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Date: October 10, 2022
RIDE@goal#ebony#bigass#cum#squirt#smalltits#squirt#bdsm#bi#goldshow#group [389 tokens remaining]
You’re right, I guess I was just consumed by my overthinking due to my own views and how he goes around his story. I let it get the best of me… thank you for your feedback
Then change it up! They might be shocked into actual silence!
There’s nothing wrong with him staying there. It’s not about him or his ex. It’s about what’s best for the kids. They wake up insanely early on Christmas morning and shouldn’t have to wait for dad to get there to open presents.
You say you trust him so if that’s the case, what’s your issue?
I’m half Asian and I love my mom but I can only handle her in small doses. Especially since she is in her 60s no longer working and no more kids are at home. my mom would never let me spend money on her or ask me to buy her anything so at least that wouldn’t be an issue. But she questions everything I do. I’m 38. She tells me what to do or not do with my kids as if I have only kept my son alive for nearly 16 years by sheer luck. She is from the Philippines so she thinks 72 is cold in the house. I keep it at 64-65 during the summer. I haven’t even turned my heat on yet so it’s anywhere from 57-63 in my house. I feel like I’m in a sauna when she comes over. She doesn’t ask me to turn the heat up but will complain about how cold it is over and over again.
Based off something you said, I feel like there are a lot of details being left out here, including: – who assessed this as an emotional affair? Was it him or you? Does he agree with that assessment? – did you guys have a clear definition of what constituted cheating in the first place? – did he tell this person he loved them or something like that while simultaneously not meeting your emotional needs?
It sounds as if (and i could be totally off base here, and if so, I’m sorry- I’m genuinely trying to help you in good faith) he had a close friendship with this person that you consider an emotional affair (according to some standard not discussed and agreed upon beforehand) but he considers a close friendship. If that’s the case, it doesnt make it hurt less, but it may make it easier to forgive. Hell, some people consider looking at porn as cheating, and other people get jealous of relationships their SO has with the mother or father. The idea that your spouse should ONLY have an emotional connection with a single person of the opposite sex is a very modern invention, and (in my opinion) wildly unfair and unrealistic. If he had a close friendship with someone while still meeting your needs and with no intention or pretense of leaving you and no indication to this coworker that he did, then it honestly sounds like this could be the result of miscommunication in your respective intentions and expectations. If this is the case (and again, the fact that you didnt leave his ass immediately suggests to me that you may believe this as well) then it should ultimately be easy enough and possible to regain trust and move forward.
Regarding the party, idk. That’s honestly a tough one. A month is pretty raw. Regardless of how you spin the blowup. I honestly think the answer depends on the details i mentioned above that you don’t mention.
To be frank, you are an absolute and total doormat. You're upset about her cheating on you because it's not in HER best interest?? It's you who is the victim here! Grow a spine and leave her in the dust!
She never lashed out at you. She responded to your comment with more detail.
Run like your hair is on fire and your ass is catching.
He's looking for a “mother” for his child when he has custody, so he doesn't have to do any parenting.
I've seen this so many times. This is not your baby, not your problem and not your boyfriend. He's the father to another woman's baby.
Didnt I read this in Bluebeard? One should never go into the rooms forbidden for fear of what one might find.
Id cancel the whole damn thing forever
Nah. you did the right thing. Those “Friends” that questioned your judgement are really bad friends, stay away from them.
No she should pay for her own room if she wants to go.
Ooohhh good point and better than the 1 above that suggested changing her oldest kids to have OPs name.
Good, it sounds like you’ve handled it well. Nothing to fault any any of your actions at all.
Yeah especially since he pretty much ignored you, that’s a giant red flag babe, idk he sounds like he might have hidden feelings for this roommate
Because they like having sex, its the whole point of friends with benefits.
I lost mine at 26 to my then-fiancee. He was really good about it, although the marriage did not end up lasting. Sometimes, I wish I had gotten started earlier, but I'm still glad I did it with someone who let me do it on my terms. Finding someone who respects you is very important to it being an ok to good experience.
It doesn't sound like he even wants kids with this attitude.
If you do, I'd move on.
Meet with a lawyer, get proof, don't leave the house.
If you want to try counseling, that's completely up to you. But it currently doesn't sound like a safe situation for you so you and the kids should not be in the same place as her until she gets help.
Honestly I’d ask them not to invite you if your partner isn’t also invited. You shouldn’t have to turn them down or put your partner in an awkward position. Better to just set the boundary and let them know if they ever change their minds they can invite you both.
My immediate reaction to her update was that he probably saw her post and realized he messed up big time. I may have been on Reddit till long but still can't help feeling this way
I would keep it in this situation.
《《She’s said during conversations that she couldn’t wait for things like us having our own kitchen to fix up, getting a puppy together and gardening together ya know things couples that on-line together do》》
SHE DOESN'T WANT TO MOVE IN, SHE WANTS TO MARRY YOU.
Being engaged ? IS THE NEXT STEP.
What a typical military relationship.
End it and be single. You’re 18.
I would tell her that a man, 15+ years older than her, with “good” Christian values, wouldn’t put her in that position.
If this is true love, he would wait until his divorced was finalized before kissing her.
She knows the morals, she knows what she is experienced is morally wrong (by her own definition).
From the outside we can all see what this man is doing, he’s using his status and age to manipulate an inexperienced young lady, who is keen to impress.
But at 19, with a bunch of romantic ideals and oxytocin running thru her brain, she doesn’t have the life experience to recognize what this situation is.
A manipulator taking advantage of a much younger victim.
You’re being really nice OP. I hope it all works out for you. Hopefully once you’re both in the room when your baby is born, then all the animosity will go out the window and the baby will be the focus.
You’re being really nice OP. I hope it all works out for you. Hopefully once you’re both in the room when your baby is born, then all the animosity will go out the window and the baby will be the focus.
You’re being really nice OP. I hope it all works out for you. Hopefully once you’re both in the room when your baby is born, then all the animosity will go out the window and the baby will be the focus.