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Date: January 7, 2023
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Haha thanks, I take it as a compliment. I must've passed the reverse Turing test then.
I started my new job here 2 weeks ago! And yea I moved in with him (he takes care of all expenses)
And I totally agree, unfortunately I thought we were dating (somewhat steadily) for a year, apparently not on his end ? And yea, we have quite a difference of age – I do feel extremely taken advantage of. Just super conflicting because I feel like I do love him, and there have been signs of being more serious, but idk what to believe any more
You got a link?
Yea bruh sounds like the friend zone
Unfortunately, we've all been there. You post clearly shows you know three things:
What she's doing is wrong You're not at all comfortable with the whole situation You deserve better
Because you know the above three things, you know what must be done even if it hurts to walk away. We've all tried to hang onto partners that we wanted to be who we wished they were rather than who they actually were. We learn from those experiences AND they make us appreciate partners that treat us right all the more.
Yeah, I've had bottles in the past where you've got to tip them so a couple of pills come out, but never where half the bottle ends up in my hand. Palming is the only thing that really makes sense here.
I do agree with what someone else said – the solution to the cats safety well-being is to move the bowls, but I actually think they might be a bigger issue here.
I mean, I feel like the reason “leave him” is such a cliche in reddit-advice is because people tend to come here when they’ve tried to approach something every way they can think of and they’re hoping there’s one magical trick they somehow forgot. But you’ve tried leveling him, you’ve invited him to explore this topic, you’ve been honest and vulnerable about your own feelings, you’ve been as non-judgmental as you can be expected to be …what is there left?
If I had a ray-gun that could zap the repressed hatred of women out of men, I’d lend it to you. And I REALLY wish I did, that’s honestly the dream. But if he won’t engage what is there to do? If he doesn’t care about your feelings enough to go deeper on this? What does that say about his investment in the relationship? If he doesn’t care about women being exploited, degraded and hurt—what does that say about him? You’re stuck on what to do about him because you’re running up against the fundamental truth that you can’t change people without their active and willing participation. So the question is: assuming nothing changes, is this something you’re willing to accept indefinitely? If not, leave.
So…..you have money to live on your own. Do that then.
Try to think about things that are likely to happen after you break up. You know he’s going to start dating again, probably pretty soon. He’s also likely to have people over. You can probably trust him to respect your things, but you do have to worry about his future GF or any friends on the hate train of u/Skrumply.
Continuing to pay your half of the lease is about all he can expect from you, and you from him. Hopefully he keeps up his end, but be prepared for him to rage quit the lease.
IMO – give him 30 days to clear out your storage building, but take everything that’s yours with you when you leave. Moving stuff out after a break up is just awkward and it sucks. There’s nothing you can do to make this better. Try to move most things when he’s not there, if possible. Don’t blindside him though. Let him know what you plan to take and when, as well as what you plan to leave. That’s just good courtesy.
Question: Is this breakup something he knows is coming, or is this going to catch him off guard?
Flip the script on her. Go through with the divorce and work on yourself being happy and have more confidence. At the end the baby daddy will pay the child support or your wife. You can get away before the marriage turns 10 years.
I mean, you basically described him as one of the worst boyfriends to have, and now you're wondering about his actions? 😛
Come one, you saw this one coming miles away… but you simply hoped for a better outcome so you tried anyway.
Does she spend a lot of time on tik tok or Instagram? She could be conditioning herself to be used to seeing women in makeup and that’s become the new norm for her. I remember I felt very pretty once so I decided to take a pic and even though I liked what I saw in the mirror when I saw myself on my phone I felt ugly cause I was used to seeing other women look a particular way on this device. I immediately thought my eyes looked beady and I came to realize it’s cause I didn’t have lash extensions like everyone I was seeing on Instagram. Stuff like that.
Yup, I’m pretty fucked up I guess
Ah, not this again, the prostitute protester. You must not have much to do with your life that this is how you like to spend your time, stalking your neighbors then complaining about them on Reddit.
