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Date: October 13, 2022
“me AND him were already drinking.” What if both of you were drunk? Is he supposed to make a rational decision when he's also drunk, just not blackout?
Plus you already mentioned having tons of drunk sex before so I doubt that if he were drunk as well, he would be able to realize the differences, assuming his story is correct and you seemed to be in the mood back then.
Drinking less in the future would be best.
This is not a topic/subject where you have to tiptoe around. Simply ask him to wear a condom. If he insists on not wearing one: 1) get checked 2) dump him There is no need to waste your time with someone that does not consider your needs during intercourse, safe sex being one.
That’s normal and understandable but you got to think that while you love him you can’t force him to love you back. With time you will realize that love should be a two sided thing not one sided
It’s heartbreaking and naked but you had no choice. I’ve been there and ended up having go the involuntary route. She may or may not be serious about the divorce rights. She truly isn’t in her right mind, don’t focus on that right now.
Great perspective
Anytime Goodluck!
It has been before, yes…. I want to just show up but I start shaking at the thought of being proven right….
Cheaters are gonna cheat. Her behaviour was narcissistic and show lack of empathy for other people, or at least her boyfriend.
I didn’t like BC that much, i was way too inconsistent with taking them and it honestly made me a bit more irritable. I have a Nexplenon implant in my arm now that works much better for me. Plus i only have to worry about it every 3 years! Definitely doesn’t work for everyone but i do recommend anyone interested into looking into it.
I think the instances where people finding their attractiveness towards partners differing on/off the pill is super interesting, though I haven’t read up on it but it does pique my interest a lot!
I apologize if i worded my response incorrectly, I didn’t mean to make it seem like you were anti-BC! I meant that many anti-BC communities push that taking birth control will permanently harm one’s fertility, definitely not trying to insinuate you were. Apologies!
Can't you ask someone close to them to ask in a sly way?
Your just dodging the question.
IF she wanted to sleep with someone else, could she without consequences? And the answer is no.
Urine is not sterile
She must be ex for a reason…
It’d be awesome if we made mad money lol but unfortunately, he doesn’t and he complains a lot about his job and how much his feet/back hurts, how much he doesn’t like it. That’s why I’m not sure and I worry, he doesn’t even want to do streaming or find something else that he likes. I don’t think that leaving video games will solve all of his problems, and it’s a good way to relax, I just think that once it starts taking over your life and you don’t take care of your physical, mental needs it’s a bit different to me… I don’t know, I’m worried about him.
Can I hire u to be my therapist? I feel like you’ve solved all my life issues
His grandmother does have nice rubber boots tho
Jerry seems to be far from racist.
What you’re describing is a second chance
I can’t even with this.
You deserve to be dumped, learn the lesson, move on and do better in your next relationship.
What she's doing is absolutely not a problem.
Wtf no? Don’t label something for her.
So.
limerance is usually a mental illness, or a symptom of one.
From what you've written, it's unlikely that he'll get any mental health help – and honestly, even if he does – you've already checked out.
See a lawyer, get the divorce, and be happy.
You need to tell him how you feel about it and maybe set some boundaries. It's normal for couples to stumble and cross lines they don't know is there. But you need to let him know that line exists and that he crossed it.
I have several times, but after a few weeks we're back in the same routine.
Last time I did she sucked her teeth which is why I'm feeling its time to end things.
But it does matter. Who wants to have to be able to smell everything at all times? Not my wife. This doesn't only concern the smell of cigarettes, I mention that she's sensitive to other smells. I used my ex as she was pregnant and also had a sensitive nose during that time. I know not all pregnancies are the same, but I personally think it was an alright question to ask.
A weekend is just 2 or 3 days right? I know anxiety but there is nothing that is going to fix it. If she wants to break up/cheat or whatever triggers your anxiety she would even when you are still in contact. Just let her be. Dont message her anymore until she comes home. Not even once.
COme on!! Do better
This is clearly a troll. A rage inducing Troll.
all girls are the same
Dose he need a side order of misogyny to go with that sexism of his? I bet this is not the only sexist thing that has come out the hole in that jackasses face either. Just so you know, this Reddit is full of pissed off men who caught their ladies doing exactly what he did, so it’s not just ladies that consider what he did a problem.
But back to what is considered cheating. There are many variations of what people consider cheating. Some feel watching pornography is cheating while others don’t. Some think only physical contact is cheating. Others think only intercourse is cheating. As for me, I am of the mind that any form of intimacy or sexual content with other women, on-line or otherwise is cheating. Basically, if one person feels betrayed by the other, especially involving what should be intimate or for your partner, these can qualify as cheating, and if he is even a half way decent husband, he would set aside his own opinion and understand that YOU find this to be cheating, and it crossed a line with YOU, and not want to cross that line ever again.
So by NOT cheating, is he telling you that it would be okay for him if you were to come across some gorgeous eye candy man on-line, flirt with him, tell him it’s okay to come over while explaining to Mr eye candy that you aren’t serious with your man and are fixing to du,p him? I mean, if he does not think this kind of behavior is an issue and betrayal towards him, then this is okay for you to do right?
I’m so sorry to break this to you, but you were sexually assaulted. Please break things off with this man and have a friend nearby or do it in public so he cannot harm you. Please stay safe Op.
“I look like a joke” Yes, you do. But not because you have a dummy ring. You’ve mentioned that marriage wasn’t even a priority to you, you’ve gone through all the traditional steps of committing to this man and your relationship without it. You were happy to do all these things without marriage or a diamond. But now that marriage is on the table, a rock is your focus? Maybe you’re thinking old fashioned? No, if you were old fashioned you wouldn’t have spit out two kids with a man you weren’t married to. Old fashioned? You never even wanted to be married. Your entitlement is embarrassing. No need to respond to my comment, I’m not interested in entertaining your banter.
