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No,I have legit reason. I'm a Gemini and she's was crazy
IUD”s aren't 100% working.. She can still get pregnant.
Also what? Trust? What about him not wanting to cum inside for ONE TIME means he doesn't trust her? He doesn't want to.. He doesn't need a reason, he's consenting to cumming outside. Doesn't matter if she has an iud, he said no.
Ask around. Ask some mutual friends if they know him. Tell her friends.
How?
Can't say for sure as the expression of the condition seems inconsistent,
however I am sure you have heard of those individuals who develop
severe respiratory distress secondard to vaping. If you are going to
be living with someone who vapes you own it to yourself to know if
one or both of you are at any risk. FWIW.
Just shows he does not have your true interests or feelings at heart..scummy
Immediately leave him. What the fuck
She can’t pull him out of school for a week out of every month. No court would agree to that. She could, however fly up to see him!
I think you should look into individual therapy in addition to your couples’ therapy.
This kind of defensiveness (stemming from a thought process equating a mistake with a personal failing) is indeed common in people with fragile self-esteem/self-image. It’s absolutely possible to rewire those mental pathways, but it takes work, and often professional support.
It’s normal to make mistakes. It’s normal to have flaws. It doesn’t mean you’re a worthless person or that your contributions mean nothing.
We learn through mistakes. Making a mistake is an opportunity to grow. Often the best way to correct a mistake isn’t to defend it, but to listen with an open mind and take steps to correct it.
It’s not easy to truly internalize that lesson and to depersonalize feedback in the moment, but it’s possible. While you work on it, I suggest at least not getting immediately defensive — no reaction is better than throwing a wall up right away. Ask for some time to think and work through your thoughts after the initial defensiveness has died down.
Being able to take feedback is important for the health of any relationship, and also for your own security and self-esteem. No matter what’s going on in your relationship, that’s an issue you need to work on. I say that because I’m not sure what is going on in your relationship. It’s odd to me that she gives you feedback every day. I can’t tell based on the info you’ve given whether you’re not pulling your weight in a way anyone would find frustrating, or if she’s a “my way or the highway” sort of person who needs everything done to her exact specifications. Like, what does “bad at planning” mean? Are you leaving her to bear the entire burden of managing daily schedules, or do you just want to take a more relaxed vacation while she wants to plan every minute, or what?
Is she wearing her engagement ring? Is she taking it off? Or does she take ot off for 'work'?
That's not healthy in a relationship. Sorry that someone hurt you however they did
Then she's not enough of a friend to respect your relationship, and your choices are either betray your girlfriend by allowing this to continue, or cut off a selfish person who is a bad friend.
Observe what until he bangs your sister and you just sit there and take it? Your mom already saw what’s happening and tried to nip it. But it’s your relationship and you need to say something. They are flirting and hitting on each other. Your BF is infatuated with your sister. If he tries to stay in contact with her then you definitely need to move on. Your sister is purposely being affectionate to your BF as if she is competing with you.
You aren't wrong. Love is not enough for a long term relationship and most people realize that later on in life. Especially when you take into account future plans and goals like kids, house, or any other life goals. Being a good man and love doesn't equal to being a good lifetime partner. He isn't financially responsible, he has a drinking problem, and you say he is immature. That wouldn't be a problem as just a boyfriend. But for a serious future with kids and big financial milestones that would not work. Thats why a lifetime partner is nude to find. You can't sacrifice maturity, responsibility, and health for love. You also can't sacrifice love for financial responsibility and maturity as well. You need a little bit of everything and balance. One thing doesn't justify or make up for the lack of another important quality long term.
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have you thought it through from all angles ?
Sow chaos – “Jim reached out and told me everything”
You’re not overreacting. He’s an asshole.
He doesn’t care about your feelings.
Find someone who treats you like you’re a human being.
Has affected your relationship yet…
Communication with your husband is a good start
I’m interested in seeing the stats on women that like being choked
Wtf? Imagine going out with your partner, starting to dance with them just for them to suddenly leave you alone on the dance floor without saying a word and starting to dancing with some other dude instead. How is that not incredibly awkward?
I hope you're a troll. if not then wow, you are a mind-blowing shitty person.
A therapist not pointing out the toxic and abusive nature of his behavior would be remiss in their duty as his therapist to help him be a better person.
Well it's not. If you feel you want to see him long term it's OK to say that you are not looking for comitment but would request that you get exclusive.
