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It sounds like you and your boyfriend are going through a difficult time in your relationship. When it comes to contraception, it's important to have open and honest conversations with your partner and work together to find a solution that works for both of you.
It can be frustrating when one person feels like they are shouldering the responsibility for pregnancy prevention, but it's also important to recognize that preventing pregnancy is a shared responsibility. It's important to talk to your boyfriend about how you're feeling and encourage him to be a more active participant in contraception.
Additionally, it's important to have a conversation about his drinking and how it's impacting his sensory issues and sexual experience. If necessary, it might be helpful for him to seek professional help to address these issues.
Ultimately, it's important to approach this situation with empathy and understanding for both you and your boyfriend. It can be difficult to navigate these types of issues, but open and honest communication, along with a willingness to find a solution that works for both of you, can help you get through this challenging time.
Updateme!
No one ever needs sex.
Sex is like dessert, it’s nice to have but you don’t need it.
It appears your wife was acting in semi-good faith. Your actions thus far would make most people suspect you would be ok with open relatiobship polyamory. It is much better to be consistent on your monogamy, unless you are willing to all the way to the other side.
You should trust your gf, because she was only doing these things when under impresduon ypu eould be fine with this. Now that she knows it hurts you she decided to stop her activities.
I would say her “cheating” wasn't quite cheating, before she had grounds to believe you would not see it that way. You were fine with posting nudes and idea of threesome after all.
This decision, like the kids or not, leaves no room for compromise. In my mind marriage offers legal protection and makes the death of your spouse easier. Those things can be handled other ways, but marriage was the easiest. If you really don't plan to ever marry, end it kindly and move on.
If she doesn’t want children and you do. Putting aside everything else; that’s a deal breaker.
You want entirely different lives. There is no point in dating further. Which means you should just break up and pursue your list. You are wasting valuable time.
How do you feel about that? Would you be at peace with the man dying without spilling everything you have been holding?
Honestly micromanaging him isn't very helpful and will only make him resent you. Most overweight people know with their head that what they're eating probably isn't great. But food addictions can be very strong and very real. I think it would be great to both get on a healthy plan. Less eating out, prepare fresh meals at home, take walks together etc. Also your bf may benefit from seeing a nutritionist or therapist to deal with self esteem issues.
I’d sit down and talk to her, tell her the truth. If her lifestyle choices don’t mesh with yours and that’s a deal breaker for you, that’s valid
Wow how she reacted seemed to come from a place of fear that you didn’t actually want her for her, but just for how she could be a mommy sex role for you, but she did it in such a defensive mean way. Ouch. I would have trouble forgetting these words, it would always be an insecurity of mine if my partner reacted that way, and believe me it’s happened with people in the past. I have daddy issues because of abandonment myself, I’m sorry that you were made to feel like your sexual needs are something that’s wrong or inconvenient for a partner. Find the right one, and it won’t feel that way, it will something that fulfills you both. May I also suggest fetlife lol?
Yeah I think you should ask him about this and depending on his reaction should determine whether you give him another chance or cut ties
Thank you so much for this. I was originally hesitant to loop my boss or HR in since these incidents have been outside of work, but you’re advice on how to do so makes me feel much more comfortable with it.
Ummm, if your compass says this is wrong then ditch him. He clearly prefers younger women. You are almost a decade younger.
Is she colorblind?
Dude that last pass interference was bull call, nfl wanted chiefs to win they already have their next Brady lined up. Chiefs got favourable match changing calls both in conf championship and in Super Bowl
that is amazing advice! thank you very much.
gonna use every single bit of advice given here, hoping for the best.
If your best friend is truly just a friend (ie: you haven’t dated or hooked up with him in the past…) Then – Wait for a dude who is secure enough in himself to not be ridiculous about you having male friends. I went through something similar, until I was mid 30’s and dating mature, emotionally centered, and secure men. My dear friend and I both had this struggle, and both found that the issues/insecurities were just the tip of the iceberg with people who couldn’t handle us being friends. But we both eventually found successful relationships with secure & functional individuals – and its been amazing to do things together & keep our friendship.
He’s not married but he co parents and still lives with his ex, op stated in a further comment.
Definitely contact the husband. He can gather information on his end, and also check into this situation. Plus, it’s the right thing to do – you would want him to contact you. And if they are having an affair, which it sounds possible – they thrive in the dark and are best dealt with by being brought into the light.
