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Date: October 13, 2022
He does not respect your career choice or even your choice to dress in whatever you want. He’s too insecure for your choices. Ive found that once you let go of what doesn’t work, what does work will eventually find you. You’re in love and may take a while to see that but you will and when you find what works for you.
I’ve heard of this crazy thing called a conversation before. Maybe that’s too outlandish.
You can't trust your own opinion of your looks especially if you're depressed.
try r/amiugly and ask what you can do to improve.
It is healthy. I make love to my boyfriend once a week and it's lovely. I only see him as much as I can and there's nothing wrong with that!!!
You are wasting 23 year old you! Enjoy your life! Find a sexually comparable partner (or several.) This is the care free time in your life, don’t miss out on this time for someone who isn’t in the same like phase or has the same interests.
Out of curiosity, like what? She has some insecurities that need time to heal.
You honestly think he's a “good man”?
What?! Eating a woman out is one of my favorite things to do! No asking required.
Something isn’t quite right. Have you both tried sitting down together to talk about it?
It’s not healthy for the relationship if he continues to dodge the subject without addressing it.
Tiktok spreading narcissism and cluster b delusional behaviour? Who woulda thought lol
I am so so sorry this is happening to you but you need to leave him. I have had bouts of being uncomfortable with sex, not due to assault but I think my medication messes with my drive. I’ll not want anything to do with sex for a month or two and my fiance patiently waits, he never pressures me. Once or twice he might start kissing on me to get me in the mood but if it doesn’t work and I say no, he returns to cuddling me with no argument or pressure. This guy does not seem to understand consent or boundaries and I’m afraid he may hurt you further in the future. I know it’s hard because you know him so well but please leave him.
Since I'm off work tomorrow i guess I'll just have to confront her directly when we're alone
Thank you.
I keep hoping there is an angle or approach that I have not considered.
DNA test. Question everything
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This sounds like a really exhausting relationship. Glad you are thinking about a fresh start
It's hilarious to me that you cooking a dish for your shitty husband is what you consider rash.
Fucking go snip the cords to those Bass speakers. Dip all his shoes in water. Tell his family his shitty behavior is why you're no longer attending at all.
By cooking for him, you're telling him that you're willing to sweep all this under the rug so he can go play presentable to his parents. You're hiding his bad behavior and if it turns into abuse, you'd probably hide that, too.
Then you can’t be surprised or upset that she… continues to be the person she’s always been. If the issue is a lack of connection because your time is eaten up by work and kids, that’s something you need to work on together, not by you deciding that she simply must give up her mornings—that’s not going to be a productive convo to have with her.
I’d approach it very simply. Just tell her basically what you’ve already posted here: “Wife, I feel like you and I are not getting to spend quality time as a couple lately because of our differing schedules and I miss you. I want us to find a solution to this as a team, do you have any ideas or suggestions?” And then you go from there.
That's a tricky one! I definitely understand where you're coming from. If I was just going to be Machiavellian about it, I would suggest that she'll probably get bored after six months of monogamy. Maybe just play it cool?
It's about 13 in 1000. Not actually entirely irrational. 13 doesn't go into 1000 perfectly but that's 1 in 77ish.
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If you’ve bever been together then just break it off and get back together if he ever moves to the area. Otherwise you’re just wasting time. Indefinite ldr is too hard imo cus there’s no end point
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You literally described red flags in your OP though? Even called them red flags yourself.
Inanity to control ones temper is a red flag, threatening breakups with arguments is a red flag, hell crying on his knees about how much he loves you in such a short time frame comes across a bit like love bombing (especially doing so after the breakup threats) and is a red flag.
State boundaries
Ignore it and delete the number.
Tell her now that you’re never going to propose so she either accepts it or stops wasting her time and leave.
Does it seem to me that staying with her would be a good option. First of all that was her showing you how much her child meant to her versus her infidelity. Second of all, you do not stay in a toxic relationship for a child. As a child will absorb what’s going on, and will ruined their life. So for the sake of the child see a lawyer, and get yourself away from a cheater.
We met at the skate park randomly one time and i just started to ask her questions, i asked Where she studies , What major etc and Thats when she lied. So we didnt even know each other before
Yeah, but this is a big issue. Especially for so early on this is the honeymoon phase. Where are you like everything they do. That’s why it feels so good to you right now it’s the honeymoon phase. For you clearly it’s not for her or she wouldn’t of done that.