If he doesn't see it like that it means is he not at the same place (yet maybe) and you can then choose to cut it off or accept that is keeps dating until it gets more serious for him and you can reconvene at some point.
You should definitely join AA and stay away from alcohol. You may still be a functioning alcohol, but it won't stay that way forever and you owe it to your babies to be able to actually take care of them. What if your deminished reaction time from being drunk is the difference between you being able to save one of them from a horrible fall or something?
You should also stay separated from your husband. He is obviously not invested in your relationship and the pain won't get any better. He seems to have a low sex drive or he's not attracted to you anymore. Either way, it's not worth staying together as the chances or either situation changing is very remote and you will just become more and more depressed which will make staying sober so much harder.
I wish you all the best.
Well if he works in a different state does he not need to online somewhere? Is there a reason he doesn't work in the state you online in or why you didn't move to the state where he works?
This is exactly why I don't have a full open phone policy with any s/o's anymore unless they can understand that what my friends say to me privately stays private. I will happily hand my partner my phone anyday and let them know which friends need privacy and whatnot and if they can't listen to that then they aren't someone I want. I wouldn't want my friends partners reading my personal shit either
Yeah, you’re crazy…for putting up with this for that long.
Have you ever been to his house? This kinda seems like he might have another relationship and you were a side chick. Either that or he's incredibly selfish and immature. Either way, you dodged a bullet. He's mean and intentionally said things to hurt you. Honestly, I'd block and move on. He seems really manipulative because he's been saying contradictory things to you like “he hasn't felt this way in a long time” but you'd “never meet his mom”. These just read as manipulative and hurtful. You may feel bad now but with some time you'll be glad you dodged this bullet. You deserve someone who is as equally excited about being with you as you are them. It's ok to have boindaries when dating. Maybe letting ppl know you expect (x) amount of time to spend together per week if they plan on continuing to see you.
Huh? Sorry, what does him acting aggressive have to do with him being dead? If he's dead, shouldn't your questions have something to do about picking up pieces and single parenting with a job?
Sex is great with the right person, not necessarily a random stranger.
He's the guy who is baffled because he usually conforms to the expectations of the gal he's trying to get with in order to worm his way in, for his own benefit.
There's this whole thing so many guys do by taking cues from thier conversations and being all agreeable and pretending that they're so compatible. 'oh my god yellow is MY favorite colour too!”
In this case, she didn't deliver the cues so he was left adrift and couldn't pull it out enough to shape his actions to her expectations.
Like I said, I know this guy. Have seen a million of them. There's a reason he's single at 40. Probably more than one, for that matter.
It's terrible that you might have to do this, but you might have to give her a lie test.
Ask her what she did on Valentine's day. If she doesn't admit to what you saw online…….than you know that she's willing to lie to you, even a lie of omission. A lie of omission is done to hide a guilty complex.
Then if she's willing to lie and hide that…………….what else is she willing to lie/hide?
Ultimately, whether she admits to it or not, this is a severe form of disrespect to you and the relationship. For her to post it online, is a slap in the face.
You're not married. If she's not “wife-y material”(even if you don't get married) than what's the point of being in a relationship. Don't stick around for years being miserable room-mates.
It's okay to accept a flawed friend. Everything your friends and family do is not a reflection on you. The only person you can control is yourself.
And that is how you should've explained it to your wife. That you understand what your friend did was very wrong, you don't condone it, and you are still willing to continue your friendship (if she is also remorseful of her own actions) given your long history together. Sticking with someone who did something wrong does not mean you condone their actions. People like to think it does, though. So given that you likely cannot change your wife's mind, you probably will need to choose if you're going to stick by your friend or cut off anyone your wife doesn't like. You've been friends for 20 years. Would you be forced to cut off contact with your sister if she fucked up too?
It’s time to move on. There are men out there who take care of themselves and their homes who can also be caring and funny and love you. Do you want kids one day?? This guy would be a deadbeat dad. You’re so young and still learning about relationships. Take what you’ve learned about in this one and find someone that meets your needs
One thought that just occurred to me – how many units are in your apartment? Sound travels in VERY strange ways in apartment buildings. I used to online in one where the people next door would leave their alarm going for fifteen minutes at a time, so I would start banging on the shared wall… come to find out it was actually an elderly woman above me, but it absolutely sounded like it was coming from next door. Is there a chance Dan might actually be hearing something from a different apartment and not realizing it?
