Respect him and give him what you promised – a break.
After which you either go separate ways or get back stronger than ever before.
In the mean time think what YOU want from the relationship and what you might've pushed to the back of your mind and try to understand where he is coming from.
You 2 need to sit down and have an open, honest conversation about birth control.
This relationship is doomed to failure if you keep hiding what you’re doing from him. He likely to think something like, “Why would OP hide using birth control from me? If she’s hiding that, what else is she hiding?”
No single method of birth control is 100% effective, except abstinence, and most people don’t want that. You’re a bit more focused on not getting pregnant than most people I know, but it’s your body. Make yourself comfortable.
Respect him and give him what you promised – a break.
After which you either go separate ways or get back stronger than ever before.
In the mean time think what YOU want from the relationship and what you might've pushed to the back of your mind and try to understand where he is coming from.
And what exactly does that mean? “Talk earnestly”?
You 2 need to sit down and have an open, honest conversation about birth control.
This relationship is doomed to failure if you keep hiding what you’re doing from him. He likely to think something like, “Why would OP hide using birth control from me? If she’s hiding that, what else is she hiding?”
No single method of birth control is 100% effective, except abstinence, and most people don’t want that. You’re a bit more focused on not getting pregnant than most people I know, but it’s your body. Make yourself comfortable.