I think you need to work on your insecurities because it's casuing you to be miserable and eventually it will exhaust him as well. Rock, paper, scisssors is like the best game to settle chores or bets or whatever. You are highly overreacting.
Yeah I'm kind of on the edge of break up but it's just such a dumb reason to break up that I'm kind of flabbergasted.
Some therapist have video intros, others will do a free intake or consultation appt. You can also treat your first appt like an interview. Google how to interview your therapist, read some articles and pick questions that speak to your priorities. One issue that often causes friction is if you have a history of invalidation or gaslighting. A therapist that isn’t skilled in validation, can be off putting or even make you feel worse. So asking how they address conflict and how they approach or use validation in therapy can be a good point to explore with them.
Eh I think it’s perfectly acceptable for op to point out he is also an alcoholic and even denied op the possibility of getting sober by saying he wouldn’t be with her anymore.
Tbh it sounds like without him, op can start working on sobering up and getting herself to a better place in life.
maybe you know so well because you’ve been in a similar position before? because with that mindset, you will most definitely fail 🙂 the ones who make it are the ones who don’t listen to these kind of voices and continue to persist through any obstacle or opinion.
I'm agreeing with the other commenter on this. Get to the drs asap and get screened for any remaining drugs that could be present and get tested for any STDs etc.
Also checked for signs of rape, rape and consensual sex leave different bruising. The fact he's being angry when you ask him questions is very suspicious. If he were being honest he would tell you what happened. Not get angry you were questioning the events of the night.
I hate to say this but until these feelings go there’s no way going forward. She doesn’t feel the same about you. How about hanging out with other friends or get a hobby where you can meet new friends?
Don't do anything further without talking to a lawyer. Get the best divorce lawyer you can find.
That’s an awful lot of potentially homosexual bullet points for someone who claims to be hetero. If that’s the case there is nothing ‘fixable’, plus he’s openly admitted to cheating. Cut your losses.
It totally does.
i just know it’s out of character for him to do anything to risk our relationship or to be disloyal in any way. as in, he has great character and is an amazing person, which is why it’s frustrated that i’m getting anxious over this
Uh, no? I’ve been with my partner for four years, do I want to marry him? No. Do I want to spend the rest of my life with him? Yes.
Bro. You guys are in your 30s, barely known each other for 2 months, this post screams of insecurity and reeks of jealousy and controlling behavior, Im honestly seeing a lot of red flags from you just based on this post, if you can’t even handle someone you aren’t exclusive with spending time with their friends just because they’re single then you probably shouldn’t be dating. Also it’s better that it’s 3 people going instead of just her and another guy.
Tell the boyfriends.
Oof, if he thinks that's disgusting, there is also the birth itself, your after birth healing, breastfeeding, permanent changes in your body. Then there's the baby, all puke and poo for like the first 2 years. I won't even get into what happens as you age. Will he support you through menopause or other “gross” natural things we all have to deal with? What if you are ever hurt and he needs to change your diapers?
His comments are so disgusting and immature for someone of his age, I would be having doubts about any long term relationship with him. I certainly would not want to procreate with anyone who thinks my body or my baby's body is “disgusting and cringe”
Ohhh my gosh.
Run for your life! From now on don’t trust that the woman is on BC, use condoms!
Absolutely STD test and dump
Stop playing stupid games.
he apologized and told me he loves me for my personality
Oooof. Does not make it better. Made it worse.
Look, you are losing desire for him because he doesn't make you feel good about yourself. That loss of desire you feel is your body protecting your heart and mind. You deserve better.
Nothing suss. …..
There are a few things missing from this post.
Why were talking to him in the first place? If that’s her ex – leave him in the past.
Those photos were probably taken during their relationship with trust that he wouldn’t share them with anyone.
If he sent them so willingly to you – I wouldn’t be surprised if he sent them to other people.
I would tell her everything and also stop talking to him. He is adding nothing to your lives except chaos
You are young. Never ever let yourself be convinced that if someone cheats on you you were the problem. If you hadn't been enough for, she could have broken up with you. There was no reason to cheat.
Do not marry a cheater, under any circumstances! Once a cheater, always a cheater.
A more reasonable thing would be they probably aren’t allowed to fish where they are fishing. There are a lot of places like this and there’s probably a fine tied to it if caught. Op clearly broke the groups trust by telling his girl where it is. If they are breaking the law I’m not surprised by their reaction.
