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Or he's gay
It doesn’t matter how many times you change the formatting its still obvious these posts are fake.
You're not the one in the wrong.
He didn't want to try swinging. He wanted to have threesomes with you and other women.
He has no interest in your sexual happiness or fulfillment.
This is what is known as “husband privilege” and it is toxic.
I hear you. I read all the comments and I do acknowledge that it’s not the easiest situation to find yourself in.
Have you thought that by not confronting her or allowing her to continue this behavior you’re effectively enabling her? She’s in the wrong and her manipulating and controlling you in not ok.
As other people have said, you’re an adult.
Good luck.
Bruh she is doing you a godly favor by breaking up with you so you don’t have to deal with that. You are dodging a major bullet
I’d feel uncomfortable too. I guess sex isn’t that big of a deal to many ?♂️
Sounds like you aren't compatible
Do him a favour and leave before you hurt him!
Take. YOUR. Time.
You really have no good reason to rush into living together. Get to know the person , their habits and if you are ok with how they on-line everyday life and you can see all of that well before you move in with them.
Today on “What the fuck did I just read” and “Run run run”
I have been bringing these concerns up. I want to get to a place to get married, but he was extremely abusive for 14 years. I didn't even realize I was being abused and it took a lot for me to accept it. Things have changed quite a bit for the better and I commend his efforts. But because he has manipulated me so much in the past, ruined my credit, demanding every receipt, following me, cloning my phone, legit stalking me, I was not allowed privacy, accused me of cheating constantly for years, not wanting me to work, all that shit. Considering all that and the fact that I put just as much into getting the house as he did, it's only right in my mind that I should have been on the deed to begin with even if not on the mortgage. I didn't know better and was in a cycle of feeling like I had to always “prove” myself to him. So no, I don't feel I should feel lucky he still loves me. After everything he put me through, he's lucky in still around. I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope you are doing well ??
No that's not gaslighting but it's out of line, you should ask her why she's continuing this and you're sorry you brought up her mom and you guys should stop talking about family like that.
Have you been filing your own tax returns (as married filing separately) for all these years? If so, contact YOUR accountant or tax pro (if you don't have one, GET ONE!) and find out how to protect yourself from his IRS debts. They can see whether innocent spouse relief applies or not.
If you have been (or intended to), file joint returns then you have every right to contact the accountant, attorney and/or tax pro directly. Call them, find out what info they need to get your returns current. Find out if an offer in compromise is possible. Find out what the IRS is going to do next if the amount of $ they took from your accounts isn't sufficient to cover the debt. Tell him he sets up an appointment for both of you to meet with the tax pro RIGHT NOW. If he won't do this, then YOU call the tax pro. If your husband is self-employed & hasn't been filing returns, then it is possible that the IRS has estimated his tax liability based on his gross income only. There may be ways to reduce the IRS debt.
Then once you have a path towards fixing the issues with the IRS, you need to decide if you want to stay married. If so, you need to take steps to financially protect yourself – ie: separate accounts that he can't touch. If you are in a community property state, talk with an attorney about how to designate your $ as non-community property if you can. If your husband can't be trusted to manage his own money, will he let you manage it in order to save your marriage? Would you be willing to do that?
If his father was on the account and there’s only one signature needed to withdraw or transfer money, there’s no criminal case here. Your fiancé will have to hire a lawyer and sue him in a civil case.
You, as an unmarried fiancé, have no legal standing. So you can encourage your fiancé to have a lawyer draw up a letter telling dear old dad to put the money back. I imagine your bf will be more amenable to “give the money back or I’ll sue” than calling the police on his elderly father.
If there are any other financial entanglements (real estate or investments or joint accounts), encourage your fiancé to extricate himself. Again, you can only suggest. But if your fiancé is willing to let dad steal $100,000 and interfere in your engagement/marriage, that’s not a person I would marry.
He said his past hookup was gorgeous.
According to op he then said “complimenting other women”
While the first example is saying how hard someone is, unless OP didn’t post what was talked about, a compliment is more than just saying how naked someone is.
How about you get your mind out of the gutter.
