’t go along with this, you are giving up on us!!!’ What ‘us’? this guy is all about himself.
I would block him. I wouldn’t even bother to dump him. The trash took itself out, don’t run crying to bring it back in.
Oh I know, I didn't mean she did anything wrong. Just offering an explanation for headphones being annoying, but as I say I don't think that was his issue anyway.
Not everyone has a need to be up their partner's ass 24/7. People like to have space, alone time to decompress without the need to spend their decompression time cuddling. If you want someone more like your ex-bf, date someone more like your ex-bf.