Run
I want to get better I want to be better I want to get over them and not stuck in the past and move on so bad. I tried therapy journal reading books basically almost all the things people usually say to do to be healed
This is why so many women become completely wary and avoidant of backrubs. So many men only do it when they want sex.
My story: I was involved with a man with about $300k student loan debt that he had carried for 15+ years (and continues to carry). I loved him. What made me walk away was the….this is harsh but it’s my opinion…. stupidity of pursuing degrees (plural) in a field that is historically low paying. That much debt for a career where $75k/year is the high end of the scale? Yeah yeah yeah… helping people … blah blah blah. But helping people while dooming one’s self to a lifetime of poverty? It was a turn off and as the relationship went on, I felt less and less attracted to and connected with him.
My point regarding a “contest” was that the relative merits of which home is or is not more comfortable is a secondary issue to the overall question since discomfort is not truly a quantifiable metric. That your home is not comfortable for him and his home is not comfortable for you is a sufficient basis for needing to come to a fair and equitable solution – although the twin bed thing is absurd for a grown adult wanting a relationship with another person.
No matter whether you start splitting time, you are well within any reasonable compromise to insist that he get a larger bed – full size at a minimum. Also, agree to BOTH parties stocking certain foods/snacks of equal costs, as well as stuff like soap, shampoo, and other similar stuff for bathing or other reasonable morning habits.
Can’t say I blame you.
Divorce incoming. 14 months or less. Cheating lying manipulating wife.
What guys? I never realized masturbation was so restrictive.
Report his assault to Tinder
this relationship is going nowhere fast. go get your car, fool.
People are allowed preferences. Entitled much?
You’re not dating. You’re the back up plan for if something better doesn’t come along. Next.
My partner has my password because he loses his phone like twice a day and picks mine up to call himself lol. He also reads my screen when I have the gps on. I don't have his password because I always know where my phone is and we always use my gps.
No I'm still very confused. I don't know what is true and what to believe!
What does that mean? If you work out? I don't understand that at all. So if you break up you're gonna online together? Do you understand why I am confused?
And I am helping them with it.
Time to go full ham, OP.
He starts making sounds? Act super shocked “oh no honey, are you hurt? Jesus, you sound so in pain, wait, let me get the car, we gotta go to the ER!”
Do that EVERY SINGLE TIME. Take it completely seriously, OP.
Your husband is a full blown actor, trying to make you feel like you are hurting him by asking him to do stuff. So act right back. Talking apparently doesn't work with people like that.
Leave she's having an affair.
It's dangerous but it's also something I regret not doing when I was younger (I'd feel lame doing it now). If he doesn't do it he'll probably (on a long enough timeline) resent you for it.
I agree with you: Motorcycles are more dangerous than cars. There's no disputing this. Even the best motorcyclist in the world is going to splat when a distracted driver turns left right in front of their path. That being said- it's not so dangerous that I'd lose sleep over it.
No I am not ignoring that. Again, I stated the exact opposite, that you should go see a doctor if you restrict to an unhealthy amount of calories before kissing weight.
You simply are ignoring everything I've said, and replacing it with a made up argument you also don't like.
Yes you are. You're more worried about overweight people taking my point that these dysfunctions exist and that they might remain overweight as a result. It's in your very first response.
They exist. Your fear of overweight people and being overweight doesn't change that fact. These conditions also have diagnostic tests and treatments that will get your body into a healthier place, where CICO will actually apply in a healthy way.
See, before I got my diagnostics back, I would have taken a response like yours and just dropped my calories further because clearly 800 a day was too much and I ~must be miscounting. And you've insisted that I misunderstood my doctors. I didn't. If I was eating more calories than I thought, I wouldn't have the test results that I have. You never know when someone you're encouraging to eat less is someone susceptible to an eating disorder. Encouraging them to see their medical professional and validating their lived experience is far more likely to get them to help themselves. Have a good day.
He’s the one who wrote this post asking for help, not her. That’s why the questions and advice are around his behavior, not hers.
Make it clean. Don't drag your heels about it and just be as matter of fact as possible. You want different things in life right now, and don't think in the long run you'd be happy. End of. Try to avoid the sex topic, it won't help.
If you've got anything at her place, get it before the break up and make sure you leave nothing of yours behind that you'd want to get post breakup. If she has anything of hers at yours, pack it into a box, and hand her the box once you've broken up.
can we please ban this fucking question