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Abusers and predators often use that self doubting tendency to their advantage. If they see that you already doubt yourself, it’s much easier for them to gaslight you and convince you why you are wrong.
When I was trying to get out of my abusive relationship, I found it helpful to run every single one of my relationship doubts through my sister. She helped me realize that I wasn’t “crazy”, “dramatic”, or “over thinking everything” and that he was in fact abusive.
Know that you ARE making the right choice in cutting him off and possibly pursuing police intervention. There are zero doubts in my mind about that! If you begin to doubt yourself again (I know that I frequently did), refer back to this thread and remember that Reddit all believes in your decision.
A lot of Engineers in the US are very touchy on the subject of military vs civil aviation jobs and have a moral standing against working in the military side. Its possible that this is where your husband is having difficulty. Other than that it may be that he's had clashes with management and simply doesn't want to work with them. Either way he's given you a reason.
I'm also an Aerospace Engineer but in the UK and here there's no such moral qualms about working in the defence industry for most people.
It's called discipline, sacrifice, good decision making, and making solid career moves to advance. That all takes time. Anyone can ring up a pack of Skittles.
Like I said in my earlier post. I did most of the housework because she was always tired after her cushy job. So, unless I wanted to see everything go to hell I either had to do it myself or hire a bunch of people to do it for me.
Either way, it came down to a severe imbalance on who was providing what in the relationship… not just monetarily. She's a woman though so she had no problem finding another guy to bounce to that'd pay the bills for her. I still love that girl. But, objectively she's a hobosexual.
Firstly go back home and find a good stable job. Get your life in order. Also demand a paternal test. Based on how you said she treated you and had you sleeping else where it seems possible she had others and you was just a tool. If the test comes back you are the father then get custody.
He doesn’t want to go. He WILL go if you ask, but it doesn’t sound like he wants to hang out. If you’re hoping to get back together, this ain’t the one.
She was already doing it
I already answered another comment about this, we have discussed this and both agreed we may want kids later in life which a vasectomy doesn’t allow for.
We didn’t think much of it it was just watching the tv
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Eh, firstly there arent really flowers this time of year, and its more about the symbol instead of the thing itself. I don’t know her well enough yet, that I could bring anything personally significant enough that it’d matter
I'm at work and this comment made me laugh out loud. Thanks you, I'll definitely keep that in mind.
Sounds like he’s given up and just wants out.
You are still young, get the divorce, learn from it, try again.
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I really admire your strength, courage voice and determination. Happy new year to you too ✨
To me, the usage of “legit medical” implies that she has looked into it and is familiar with the phrase, just less so the medical significance.
Which i think is appropriate, as it is not her body and she should trust her partner to take care of his own issues
If he would be very against it, and he finds out later, it's gonna be an issue.
To fuck with your head. Don't fall for it. She wants to unburden herself with the issue of her child in pain causing her pain for her actions. Also, is a way for her to try to get you back, or take your control of yourself without her coming to you, hat in hand… Instead she can't test the waters, see if it works, and if it's doesn't work then she can say to herself or anyone else that she only contacted you for her child and for herself. Run!
Her choice, her body? Yet she tells you not to masterbate. You are dating a control freak.
Is this friend normally a predator?
I’m Latina, my husband is not, so I was fully ready to be on your girl’s side, because it has happened to us a lot that my husband won’t dance with me, because he hates it, but he’s 100% okay with me dancing with other people.
But what she did does not sound like that at all! You were THERE dancing with her. What she did was so random I would have been very confused and upset about it as well.
In the rate occasion my husband does dance to a song (usually when he is already drunk) I am the happiest I don’t leave his side at all.
Like, there’s got to be more to the story because none of this adds up. Do you think maybe she wants to break up with you??
She should be encouraged but not pressured. It's a healthy, natural, and enjoyable activity that she knows the both of you can enjoy together. Once she does it a few times the anxiety will either melt away or become a fun part of the game.
I am 22. Alrdy late for that. Decided to use protection instead. Shocker.
Your girlfriend didn't just get pregnant – you got her pregnant.
Sounds like you're making bad choices, and she doesn't want to deal with your immaturity at such a challenging time. Can't blame her.
He's extremely sweet
Rule #1
When a woman demands an open relationship she’s either already in one and just telling you now or she has someone in mind and doesn’t want to technically cheat. Considering she travels for business it’s almost certainly the first option and it’s been going on for long enough it’s getting serious
Sorry bud but it’s over, in her eyes your job is to be the dutiful walking ATM while she gets to go have fun with Manuel from accounting
Thoughts are with you brother, that’s a rough piece of news
The only way to make this right is to also give this guy a picture of your ass.
Bruh break up with him
I would place a solid bet they're in the UK
Nothing wrong with nostalgia.
Something wrong with insisting a partner wear matching nostalgia-clothing when they clearly don't share the same feelings of nostalgia.
Disney is your thing. Your error was trying to foist it onto him. That's what he meant about cults or religion – they tend to be known for proselytizing.
Bro. You know what to do. Don't be dumb.
This isn't a question anyone else can answer for you, you either decide that You want to be with him as he is, or you don't.