It has gone through my mind that maybe it was slightly an ultimatum that hasn’t gone the way she planned but I think that’s probably too cynical of me !
My friends have been saying “the guy never lifts a finger for you” but I didn’t notice it until recently. It hurts because I really do love him. I’m sort of scared if I’m not useful anymore he’ll leave me.
I couldn't be in a relationship with someone so suffocating that I couldn't enjoy time with friends. Different strokes for different folks, eh!
You send him a message that any further contact attempts will constitute harassment and if he shows up at your home again, you will be calling the police. Document everything; consider installing security cameras around your apartment.
You are right i jst cant understand why they stay with these AH.
I would be psyched to get such sweet a well thought out gift. Something like that takes so much more effort and consideration than phoning in a flower order. I’d be blown away and I hope your lady loves it. ?
Sometimes, admitting that you've done all you can do is half the battle. You sound like a great dad and have tried to be a great husband. But like the old saying goes, “You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.” You've led the horse as far as it'll go.
Now you have to focus on your well-being and what's best for your kids. I wish you the best of luck
It's 10pm in South China. Valentines day is done for people in East Asia already.
Text her a happy Valentines day, and set up your next date
You're dating an immature boy.
If he were mature, he would still call you Minecraft Steve once, but after you ask him to stop, he would respect that request.
hahaha ok pal
You can't do anything, Your boyfriend is an actual racist and is gaslighting you. The only thing you can do is stand up for yourself and tell him that he is full of it and that his past experiences with other people don't reflect who YOU are
Cheaters get real paranoid about their SO's cheating. Just a lil tidbit which may or may not apply.
So then stop pursuing romantic relationships for a bit. People bitch about the friend zone but brother that's a great place to be. It'll teach you how to be comfortable respecting women without all the drama that comes with not being good at romance. It'll work out for you eventually but you'll have to learn to be ok with patience.
She’s too good for you do her a favour and let her find someone who deserves her
He uses the singular 'friend' though. Doesn't seem like a group showed up.
I typically do chip in, even when I'm overlooked.
I tend to be very “business life stays separated from personal life.” While some coworkers I'm close to will know about events, not everyone will.
That said, the flip has also happened. On my 40th birthday, there were old man signs posted all the way down to the entrance I used, up to my office and my cubicle was decorated to the nines. My team lead was an awesome person who I got close to, and she did major event planning. So, I got the most baller birthday response in the entire office.
Had I been detached from other stuff, there'd probably have been complaints. But it went off amazingly, so in my opinion this stuff is give and take.
Yeah that’s not a marriage
As for birthday, naturally if one refuses to celebrate their birthday, then their need needs to be respected.
Tell that to my family who like to say I'm being a baby when I refuse the day.
I'll also say, I've been single a very long time. Even when I'm not scheduled to work on days like Xmas, I'm picking up overtime those days.
you need to contact the authorities and his mother. This is serious shit.
If he wasn't grooming you, he wouldn't be so defensive.
It’s NOT an easy subject. You’re asking him to admit out loud to himself and to you (the woman he stands to lose) that he is a man who breaks promises, has no loyalty, thinks only of himself, lies to people, is untrustworthy, preys on naive/innocent people, sees vulnerabilities in others as a way to get ahead, misrepresents himself, cheats on his wife, has sex with drunk girls, we can go on and on. He’s not a good guy. You’re realizing it. You want him to admit it. If he doesn’t admit it, maybe you’ll stay. He’s still got skin in this game.
Of course she has found someone else. Sorry dude. But you really need to let her go. Uou can never trust her again. But on the bright side, any relationship that starts from cheating usually never lasts. Her new guy will always be wary of her as he knosbe is a cheater
I hope so too! Thank you!!
Since you two were exclusive, I would think he would have treated you as his GF rather than just someone he was dating. You ask someone out for a date, you are responsible for the appropriate amount of effort. This man did not exhibit the proper amount of effort for a V-Day date with his GF, and treated it like just another potential “hang out and maybe we are going to have sex” opportunity. No making her feel special, or looking to connect and bond with her deeper over something the two of them would have enjoyed doing together. I really hope he didn't “agree to exclusivity”, just to get OP into bed with him.
Indeed! Only ask for advice if you actually want it!
