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As a lesbian, this would certainly be a dealbreaker. He’s allowed to not enjoy it, but I don’t wanna date someone who is lowkey repulsed by my genitals
I personally believe there is more to this, but if you’re saying Amy is so religious that she wouldn’t consider having a relationship with another person it could absolutely be that bc you had sex and conceived a child out of wedlock you aren’t an available partner.
“Everyone messes up”
Going on an extended homophobic rant in front of your daughter’s SO is not “messing up.” It’s revealing core character traits that were always there.
I don't know how I did either. I guess I was just so obsessed with being with him that I couldn't see reason.
Can one be sure this is her only issue?
Not to say that OP has done anything wrong, and I am definitely NOT taking her side in this. It is just that concerning to me that something that no one can possibly have any control over is boiling over to this point for her.
There literally is absolutely nothing he can do to change this situation other than the obvious unless she finds a way through therapy or otherwise, to put this in the past where it belongs.
Condoms do break. It can not be the only measure you take to not get pregnant.
This is exactly what I was thinking reading this. My own partner, who is female, also has no idea how to negotiate financially.
sounds like he has a pretty severe case of bitch assness
I reported his account as well. Hope it helps!
Have you and your girlfriend discussed how often each of you would prefer for you to see friends? I do think your girlfriend is overly clingy, but I’m not the person dating her. You probably need to have a very direct conversation about expectations. That doesn’t mean you need to agree to hers, and also, you are allowed to have your own preferences and to ask your girlfriend to accommodate you, just like you’ve already tried to accommodate her. But at the very least you two need to agree on what’s satisfactory for you both, and if there is no compromise to be had, then it’s better to know that now even if it means you have a difficult decision ahead of you.
Unless that includes a vasectomy, I would not trust those precautions in any way whatsoever.
Stop having sex and break up immediately. Or alternately, you can break up and then stop having sex at the same time.
This contexts makes her seem less like an unhinged lunatic, and more like she genuinely felt rejected and not welcome in your family, so should be included in the main post. Are you really this obtuse OP?
you get that he fucked her, right? if literally his only motivation was to “pass on his genetics” then he would have gone to a sperm bank because he would have legal protections. informal sperm donations between friends are a bad idea but doing it with a stranger would be insane……which is why that’s not what he did.
He either needs to stop and you guys move on, you accept it and move on or you guys move on from one another.
If you want validation he’s a dickhead who doesn’t respect you as much as you deserve.
If he is going to come to dinner, don’t be rude and stare at your phone while completely ignoring the family. Then you won’t be invited. “Not doing it to the degree she required.” Oh please. It’s not too much to ask to pay a modicum of attention to the people around him while he is there.
She invites him, he acts like an ogre and doesn’t interact while bitching to his siblings. She doesn’t invite him to respect his time and wishes, he bitches. And then you give condescending advice about her next boyfriend. You are very unpleasant.
Absolutely! I hope it wasn’t too wordy or repetitive, I typed it up pretty quick on mobile haha.
But yeah. The “crush” didn’t really read as an actual crush, more so your brain seeking to fulfill a want if that makes sense. Reddit can be quick to jump to the e extremes and not consider the context/grey areas. These aren’t red flags for the end + they’re not uncommon relationship problems really.
I actually have a lot of thoughts about the extra info before I get into that there’s a couple questions I have.
Do you know the source of her feeling awkward about sex? Was she raised in a purity culture environment?
Have you ever brought up things you’re struggling with in general in times you know she’s going through it too?
What was your approach to the libido imbalance before? Do you have any kind of examples of it?
You mentioned not trusting yourself to go about it all in the best way, so what makes you feel like that?
I believe that if you were to order a specialty coffee made for the best coffee beans money could buy, the most delicious and high quality ingredients known to man, the best water on the planet and all this brewed by the best barista in the world like Anthony Douglas and claim it as your own.
He would automatically hate it. He wants to hurt you because he can. He knows your faith, your past, your issues are things he can use against you. My point is that intimate partners know so many of our fears and flaws and could use them to our detriment. A good partner wouldn’t even use any of them against us even at their most hurt or angry. They would consider our feelings first.
If your partner uses your pain like a knife, then it’s time to cut your losses and leave.
No that's not a false equivalence. The equivalence i was trying to set up was: boundaries as a form of control = boundaries as a form of control. If you don't want to be told how to dress, don't tell your boyfriend who he has eyes on.
You've clarified now that the above is not what you were going for. But your previous comment seemed to suggest that just because your partner is so hurt by something you do for yourself/your body, you should let them violate your autonomy.
My panic attacks get my heart rate to that level sometimes. Traumatic, painful, and scary, but not a heart attack.
Personally I find that super cute and romantic but ymmv!
Eh. I mean, he’s obviously a dick and she should strongly consider moving on, but have you ever tried cumming on SSRI’s?
Requiring your partner not to mention their ex is BS. The ex will likely one day be, if not yet, co-parent of children, and therefore must continue to be present, in the best intereats of the children (absent abuse, violence, etc). If neither of you have children yet, it's the perfect opportunity to get accustomed to exes existing, and learning to be amicable with and not threatened by them, while the stakes are lower.
“Respecting other people's time” is a bit of a motherhood statement. It comes across as an accusation that she doesn't respect his time, in which case he needs to be more specific about what she does that makes him feel that way. If he doesn't think she disrespects his time, then saying this is plain rude, because why wouldn’t she respect his time? Does he think she's a particularly rude person?