If you subscribe to the Orange County Register you should be able to search the archives…it was all over the news that week, he did it as everyone was going to lunch.
The issue with Mexico’s problem with the Cartels using jet skis is that many government officials at lower levels are corrupt and work for the cartels, the government has lost control of a national security issue.
The problem with gun violence here in the US is that Congress is corrupt and bribed by the NRA and gun manufacturers and so they don’t enact any laws to protect American Citizens, nationally, from the potential of that violence and it ties the states’ legislative hands because they get the laws declared unconstitutional before they can take effect.
So he's drinking and driving now too? Also, “my ex is a crappy parent, so I'm going to be crappy too” is ridiculous. If his ex is messy, that makes it that much more important that he be stable and responsible so the kids have at least one good parent. He's failing them. He's a train wreck, and as much as you may want to make excuses for him, there are no excuses. He makes bad decisions and doesn't care about the consequences for the people around him, including his kids. If you want a project, plant a garden, learn a language, read the classics. Don't take on a grown man and try to fix him. If he wanted to be fixed, he'd have figured it out himself.
unbelievable ick
I don’t know, maybe because before it was the beginning of our relationship I didn’t mind tried to be the cool girlfriend
This is not normal or ok and it definitely isn't a “guy thing”.No guy who truly cares for you would disrespect you like this. Be clear about your feelings and if he keeps disregarding them, you should decide if your ok with how he treats you and take it from there…
You messed up 3 times by doing something you told her you wouldn't do? All you had to do was walk outside? Why are you arguing with people about this? Cigarette smoke is absolutely horrendous for people who don't smoke. It stays in your clothes, your hair, furniture fabric, carpets, curtains. Too much will actually change the color of your walls. It's disrespectful to smoke in someone else's house.
Buy him more food so that he is not still hungry after he eats.
Have you considered therapy?
I think you should pay 50/50.
Time-shaming can be a real problem: when a partner shames you for how you spend your time, your time is no longer your own. The only things you can do are “approved activities.”
You might put it to her that way. People do all kinds of things to relax or claim a little freedom in the drudgery of life: taking baths, watching television, knitting, reading trash-fiction, practicing an instrument they'll never play in performance… If other people get to determine whether those activities are worthwhile, it's not “free time” anymore.
Ahhhhh NO. Why are you even asking this question lol.
Without there being any prior conversations about her going out/hanging out with an ex, much less something intimate like dancing, I can’t help but think this is anything other than cheating. I can’t even imagine her reaction if I even brought up doing something like that with an ex.
She got upset that I wanted to play games with my friends instead of playing games with her, despite us literally spending the weekend together, and having plans to hang out both Tuesday and Wednesday (this happened on a Monday afternoon).
We were texting and she asked, I said I was planning on playing with friends but would be happy to play with her tues/we’d. she got all mad over text then ignored me. Immediately after my last text to her, which she ignored, is when she reached out to her ex asking how he was and what he was up to etc etc. That part of the convo fizzled after they agreed to meet up irl or over FaceTime “sometime”. Then she texted again a few hours later asking him to go dancing. He was busy so they couldn’t, so it died there.
A few hours later she came back to me basically asking why I was okay with not talking to her and if I even cared about her.
not if he’s watching same vids on repeat
Disinvite them. You don't need that reminder on your wedding day. Best wishes on your nuptials!
Red flags, let me count them:
denigrating your body/looks has sexual dysfunction (this is a red flag in itself for some unaddressed issue; if he can get it up sometimes, it's likely psychological and not physical) blaming you for his sexual dysfunction compares you negatively to his ex
So what are the red flags FOR, you ask? Abuse, OP, abuse. “Grooming” someone for abuse is essentially the frog in the boiling water scenario. They don't start by hitting you: that would be throwing you straight into the pot of boiling water. They start by complaining about a small thing about yourself that you don't like or feel insecure about. They validate your insecurity, and then expand upon it. Then, once you've shown that you'll accept them denigrating you, they start blaming you for things that THEY do.
It escalates from there. Each step is a test to see how much you'll take, but also a step closer to control and abuse.
Leave this loser. He has NOTHING to offer you but pain.
Red alert.