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Get as much documentation on the affair as you can.
Sorry, but you two need to brake up. I don't think you can solve this relationship. And i need to say, that i personally think your Cheating is worse. You cheated emotionally for 10 month and she “just” fucked another guy. I think you both should separate and work on yourself, otherwise you cannot heal from the emotional damage that you have inflicted on yourselves.
His future has been ruined by him a long time ago.
Call the cops
Whew, you lost me at bipolar…don't even.
I(30sF) don't sexualize my breasts because I do not feel any sexual gratification from them. I don't mind when my husband touches/plays with them, but it does not arouse me. It's just not one of my erogenous zones. To me, they are there for the utilitarian purpose of one day feeding a child.
But, that isn't to say I have no erogenous zones. If playing with her boobs isn't fun for you because it's not fun for her, and you want your pleasure to be mutually beneficial, then find out what does work for her. Foreplay can involve whatever body parts you want.
If you need her to find sexual gratification specifically from having her breasts stimulated, then yeah you should break up. But, it's kind of a weird hill to die on.
You should go for the one you love and who loves you back, someone who you trust and trusts you, who shows you respect and kindness
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He’s a good dad to our other kid
Hes not. If he is a shit dad to 1 kid, he is NOT a good dad in any sense.
he is traumatizing tf out of her. in every way.
he wont stop.
this is enough to leave him over, IF u want contact with ur child in the future. Subjecting her to this racist, sexist abuse makes u complicit.
they’re just saying hurtful words but it sounds like a complicated situation and best to move on to different friends for a while.
I can say I’ve been there and I don’t know why guys do this but I can guarantee it will not result in some happy great relationship. We are all complex with lots of emotions and it is normal this would stir up emotions. Keep working on yourself it can take a long time and lots of ups and downs but that is part of growing. It is hard to let go of hope but probably best to ask him not to contact you again and then block him.
What kind of childish behavior is this to print divorce papers after a few days of conflict? If anything, you are confirming suspicions she might have about you cheating when you do readily offer a divorce.
Don't get me wrong, she is equally childish for not talking this out better, but you are both acting like kids in this.
You should both go your separate ways and not get married until toy are able to have a grown up conversation about tough issues.
That makes sense! Depression is something we both deal with.. Lack of sex makes me more depressed though.. haha
actions have consequences. lying about drug use is a massive red flag.
go NC and move on.
Appearance and personality are two different things. Your sister may be more beautiful than you, so what? This fact isn't going to change just, because you change partner, or run away. Your bf loves you not just for how you look, but for who you are.
There is nothing wrong with the fact, that should he not know you as a person and was only judging by the looks he might have chosen your sister over you. It doesn't matter, because your appearance fundamentally isn't you. Sure how fit you are, whether you care for your skin etc, it is a result of your personality, but raw biological features are not. If he loves you for who you are and given choice would surely choose you over your sister, it means you are better than her in other, non visual aspects (aka personality).
It's not exactly strange, I have known gorgeous girls that after knowing them closer were losing my interest very soon, due to their not the greatest personality of theirs. Fundamentally what makes or breaks relationship is how you act and who you are so don't feel bad about it.
Send her this thread and dump her
Hey it sounds like you’re doing all of the right things so far. Follow her lead while she works through this.
I’m rural too—reach out to offices in cities and see if they’ll do video appointments.
Stop doing things for him when he’s sick and stop doing things when you’re sick. In my opinion, people shouldn’t be preparing food when sick cause I find it to be a bit gross.
Same. Three times a week is excessive. I also wonder if the coworker knows he is married, seeing as he likes to keep “small” things to himself…
Keep us updated
Even this, nah.
She can't expect communication that even she doesn't do.
Because it's code for 'you're being unfriendly or rude and I'm assuming it's your problem, not something I did'.
So a 19 year old man started dating a 15 year old? Is my math right here?