It's possible for someone to be a great person but not the right person for you, if he isn't able to give you what you need from a relationship, it's neither of your fault, you're just not compatible. It all comes down to what you both need from a partner.
Good luck on figuring this out, there isn't much outsiders from your relationship can do to help with this I think.
Probably would have been over and done with, but he said he wanted to do it. So, I left it to him.
Ok, but needing a divorce a few years from now or staying in a bad relationship because you’re married, will be a lot messier.
First thing I want to say is that dragging it out for longer will help no one and will probably hurt her even more. Been there, done that, and it wasn't good for anyone, it just bred the resentment from my side for a person who did absolutely nothing wrong by me.
On the other hand, I would think about where the issue lies and if it's something that can be fixed. Because being attracted to your partner is your mindset and it can be worked on, if you really want to. As you said, you lost interest because you kept looking at things outside of your relationship, it's also possible to gain that interest looking back into it. But you must be sure you want it and you want to work on it.
Some issues in relationships are irreparable and irreconcilable, but I think the key to having a long lasting relationship is to learn to love your partner through the life changes and through different stages of their growth (obviously doesn't apply to toxic and abusive situations, but even there can be exceptions)
And I’m honestly thinking that an open relationship where we’d both see other people for a while might drastically help us
Yeah….break up. If this came to your mind do not marry him. You jumped to opening the relationship immediately? You guys are doomed…
Is it extreme, to say she hates you- yes. And something to discuss about as It's hurtful and uncalled for.
However, she's asked something fairly simple of her and you're choosing to ignore it. It's not even a difficult ask. Maybe put some alarms in your phone that are called take her picture or something to remember to take her dang photo.
I have run into this with my husband. I've hundreds of photos of him and our toddler but very limited photos of myself and LO and it sucks. Lots of moments not captured that I'd appreciate having. He's better about it now but he did take the time to listen to me and try to do better.
Maybe right now it doesn't seem important to you but as your child grows and if you two stay together you might like to see photos of the mother of your child with your child
I wish it was that easy, I moved to the usa 2 years ago and I’ve been working since I’m 14. I have never had sex with any person for money btw
Depends on a couple things You have every right for this to be a deal breaker for you some people just don't like their significant others being friends with people who've seen them hard and that's okay it's normal for people who used to sleep together to be friends me and my bf had this struggle towards the beginning I was friends with people I slept with Because I'd been friends with a lot of them before sleeping with them but he wasn't okay with that so I dropped the ex flings and ex's who'd seen me hot we're both friends with other ex's though he has an ex who gave him a handy who he's friends with and I never had an issue with their friendship personally. It's okay for them to be friends and completely possible however you have a right to be uncomfortable this may show you guys are just incompatible.
Also how long have you guys been dating because If it's under 6 months I'd say she told you in a timely manner.
And what do you mean by in her dream? Sex dream mentions would be a deal breaker personally but just saying “I had a dream and you happened to be in it” is vague and no harm done
I’m so sorry, OP. You sound like a very loving person! I don’t have answers, but I feel for you, and also for people who have been struck with disability and are forced to rely on others for help. 🙁
OP, you are not a monster. You are understandably struggling under many expectations, responsibilities, and roles.
How old is your stepson? He absolutely should have, at least, developmentally appropriate chores. Sit him down, explain your expectations using 'I' statements, and have rewards or consequences depending on if he completes the tasks or not. Add in that you appreciate his help yada yada.
If you can and if you would be up for it, seek a care giver support group for resources. At the very least, maybe you find friendships, understanding, and support.
Carve out 10 minutes to do something just for you. OP, you are taking on so much. There is nothing wrong with you. My partner is struggling with alcoholism. Though it is definitely not the same thing you are going through, I've had similar destructive thoughts. You deserve care, respect, and love.
Get a divorce, do you really want to stay with someone who has feelings and cheating on your ass with someone else. It's better to drop him for the sake of your child
This guy is a bum. Do you really want to be married to this???
Move on
Also, been together about 5 years total.
My boyfriend is this amazing loving, supportive guy.
Yea…your whole post suggests the opposite of loving and supportive and sounds more like controlling and manipulate.
Don’t worry about making him see your side. Just make it very, very clear that you know that he RAPED you and you can’t be convinced otherwise. He absolutely, positively raped you.
Have your parents known about you and your gf expecting? Because that can be used as “the carrot” to lure them away from the ex.
This is the thing, you can say to them 'sure, I'll respect that you guys enjoy her company. BUT, at the very least, do not invite her when I'm visiting or if I come with my gf to visit.'
The reality is, you should take precedence over the ex-gf… if your family is unwilling to be respectful toward you and your new gf, unfortunately, you may have to go as LC or even NC with them.
Would that be okay with me? Hell no.
The hypocrisy of Reddit is pretty hilarious though. Came here from another thread about a wife who can't get over her ex. Apparently people on Reddit think fantasizing about random people and exes is completely fine, but looking at their nudes is wrong. A fine line eh.
Why can’t she paint some card ? Instead of painting huge pieces, she can expresses her art on smaller surfaces !
Ask her when she is getting a new car