If someone showed up at my house and told me their partner was home sick with a fever I’d never invite them over again
I had one done last year and it improved my life, so I recommend ‘em if you have an opportunity!
What is the issue with her having a fling with this person?
Again, I was pointing out what he had done.
You seem really fun at parties, insulting people and twisting words. Have a nice day.
It's only going to be more painful for him to be with someone who can't love him properly like they would in a healthy relationship. It's better to get it over with to begin the process of moving on instead of drawing out the heartbreak.
First, you did the right thing. You deserve someone who is capable of going to a family event or doctor.
Second, your uncertainty suggests you need some professional help understanding what a good relationship looks/feels like.
I am sorry but he is 51 and displaying the sexual maturity of a 17 year old. You said no and he raped you. And you come here to ask what to do? Dump him.
Lol stop being weird. He imagines another girl instead of you and you’re acting delusional
Looks like we both got downvoted, though I DO understand why they would do it. We brought a highly unneeded and morbid twist to this.
But just the thought of a partner even thinking about it is going to turn off most people.
No, like I said I’ve never taken MDMA, I was only telling my experience on coming down from a drug trip and trying to have a serious convo with my husband.
Well, you want to get married, you just do not want to get married to HER.
Is she aware? I doubt it.
And that means you are robbing her of her own conscious choice. Otherwise, you would've spilled the beams amd let her find someone who would be excited to marry her amd her only.
I don’t get this. I’m a wife of a guy that likes gaming. We are happily married going on 15 years. It’s a stress/anxiety relief for him and he enjoys it. I watch some shows and do things I like. We can’t be everything for our partners all the time and we need to have our own things we do ourselves. I would never ask my husband to give up gaming or any hobby unless it was legit getting in the way of our relationship or family or an addiction. If not, what’s the problem?
Don't go see her. You deserve someone who loves and cares about you and respects you. She doesn't do any of those things.
Okay I’ll definitely make a plan B, and save up. I would also have a job lined up, both of those things I had been planning to already. What do you suggest I do? On-line alone first? That would also be a huge issue with my parents, and I think I rlly need the support of my bf when I move out, either to online w him or without him. Either way, moving out alone is also against my parents rules.
Oh yeah man don’t mention it. I wish I could go back in time to tell myself how inconsequential dating around is I would.
Tell her you’re Latino.
Was his parents abusive or what happened to him in the childhood?
Your opinion in this matter is irrelevant. If she doesn't want to talk about it, you have to accept that.
It doesn't make sense to seek to be in a relationship and not seek to be attached to people. You shouldn't expect people to be abusive or take advantage of you. Being a decent person should be a requirement.
I suggest that you put more emphasis on screening people. Rather than worrying about getting attached to them.
For example, seriously make a checklist. With things like
Must show you proof of interactions with family prior to getting into a relationship Must show you history of past relationships
Just say, I'm not really into anything anal, I would try pegging if it was maybe once or twice a year, but if you are only turned on by anal then maybe we are incompatible.
Honestly? Stop overthinking it. He needs to know if this lasts, your relationship WILL change. That's a part of the pros/cons of being with this woman.
Just say it.
She's not my cup of tea. However, she's your gf so I'm at a loss how we continue to have the same relationship since you are likely spending a lot of time with her. I wouldn't enjoy our time together with her there. That said, your relationship isn't my choice and I don't want to interfere with it.
I honestly would just prefer to avoid her for now given our different values (discuss privacy). I might hang out with you both more occasionally, but I absolutely do not want to be filmed. After she posted me on-line, I don't trust her to respect my boundaries because she hasn't. Given that, I'm avoiding her, not you.
Then just have a conversation about setting a night every week/every other week aside to hang. Maybe when his gf is filming and your brother isn't involved. Ask your bro if he would be okay with you guys having bro-nights.
Maybe he's weirded out that you're with a guy closer to his age than yours? I'm not sure that's fixable.
You say that now but what when he's being embarrassing in front of people! /s
Don’t make him cheat and don’t be friends with him, but if you really like him tell him how you feel and that he can call you if/when he is single.
Through this confrontation, I just want to remind him that what he is doing is wrong and I am strongly against it. I will give him a chance to end it all with that woman and come clean to my mom. I will remind him that the next few months are already going to be hard for her with me leaving and how he needs to be with her.
If worst comes to worst and he tries to lie or refuse to talk about it, I will simply tell him that if you're not going to tell her i will.