If you have this baby you will be tied to your abuser for 18 years, if you're lucky your abuser will only abuse you and not your child. You can't protect your child from abuse when you live with them.
You don't have to stay with your abuser to have this kid, but your child will be around someone who has the potential to abuse them too when you're not around. So if you coparent your hild will still be around an abuser.
Either way you're having a child with an abuser, how do you know your child isn't the next victim.
Is it possible to put a child up for adoption? Would your partner be interested in this child if it was no longer used to control you? For instance if you ask him would he consider being a single parent what would he say?
You really need to think about what options you have and if he only wants a baby to control you, and what kind of psychological and physical abuse he will enforce on a child.
Someone might be offended by that question and that’s ok, and someone else might not be and that’s ok too. So this doesn’t read as him having poor impulse control, this reads as him thinking differently than you, and then when what he says bothers you, instead of say that and adjust together. You think it means he has poor impulse control. No, he’s allowed to think how he thinks and it’s actually healthy he shares that, and then recognizes it bothers you and apologizes and adjusts. What’s not healthy here is you assuming when he doesn’t think like you that he has an impulse control problem when really he’s just learning and adjusting to your preferences.
I’m sorry you’re going through this OP. You sounds like a sensitive/empathic person. I think finding a new group of good friends could help. Perhaps you could join a club or take up a new hobby to meet people? And only arrange to hang out with Nina away from Jodie.
There’s nothing wrong with how you communicate or being comfortable with silence and I hope you learn to feel good in your own skin. Those girls sound like bullies, who are mean and overbearing with everyone. There’s nothing wrong with you. Easier said than done, but I hope you can let their laughs and comments bounce off you and realise it’s all meaningless. You’re 18 so you have plenty of time to find ‘your people’. I’m glad you didn’t settle for friendships that make you feel less than you are.
You were upset this was shown to a guy, but yet you posted it live for the world to see. Sounds like maybe you are the problem
The good news about most of the assets already being in her name is that you have comparatively little that can be taken from you during the divorce. Walk away clean.
Dunno why you getting downvoted. It’s not like OP is a saint. She’s being shit by not actually being sexually attracted to him
Disgusting predator who could've avoided this mess completely. You're the only parent your boy had, and now you've fucked up his trust forever. This reminds me of that horrid new TV show, “milf manor” ??? there are some true sickos out there, and society today proving us that it's not just sleazy old men. Sleazy old hags now too. This post made me sick to the stomach. Glad you're not my mother ?
Welcome to South Carolina!
Kick him out.
As a fellow sex worker of 13 years, I want to tell you that your value as a person goes well beyond what you must do in order to survive. Also don’t place the burden of someone else misdeeds (infidelity or otherwise) on your shoulders, you only have control over what you do and not what others do. Their own choices rest solely on their own, nothing anyone has said or will say can make that change.
One thing about being in that industry is you get to see the ugly side of humanity, don’t let it win. You started at the same age as my older sister and she has never been the same, the best advice I can give you is seek counseling because it sounds like you are depressed. Don’t do any substances because that’s can be a very dark hole that is difficult to get out of
Shes sucking another mans dick thats what shes doing.
Thank you for being there for her. A lot of victims don't get the kind of support you're giving her. Good luck going forward!
You took risks because you were never averse to getting pregnant. Who knows where he stands on potentially becoming a dad again at age 45, but I would never assume a careless approach to contraception equates to a willingness to become a parent.
You will only know where he actually stands by communicating this news to him.
Listen to your gut OP. Sorry this is happening to you
Leave… Also a health nut with that weight? Yeah no just no…
OP should get wandering legs that lead her out the door. 4 fucking months and the dude is literally disrespectful to your face!!!
Why would u ever choose to put up with someone that has zero respect for you OP?
I think everyone who uses Snapchat is a cheater or dating a cheater (but most likely a cheater).