She cheated got pregnant with someone else's child and he cheated back. He cheated once they were not aware of the cancer until after but he carries alot of guilt for it now that they know. She has always been this way just jumped from 1 man to the next that she could use. But appreciate your insight
Saturday he is moving out. He wants to work on himself and be there again. For valentines day yesterday he got me nothing because he didn't feel like it. He went to 1 flowershop but they didn't have roses so he got nothing. It hurted a little because last year he didn't get me anything as well and got me flower a few days later because he knows that how much i appreciate those days.
This was the last thing we could celebrate while still living together but he started about how it's just commercial bull.
He did go to his friends house ofcourse and chilled there for a while.
Dude, the words you use matter. It’s not a feminist thing, it’s a standard communication and emotional intelligence thing. If you didn’t mean to call her incomplete or incompetent, then what did you mean to call her?
Even if it were parasomnia and he had NO control over it (which I'm not convinced is the case here – I too suffer from a parasomnia and it doesn't work like this) he is unsafe to sleep with in the same bed, maybe even the same room/house.
This one's a dud. Move on, find someone who won't assault you, whether he does it “involuntary” or not. The alternative (being dead, he could have LITERALLY killed her if she fell wrong) is too steep a price to pay to take the risk.
The End.
Our honorable redditor two levels up is side-suggesting not doing the DNA test.
She wants to see that you are in fact working on yourself and that there are some changes for the better. She is giving you space for that, not just you giving her space. If you want to work things out with her, take the time to work on yourself. And yes, there are no promises. Can you promise that you will do that work you need to do?
Going to a psychologist is great, so keep it up and allow yourselves the time you two need.
Listen man, don't cheat. The only thing you can do is have really honest hot conversations, but make sure you are talking about how it makes you feel, not about whats not happening or making accusations.
Don't get into blame, don't get into trying to figure her out, that's her job not yours. But you have every right to demand she be honest and direct and share her feelings both about sex in general but also about how she feels about having sex with you personally.
Don't listen to the blame game that you have gotten so far. If she is not satisfied about your sex life or your household chores or whatever, that's on her to communicate. Not yours to guess what other special combination of things you need to do to save your marriage.
If she doesn't care or can't communicate, the only thing you can really do is propose solutions to ensure both of your needs are met and one of those might be divorce.
It's not hypocritical unless you have guy friends who are being touchy and verbally flirty. I'm guessing you don't, and they don't, and that makes the comparison moot.
The second paragraph here makes no sense. If you trust him to control himself, she wouldn't be able to seduce him. If she can seduce him, he can't control himself. Get it?
Hon, no. When someone tells you who they are, believe them.
To be fair, my single friends always tell me in detail their wild hook ups, but never have once asked me about my sex life (in a 10+ year relationship, they know my partner personally and I know they would feel weird asking as well). There’s a difference in sharing hook up stories vs. private intimate details with a long term partner
I would bet yes because when he said he was going to the store to get a new one her response seems to have been replete with disappointment, she probably felt that OP would just stop playing if he had no controller, the other controller is her.
Oh. If another man even gets close to me my husband is on alert. I don’t know what would happen to someone who touched me….
Yeah. Your boyfriend is not safe
This. While also clicking the lock button on my iPhone 5 times fast, which then calls emergency services.
It’s a setting I highly recommend to anyone, as it allows you to call emergency services in secret.
He basically told you he'll cheat on you if you're not meeting his standard. That's not how relationships are supposed to handle conflict, you cant threaten your partner into submission. You have to actively talk about your problems and work on solutions together. The fact that he's pushing to marry fast is a huge red flag for me. It seems like he's trying to tie you to him legally so it'll be harder to leave once you realize he's speaking bullshit. Don't let him pressure you into marriage and really think about if this is the kind of person you want to be in a relationship with.
Ace is short for asexual, which means a 0erson who does not experience sexual attraction. (The feeling of liking someone sexually)
However your partner may be Ace but still enjoy the act and feeling of sex. You would need to research Ace and then talk to her about what she feels about it. You might come to some sort of agreement.
If you go to him directly, you give him the chance to lie. You should wait to confront him about any of this. You should hire a PI. If they find out he is cheating or in a sugar daddy situation, you can then reach out to the woman and see what she has to say or if she’ll talk to you. And then at that point you should discuss with your husband. Knowledge is power
Pretty sure he is love bombing you.