It sounds to me like he is just one of those people that needs to spend a decent amount of time alone doing his own thing. It’s probably nothing personal; but if you’ve talked about it with him and the two of you aren’t on the same page about committing to spending more time together than it could be a deal breaker. Neither one of you are in the wrong here, you’re just not on the same page as far as what your looking for.
She has multiple cameras outside of her house
keep the cat out of your bedroom
She's never been allowed in my room – she is too annoying when you're trying to sleep. Rubbing against you, getting into things, running around . . .
cleaning routine by vacuuming
I try to keep on top of vacuuming, especially when I know he's coming over. That's why I hate having carpet cause it's so much more difficult to get all the fur. I even have covers over my couches that I can pull off when he's there to limit his contact with cat dander and hair.
cleaning the litter box
She's actually toilet trained, so that's an easy one
Whatever you do, though, I think you should expect this to be your last cat, if this is the right guy for you. It's up to him to cope gracefully with the “inherited” cat, but I think it would be highly selfish of you to insist on getting another one in the future, knowing that it will make him sick.
As sad as it is, I do agree with this. Or at least a big serious discussion on getting another cat – one that wouldn't cause so many allergies. But my current cat prefers being an only child, so no more cats for a long while.
Did you reply to the wrong comment?
I didn't mention flirting and come to think of it, neither did OP.
We’ve had those conversations many times, even before baby.
Last chance would be counselling, but I doubt anything will change. I’ve never believed in counselling since I don’t believe people change, they just adapt.
I guess that’s why I posted this initially. I know this is the beginning of the end and I’m just seeing if I’m just being too dramatic..
The fact she wants to be a missionary is the writing on the wall! But as another commentator said – it should not necessary stop you from experiencing it if you are lonely.
Ask her however the opinion of the church group on homosexuality and lesbians in particular. Lots if these groups have negative opinions about these kinds of relationships.
Damn I’m familiar with love bombing. I’ve actually done it to someone before which put her on guard and led to use breaking up. Now it makes me feel bad if I did that to someone else
Oh, I did read it. Your comment has an unclear antecedent (to be fair, it was probably in the interest of brevity). What do you mean by “it”? Hamlet? The comment I was replying to? My comments? Be more articulate.
So I can see that there are a few comments but I can't read them, I'm not sure why and I hope that gets fixed soon so I could reply to you all! For now I'll try to just write some info here based on what little I could read from an email I got that shared a bit of the comments. -We are both still in contact with each other; which means we have each other's numbers and Instagram accounts as well as a few other social media, we're just low contact for now as we're processing everything. -We both promised each other that if we find someone else that makes us happy we'll support one another, tho we both said we want to wait for each other plus I doubt I can get into a serious relationship when she's the one I want but I wouldn't mind casual dating and I won't hold her back from exploring either. -I have a few things that I look forward to doing now to keep my mind off of thinking about this too much; new experiences and meeting people, finding a decently paying job and finishing my education are definitely my priority right now. -My country is pretty harsh towards LGBTQ+ people but we do have a small organisation that helps and offers talks with a professional therapist, I was thinking about reaching out to them as I can't afford actual therapy as of now. -I'm grateful to have my sister's support and to not be in such a horrible situation like my ex (ouch I can't get used to saying that), she's told me that she has to deal with that in her own way on her own and I trust that she will get through it. It won't be easy but she's strong and I let her know if anything happens in the meantime or if she needs anything I'll always be there. I hope that covers everything but thank you for your support to the two kind strangers I saw in my email! I'll post another comment if there's any other questions.
You’re not a priority to him. It’s okay if he misses your birthday for work or other urgent stuff life happens. What is important is that he proactively makes it up to you with meaningful gestures to show that you are important. “Hey hun I’m so sorry I have to miss your bday because of _________ there is no way to avoid it. Im bummed but I want to make it up to you let’s do __________ on ____________. “ Those fill in the blanks should be something specific to you things you love. He should know those.
I don't want to hear it from her if she even tries to give one, I just want her out of my life as fast as possible.
Btw, if you had a long term relationship and you fell into a 3 month long mess in which you had no way to antecipate, and most of all, you had absolutely no intention to start, would you simply go to your partner and say “hey, I don't know how I feel, nothing has happened, I feel horrible for having thought of something but I'm going to let you decide if you want to stay with me”… seems a little too soon for that. Also seems like there's no redemption or chances to be a better person in the world.
So you're willing to end a relationship with the father of your child because he went on a trip you didn't want him to? I'm not going to say he was innocent because he seemed pretty inconsiderate about you going, but it still seems to me like he's dodging a bullet here if you're going to end a relationship over something so minor.
Using items in the same fragrance is called layering and it gives the fragrance added depth and sophistication. Personally I’d be very touched if my partner was thoughtful enough to give me these gifts.
It’s not confusing. You’re in a committed relationship. If he doesn’t trust that you respect and want to be with him and only him then THAT is the problem and you shouldn’t be together.
Well, do you find him attractive/want to date him? From the wording it seems like you just want to do it because you noticed he’s gay and it’s been a while.
I didn’t get her an ultimatum. I let her know and if she’s not ok with it then that’s that. I just shared with her what I was thinking. Relationships change over time and sometimes your feelings change. If she never wants to then im fine with that. But thank you for your comment.
How to move on.. keep yourself so busy you don’t have time to think about her all the time. Keep her blocked. It gets easier with time, but will never be easy. Time and distance will help you move on. Every time you talk, it reopens the wound. Best of luck for a happy, monogamous future.
You seem like prime candidates for marriage counseling. Communication is not working.
Was it even really abusive, or are they saying that because she rightly sensed the BS going on between OP and her now ex and they are calling that abusive.