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I didn't meet my biological dad until I was 18 either, and while my circumstances are different than yours, I'm pretty sure I know what you're going through. I'm in my 30s now and have ended up with a rather good relationship to mine as well as his family and our, I suppose, shared extended family.
My most general advice would be to just acknowledge that the situation is weird. It's bloody weird and there's no point in trying to pretend that it's not. Mixed feelings are both normal and understandable, not just on your end but on his end too.
Don't focus too much on his girlfriend or anyone else in his life for for now. Yes, they're most likely all having their own emotional reactions right now, but those are for your dad to handle, not for you.
In terms of setting boundaries, I guess I'm a bit confused. You clearly want to set some, but what boundaries do you actually have for this budding relationship and how do they apply here? I think it would be a good idea for you to think about that for a bit before you approach your biological dad about the topic.
I didn't meet my biological dad until I was 18 either, and while my circumstances are different than yours, I'm pretty sure I know what you're going through. I'm in my 30s now and have ended up with a rather good relationship to mine as well as his family and our, I suppose, shared extended family.
My most general advice would be to just acknowledge that the situation is weird. It's bloody weird and there's no point in trying to pretend that it's not. Mixed feelings are both normal and understandable, not just on your end but on his end too.
Don't focus too much on his girlfriend or anyone else in his life for for now. Yes, they're most likely all having their own emotional reactions right now, but those are for your dad to handle, not for you.
In terms of setting boundaries, I guess I'm a bit confused. You clearly want to set some, but what boundaries do you actually have for this budding relationship and how do they apply here? I think it would be a good idea for you to think about that for a bit before you approach your biological dad about the topic.