He isn’t a great man, a loving husband, or even a decent father if he rapes his wife. Rape can and does happen in marriage, you don’t owe him your body ever. Ever.
This changes from country to country – and you said that mother is from another country. In my country, if you knock up a woman and do not marry them, you can be forced to marry her if you don’t want to go to jail or killed by their parents or other relatives. So, I sincerely hope the woman is not from my country.
Probably just jackhammering
Not suprised
Sorry brother, that’s really tough to hear. Personally, there’s no coming back from a situation like this. The trust is broken completely. Who knows what else she’s capable of hiding or lying about? Do you want to live! in paranoia? The child doesn’t deserve a toxic household that lacks trust and maintains bitterness and resentment. It’s time to plan to get a lawyer and file for divorce. This is irreconcilable. Best of luck.
Well, thatll be hot to do when hes unemployed.
And think about pressing charges for the blackmail. It is illegal to blackmail someone
It always starts with
“Oh i just dont see why you would want to wear that.. do u want other men's attention so badly?”
Or “Am i not the only one you want to see your body? Why are u choosing clothes over me”
Then leads to… oee ur friends are too wild I'm not comfortable with MY gf going out with girls like that they are bad influences.
Then you spend too much time out of the house.
You spend too much time with your family.
I don't want you spending time with any co workers because they clearly want you.
This is emotional manipulation my girl and abuse always starts like this.
My bf started like this. With I'm not with you so you shouldn't dress like this unless you want other men to look at you.
NEVER EVER let a man control what you wear, do, who you see and eat.
You aren't his property girl. Why would you give anyone authority over your body and person?!
Jesus please see all the red flags here. This isnt love.
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Ugh, I don't know who is worst.
You for making this post asking for advice to convince your fiance to ditch her son and barely see him. I know deadbeat parents that see their children's more than that.
Or her for not leaving you the moment you made demands about giving custody.
You both are awful.people.and I hope you have a terrible life together.
Trauma bonds.please have some respect for yourself and love yourself move then you love this guy who is laughing at you and doesn’t give a shit… he has her trained…. Seriously?! This guy will never love you like you want him to unless you divorce
You don’t have to be with anybody you don’t want to be. And the reason can be I don’t wanna be in this relationship any longer. I’m young and I want to be on my own. It is enough that you don’t wanna be with him.
Dude… Seriously?
You have been obsessing over Sarah for YEARS. You chased her relentlessly while she was in a relationship.
Yes, she broke up with buddy, saying she'd go with you, but retracted her choice. So, what?
Do you have any empathy for the position you expected of her?
Drop everything in your life for me immediately. Dump your bf right now… Wtf is that?
That shit is not easy when you're already in a relationship.
And chances are… She probably liked her ex more than you liked Jane.
Anyways… You're here now. You won. Literally fucking won. Yeah it took some time and was a bumpy process. But is this actually something you need closure on?
What closure are you exactly looking for?… An apology that she didn't dump her current bf at your request?
Let it go, jesus dude.
You caught the girl you have been obsessing over. The more you chase this, the more you will push her way.
How about you just be grateful that you're the primary now and start enjoying her dam company. That is what you wanted all along, no?
The level of entitlement, my god.
4 months together my guy. Chasing this girl for years. And this is the direction you want to take things… straight into the gutter and down hill.
Well done.
Just remember, you're the one who is putting this issue on the table and putting the relationship on this path… Not Sarah.
Let it go.
Enjoy what you've wanted this entire time.
Little one. Don’t worry it took me a long time to figure it out too.
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My parents asked me to download Life360, an app that tracks your location 24/7, on my phone when I was in high school. I didn’t have a problem with it then, and I’ve had it on my phone ever since. I moved about 1,000 miles away about 3 years ago to transfer universities my junior year of college and my mom still tracks me, even though I am now 22, have a full-time job, and am completely self sufficient.
I understand her worry of being so far and wanting to make sure I am safe and I understood it when I was a student, but she checks my location quite literally all of the time. I even noticed the other day she has “circles” set for different locations like my friends homes, work, and my ex boyfriends place. Apparently these “circles” notify you when someone enters or leaves them? She also shares a Ring account with me and sometimes gets notifications for my doorbell and will alert me of certain things/notifications.
