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Date: October 14, 2022
hi, sorry. i was quite busy so this is late. i’m really happy that you broke the cycle, sis. and to put it simply, i’ve been engaged for a couple years now and it was before i came to home country and i don’t see myself being shackled away and getting forced to marry right now but the major problem is i want to get married to someone i’m already in love with and unfortunately i hit many roadblocks while trying to become independent so i had to stay here for reasons. my family fully supports me becoming educated and that wouldn’t be a problem. i’m just afraid of the psychological cycle i’m in and in giving into all of this.
His fake therapist aka his mates at the pub
First, move out of the bedroom, into a spare bedroom/office/your daughter's room. Turn your living situation into roommates instead of partners. Do NOT sleep with him ever again. Second, get checked for STDs. Third, every time he starts acting like you're together, remember every time he has betrayed you, yelled at you, and belittled you. Fourth, do not go on any dates with him, and cancel the V-day plans. Fifth, get into therapy to start working on yourself, and the damage he has done to you.
Good luck.
Let me ask you this question: if your ex were to die, and your husband still refused to let your daughter on-line with you, what would you do?
You married an unstable maniac, you think Reddit can fix that?
Is he irresponsible or detrimental otherwise?
Does he cook and/or clean?
Maybe just run. As fast as you can.
You won't ever trust him again. You gave him plenty of chances. Tbh the marriage was over when he said he would rather end things with you than her. You can't go back from that. She probably dumped him because now that you've left him it isn't fun anymore. Keep your dignity intact and end the marriage.
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This is all sort of a doozy, so apologies in advance for anything that doesn’t seem to make sense. It doesn’t really make sense to me, hence why I’m coming here and seeking advice on how to move past this. I have been with my husband (DH) for ten years, married for five. He introduced me to his extended family early on, making it clear that his uncles and aunts and cousins are all very important to him and that they are very close as a large family. From the beginning I’ve gotten along with every family member I’ve met—I’ve been sweet, beyond cordial, and the first one to offer to clean after a celebration or bring a dish to share for a party. Until about six week ago, I have had no real “drama” with any of these people. One cousin who is close in age to my husband and me, Marmot, is kind of a lot as a person—there is literally not a single person we mutually know who she hasn’t shit talked extensively to me and she’s done a few things to me (unexpectedly leaving me stuck with expensive restaurant and hotel bills costing me upwards of $2k) that have made me realize I cannot trust her fully. After I gently confronted her after the first incident, she lied to my face and refused to take any personal responsibility, so I quickly learned the smartest thing I can do is enjoy her company when it’s positive and understand she’ll never be a real friend. Marmot’s brother, Husband’s cousin Zebra, started dating a girl, Kangaroo, about four years ago. From the start Husband said she was trouble and emotionally manipulating the entire family, including Zebra. I was excited to potentially have a girlFRIEND in the family, so I pushed aside Husband’s warnings, and those of my close girlfriends, who also met her and said she was not a good person. She is hopelessly insecure and she and Zebra constantly lie to each other. Moreover, she has always battled with Zebra’s mom Lemur and his sister Marmot. I totally understand what it’s like to be in an enmeshed family, so whenever Kangaroo would vent to me about Lemur, I tried to be an open ear while also making it clear that I had never seen Lemur be anything but kind to her. When Marmot would come up in these (and this is probably my biggest error) vent sessions, I usually said nothing but once did mention that Marmot has hurt my feelings in the past, so I did understand that she was in a tough place. Six weeks ago, about a week after I had casual drinks with Kangaroo and mostly chatted about potential wedding plans, Zebra called Husband screaming that I ruined his life. According to him, I… Told Kangaroo that Zebra routinely hung out with an ex of his Baited Kangaroo into talking shit about Marmot and Lemur, and that actually she loved them until I tried to convince her they were evil Have had secret meetings with Marmot and Lemur, which Marmot confirmed, to specifically talk shit about and make them hate Kangaroo Literally none of it’s true. I am far from a perfect human and am willing to take personal responsibility when it’s time, but these are all lies. Thankfully I have an amazing husband and Husband told Zebra to fuck off with his lies. Zebra ended the call saying it was all really unfortunate, because he liked me, and he wanted Husband and him to “be cool” again. Husband reiterated that anyone who made up or was complicit in lies about his wife was not welcome in his life. I got a text from Marmot a few days later saying that I betrayed her and to not contact her for several months and “maybe” we can work this out then. Her mother Lemur who cried to me at my rehearsal dinner thanking me for what I’ve done for the family and father Pangolin, who told Husband he gives him more respect than his own son, have totally ghosted us. Typing all of this out seems to make it clear that these people are absolutely nuts. They’re known liars, and this time they’re lying at and about me. And yet I’m having so much trouble letting go. These are people I’ve had fun with, shared holiday memories with, had at my wedding. I’ve never been treated like this and I’m having trouble coping and moving on. HELP!!
I'm so sorry for what happened to you, but you're right, you should be the one apologizing, he did nothing wrong, he just tried to initiate consensual sex and you slapped him. If you're not in therapy you absolutely need to start right now. If you're already in therapy, it's not working, you need another therapist or another type of therapy. I know therapy is expensive but it's not optional for you, you absolutely need it to start healing from your deep trauma. See if there are resources in the place you live to access cheaper therapy or non profits that specialize on gender violence and can point you towards resources you can take advantage on. But therapy is not negotiable, you need it and preferably trauma oriented therapy if that's a possibility for you.
I was raised as a Catholic. I “saw the light” around the age of 11. It took the form of seeing 1. How hypocritical its teachings are and 2. How much they make you feel guilty about everything associated with having fun but especially sex.
Your boyfriend obviously thinks oral is sinful, but if he were a decent person, he would have told you beforehand, “no we can't do that, it's sinful.” He didn't, so he's a hypocrite.
You're young, so you might not have had a huge amount of experience in relationships. I will say however that there's plenty of other decent men out there, that are nowhere near as judgemental as him. He won't get over his guilt, which is why he's shunning you. I doubt he may ever get over that guilt.
A real man wouldn't be judgemental of you like this. In reality, if you gave someone “normal” oral, they'd appreciate it. I get the feeling he wants you to suppress a part of who you are to be with him. Don't do that, find someone that loves you for who you are, not some mould they want you to fit
Why would she block you on social media and messaging apps? I feel like your husband did that.
Well…. Let's be honest here. You started dating her when she was what – 18, 19? Barely an adult. While you were 24-25.
She's growing up, and outgrowing your relationship. People usually change drastically during those years. Goals, dreams, priorities, interests.
at the end I told her I was not ready to loose her or give up on us. Not your call. It takes two to date, and one to break up. Relationships are not democracies.
Part of me feels like she may already have her mind decided. That part of you is right. Respect her decision. Don't push, don't try to persuade. Don't manipulate her into doing something she clearly doesn't want to do just because YOU want it.
The only sure fire way to deal with a break up is with time and distance. In the future date women closer to your own age, and learn the lessons this is trying to teach you.
Good luck OP.