He is usually a very reasonable person and if its coming from me he will understand it. I just feel like my mother would appreciate it more if he told her about this himself.
Although, the other side is if I tell my mom, my work is done. It is now up to them to talk about it and make the necessary decisions. But this step has its own shortcomings, as I don't have any real proof. Its really my word against his. (But it will still be really naked to deny if she tells him the name of the contact he has the woman saved as). Plus I am worried my mom will act on impulse and take some steps which would be beneficial for nobody.
It is also important to note that I am not sure of the extent of this relationship. I know they talk to each other daily but its very hot to say how far they've went.
Yup. Nothing you can do but be miserable for the rest of your life… Since she obviously has no control of it
You can either get used to breakups or start making some better fucking life decisions.
I doubt he even really loves the other women for her. He might just be obsessed by the version of her he had created in his head. He is probably remembering things with her as being better than they actually were as well.
The level of unreasonable blame he is placing on OP is concerning.
I would probably pack my bags asap and go to a place of safety. No knowing how he will respond to OP trying to leave him.
Yeah I'm sure, other friends were already cut up because I told her they didn't ever gave me a chance to get along, always against me for some reason. I told her I shut up and tried to get along so many times and I was done, they either make some effort to get along with me at least for her sake, or they needed to go. So she msde distance from them, and was talking only with this one girl who never bothered me before this. Now after the lsst episode she cut off this girl too.
Anyways most of the times she communicates me as I always insisted on that, but sometimes it's like a certain gear in her brain suddenly starts rotating and there's no stopping her. And she does have many insecurities, which I've done my best to help with and she's supposed to work on them with her therapist.
He has had a few and he’s done the same with every single one of them. As for the game night it’s a great idea but unfortunately the answer will most likely be a no
First of all, yes you should be there.
Secondly, why WOULDNT he shut that down right away? That’s suspicious.
The first time I had some last minute Christmas shopping and the second time she was doing OT and I didn’t want her to rush home to get to the restaurant as it closed at 9
That’s also a weird side yes, I wish I could go back but I would definitely not for self respect. She wants to stay friends as she still has a lot of feelings for me. I have this gut feeling she wants to get back at me when she’s back in the country.
It's nothing to do with bipolar. What she said actually makes sense, it's just that the OP in particular didn't understand it. If I were pushed to diagnose I'd guess maybe on the autism spectrum, some people with autism are so centric that they assume that if they know something then everyone else does too, hence leading to the frustration she's experiencing.
You're obviously not ok about it
How did they destroy your trust?
Completely true. She mentioned in a comment he used to go clubbing as well, so he was for sure ok with it back then.
good points. Repercussions he may not know yet career wise.
I mean I obviously am attached to her. But it's true that this behavior is not acceptable in my opinion.
He is….37? Wow
OP – is your partner carrying all of the burden when it comes to prevention of pregnancies? Or are you willing to do your part and at least wear condoms?
Too many men refuse to do their part and expect that the woman bears all responsibility, which, considering she's already given you several children, is a pretty selfish ask.
Mr.chubby did all this and ain’t give a girl no advice. Wtf are you here for move along….
Performing isn’t just about physical function though, mental health is a big part. There are 5 year olds out there dealing with more stress than I do most days and I’m also 30.
Do not let him move in with you!!! You'll never be able to get rid of him!
Do not let him move in with you!!! You'll never be able to get rid of him!
If the guy didn't bang you for 1 year, then maybe he's got problems, or maybe he's just “a nice guy”. Go find a guy that is a real man that'll take care of ur needs
you’re totally right oh my god
I very sadly realized that yesterday. I tried having a good day with him, but my stomach was hurting very bad and he found a way to make it all about me not loving him or wanting to give him affection. I don't even get how he could think I would want to after knowing what I know. He wants a mother's love, but he's done too much that even a mother would have to love from a distance. Thank you so much for stopping by. Even just the red flags as a comment I'd helpful. Identifying gets hard when you have to figure out if you're crazy or not.
He wants Open, you need Closed.
You are incompatible so you need to end this relationship for the good of both of you.
He’s also trying to emotionally manipulate you (“ if you loved me you would…” and that’s worth breaking up all by itself.
I pray for some of you Men. Openly accepting disrespect and settling for Women that outright tell you and show you that you’re a clear backup plan for when she can’t get the Man she actually wants
This sounds extremely insecure and unhealthy on his behalf