Well I won't do live! dating. I've refused to do that. I feel I have pretty good social skills and get along well with coworkers, classmates, family, etc. Lots of fun hobbies where I have to interact with new people. Doing great at college. It's just factually more difficult making new friends in your 30s. The people I knew in high school stopped reaching out. I'm not perfect, but I've seen far worse that have been more successful than me.
What does he have to be accountable for?
I don't know if you've ever experienced anything like this. With the excitement of new feelings, it may be too late to see what the people you idealize in your head are really like.
I'm aware of the fact that I should be the one to think reasonable at the first place before getting into a relationship with him bu it all happened way too fast
I would split it all 50/50 with someone you call your partner for your shared living environment
Edit: how much money are we talking about here?
Exactly this. This is why loss often ends up destroying a relationship. You cut yourself off from supporting and being supported. And that division festers and destroys the bond you have.
Omg she’s training you to be hyper vigilant and compliant. If you love the idea of taking the blame for not being able to read her mind, no matter how little she says, does, or shows, then stay with her. If you love being manipulated and always answering to her mother, stay with her. If you love the idea of always having a MIL who will abuse you, stay with her.
Otherwise…you don’t even need to meet once more.
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Can you further elaborate?
Three things:
1) Like everyone else here said, your brother was being blatantly racist. He deserved consequences for his comments and is in no position to demand anything from you. He was in the wrong and needs to apologize.
2) The violence your BF showed is quite concerning. Is your boyfriend normally violent? Is hitting people his go to solution for all of his problems? Would he hit you? These are important questions to have answers to. I’m not saying that your brother didn’t deserve the slap, he definitely did. But I am worried that this could be a warning sign of a potentially abusive partner. Please be on guard.
3) You need to decide how you feel and how you move forward from here. If you don’t think your brother was in the wrong, or if you feel like the slaps were unacceptable, then you have every right to leave. You and the BF need to have a discussion about this no matter what your feelings about this interaction are. You should probably also discuss it with your parents, make sure that they know the whole story and know how you feel about what happened. It will come out eventually either way, it is best that you are honest and open with your parents.
It’s difficult when you’ve gone through so much together, we was best friends before we got together, and I keep asking him if he will change and he does change for about 2 weeks and then it goes back to this, I feel bad because I feel like it’s not his fault due to his mental health ?
And to add to that he does coke, gets drunk and then gets violent with op.
@op why are you with this man? How is this relationship amazing? No one who is a consolation prize and treated so bad has an amazing relationship.
I’m scared to ask for the more
and i don’t mean to be toxic. It’s just an instinctual reaction. I told him I probably have trauma to work through so it’s prob not a good idea to be with anyone anyways. I don’t understand why you sound so offended lol
You shouldn’t have to ask for money! If you are the SAHP then you should have access to money.
How is the household chores split? Childcare split?
What would happen if you decided that you want to go back to work full time? How would bills be split then? Childcare split? Household chores split?
I agree. OP is not ready to get married. Wedding is really about OP’s love for the boyfriend. It’s to celebrate the love relationship. But OP makes it all about the daughter’s dress and the boyfriend made it all about him. These 2 shouldn’t get married at all. There is a huge lack of respect for each other.
Oh sweetheart he’s lying for sure ?
Get out while you still can and thank what ever you believe in there was no kids. Just run and don't look back. You deserve better.
All you can hope for is that he will forgive. You cannot make him love you anymore. All you can do is ask for time to prove yourself. And pray that he will give you the opportunity. He’s deeply hurt right now. You might read books on how to save your relationship and see if there are subreddits here on how to save your relationship after infidelity.
But you better be prepared in the case that your partner is not willing to forgive. My friend cheated on her husband. He was willing to forgive but understand that the damage from this will last for years.
She told me she was prepared to apologize a thousand times a day for the rest of her life if necessary.
There’s no trick. There’s no magic words. The only thing that matters is your partner has to be willing to try to work through it with you.
Good luck.