I’ve asked her before if she can lay off the location tracking, and she’s been adamant about staying on it, saying “if you have nothing to hide you shouldn’t have a problem with me seeing where you are” and “I just want to make sure you’re safe”. I don’t have anything to hide, but I am an adult and would like some privacy. I’m totally down to just text her where I am if need be. I talk to her very frequently. My mom is just EXTREMELY overprotective.
For context, I do not have my own phone bill as my parents have some “insane” deal with AT&T that they’ll lose if my line comes off the plan, so saying “it’s my phone, I’m deleting the app” doesn’t really work for them. Everything else I have I pay for myself, and have been financially independent from my parents for over a year.
Any advice on how to communicate this to her would be appreciated. I’m sick of walking on eggshells, but I love my mom a lot and don’t want to worry or upset her.
TL;DR: I’m a financially independent adult whose mom still obsessively tracks me on Life360. How do I kindly tell her to stop tracking me without upsetting her/how would I open up this conversation to begin with?
EDIT: I have disabled location sharing services per yalls advice. Will update when she says something and I will be using some of y’alls advice to use this as an opportunity to set up boundaries. Thanks!
That would be a no for me.
If a man describes a woman as a 10/10 he is at the very least physically attracted to said woman.
If he’s typically an open book about spending time with his female friends but was not about that girlfriend you have every reason to have some suspicion. That’s not to say he definitely cheated, maybe he felt like a short coffee break with an old coworker wasn’t worth mentioning. But yeah I’d have many follow up questions if I were you.
I don't think you two should meet. There's a danger of getting sucked in. And I definitely don't think the two of you should get back together and even marry.
There's a reason you had to get away from him, and frankly, I doubt he has changed all that much, even if you have.
If you still don't want this advice, send me your phone number. I'll get on the phone with you and “communicate” by yelling at you. You can see if you still like it!
The motivation is the problem.
You ‘lied’ to show just how much you did NOT care for her/your relationship.
That is a breakup offense either way.
Add to that, if you lied about cheating (when you didn’t) the implication is that you’ll also lie about cheating (when and if you did).
You’re fucked, move on and let this girl find someone who is proud to be with her, even when he’s drunk and trying to look like a ‘player’ to his buddies.
She only lied to you so that you would do something you wouldn't have done if she had been honest.
A succinct way to describe many relationship indiscretions.
You need to immediately get a divorce attorney. Do. Not. Tell. Your. Wife. Discuss with the attorney your concerns and desires and trust me, they will find a solution for you. The marital assets need to be split. That means any debt is split, any proceeds from the house or possessions split and so on. Don't give up. Your “ace” card is that you are the only one that takes care of the dogs. If you have any proceeds left over from the divorce you can move back to family and find a small affordable rental house, maybe even a roommate or two to help with the rent. This is not a dark end for you. Consider this a test run for your “forever SO”. I can't tell you how many people I went through to find the love of my life (together 22 years now), and the important thing is you now know all the red flags to look out for – so don't repeat them!!!
Are you in therapy? In normal adult relationships people do not depend on someone else to fulfill all their emotional needs. Unrealistic expectations will kill your relationship. A good cognitive therapist will give you homework to build up your self reliance and manage your anxiety. Things like checking your phone only twice a day and giving him time to respond to texts.
I think you should give it a bit more time and let it play out before making a rash decision.
Go on another date and feel the vibes out, see if it feels the same as before.
Because two things could be happening here:
What you think is happening, actually happened. He slept with you and now is withdrawing. Its all in your head and might not be the case… You approached this wanting to 'be careful' with the sex, you went through with it, now you're looking for some negative consequence that might not even exist.
And remember, peoples attention is going to fluctuate. During a week, you may have 5 hot days, and 2 cold days… Doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong. People can't always dedicate 24/7 attention.
I'd say, give it another date or two, feel the chemistry (maybe withhold sex), that way you can make a more accurate conclusion about things.
I mean, if I asked I suppose I'd have probably be reacting differently. I forgot about the damn hairstyle. He generally wants me to have it down, that is his preference. Unfortunately I have thick heavy hair and it hanging in my face while trying to get it on, is uncomfortable. It cascades down into a curtain in front of my face. I've suggested bangs but he doesn't like those either. Lol.
you are all in your feels because this dude didn't talk to you for a little while? You can be friends with someone without being there alll the time.
But he said his past is crazier than hers….