Oof, sounds like some counseling could really help you two straighten some of this out. Either that or you need to stay nice and levelheaded and confront him about how this makes you feel. I personally look back at people from high school all the time and see where they’re at, with some repeats of the ones I crushed on. It’s not in a sexual way, and maybe it isn’t for your husband either. He could be staring at her and realizing the billet he dodged – or reflecting on all he has now that he could’ve missed out on. Or, it could just be sexual and her pics are his personal porn – which sounds gross I know, but if the rest of the relationship is on point, then counseling is likely the best way to go
i didn't even have to read to tell you that you should always be upfront and tell someone you know they're getting cheated on. No bro/girl code, no “it's none of my business”. You'd want to know if it happens to you (which it did).
PS: obviously don't make a crusade of it, by contacting all his future gf's, explaining his past. But if you know her, don't hold back. These kind of people ruin it for the rest of humanity.
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Oof, sounds like some counseling could really help you two straighten some of this out. Either that or you need to stay nice and levelheaded and confront him about how this makes you feel. I personally look back at people from high school all the time and see where they’re at, with some repeats of the ones I crushed on. It’s not in a sexual way, and maybe it isn’t for your husband either. He could be staring at her and realizing the billet he dodged – or reflecting on all he has now that he could’ve missed out on. Or, it could just be sexual and her pics are his personal porn – which sounds gross I know, but if the rest of the relationship is on point, then counseling is likely the best way to go
Valentines day is on a Tuesday this year. Just plan something special for a different day
i didn't even have to read to tell you that you should always be upfront and tell someone you know they're getting cheated on. No bro/girl code, no “it's none of my business”. You'd want to know if it happens to you (which it did).
PS: obviously don't make a crusade of it, by contacting all his future gf's, explaining his past. But if you know her, don't hold back. These kind of people ruin it for the rest of humanity.