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Date: February 6, 2023
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Honesty is great.
But it can also indicate zero fucks given.
No way for us to tell.
Probably because your maturity is level “pull out king”. I don’t blame her for investing in birth control.
Yikes, did you even read the post? The dude started the fight? Are you insane?
Maybe he’s just a decent human and wants to make sure you are okay?
I know I should but I don’t want him to think that I’m mad. Just so he can see that I’m intentionally ignoring him which is petty I know
no company would try to have people of opposite genders in the same hotel room. she's cheating
There is a giant screaming, bright red flag why this came up. 30 yo married women with good jobs dont go this route. Something OP needs to get the real story on.
Some friends I went to college with had a mmf threesome and joked about it. The MF couple are still married and have two kids. They’re still friends with the other guy, who is married and his wife just gave birth to their second kid.
Tons of women fantasize about two (or more) guys. When guys fantasize about this it’s considered normal. When women fantasize about this, they get sex shamed.
Your bf is a sex negative, hypothetical, walking red flag.
womp womp
Yes tell the girlfriends brother that he is still actively cheating on his sister
So you stick it out, let the sexual frustration fester and build into resentment until one day a few years from now you end up hating her or doing something that will make her hate you. Good plan! smh.
Why just because I said all that?
And no. I’m not interested in looking for guys right now.
He blocked her. If he cared he would have stayed in contact to at least find out if she went through with the pregnancy and take a paternity test. His estrangement is completely on him. Unless OP left something out she never told him she was going to get an abortion, that's an assumption he came up with entirely on his own.
Correct! Go no contact, period! Any text from you positive, negative or 3 days later fulfills her need.
Ty 🙂
You are not being selfish. You're entitled to keep your phone for your own damn use.
He is capable of getting himself a new phone. Not your problem.
Also … the phone is not your biggest issue here. This guy's a controlling jerk.
I hope once you pinpoint what’s going on and have a health plan set up for success you leave him! What a horrible horrible thing to say…… you deserve much better than this ass ?
She does get frustrated when I don’t come. But it’s intermittent. Last week we had fantastic sex Friday night. Maybe best ever. She got off multiple times, then got me off like a volcano. Then things go back to comm silence.
I as a single woman have lifelong guy friends who I could and have slept/snuggled with. And would not consider that wrong, but even I would stop doing that out of respect for my partner if I’m in a relationship….js
he's playing you and your falling for it hook line and sinker. Tell your bf
Oh no, I reread your post and wanted to comment and say that it seems like this was a non invite.
An invite you only extend when someone definitely can't go. In this case you're heavily pregnant and high risk, why would you go camping.
The fact that it's a non invite could mean he doesn't want you around so he can let “loose” or he just wanted to go alone.
Yeah, I disagree. Of course you want your SO to think you're beautiful but then to expect them to consider you the most attractive person in the world. Really? Is that what some people's definition of love is.
Confidence is attractive. Genuinely good people are attractive. People whose self-worth relies on their partner considering them the “most beautiful person in the world”, not so much.
I’m so sorry you’re in this situation firstly, it’s a shitty one to be in. To be honest it sounds like you aren’t happy, with knowing about it and also being in that situation, so why stay? You mention worrying about him hurting himself due to his mental health, but that’s not a reason to stay. You’re either using that to make excuses for him, or he’s using that to manipulate you which are both wrong reasons.
If his mental health is such a priority to him, he wouldn’t be putting himself in a situation where it strains his mental health. Having a failing marriage plus a mistress is definitely going to be a strain on his mental health, so that’s all on him!
I’ve had depression since my early 20’s (I’m now 39 and still take medication) but having depression never made me an arsehole and treat people poorly like he’s treating you.
If you’re staying with him for the sake of your child, please please please stop and really think about that, because that’s a reason that gets used way too often and it’s totally BS in my opinion. I come from a home where the parents stayed together for the sake of me and my brother, and let me tell you it did more damage to all 4 of us than leaving ever would have. Me and my brother were VERY aware that my mum and dad weren’t happy and weren’t in love, and we did see and feel the toxic mess from their years of pretending we were a happy family. We are all way more damaged because of it.
Honestly, you need to take your child and move on with your lives together and find happiness of your own. Let his mistress deal with your husband and clean up the mess he’s made. She’ll soon find out you have a child together once he can’t afford to buy her nice things because half his pay check goes to you and your child, and rightly so! See how interested she is in him then!
Just a question I want you to ask yourself and answer it truly…why spend the rest of your life being unhappy for the sake of someone who’s selfish enough to do this to you and his child? Why put your child and it’s future through 18 years of having a mum that’s treated as second best and who is putting herself through misery for the sake of that child, even though that child will be worse off for seeing and knowing all of this.
I still feel guilty knowing my mum stayed in a loveless marriage because she thought it would be best for me and my brother to “be a family” when we knew far more than they ever thought we would. Children pick up on so much and it’s also how we learn to become the people we are, so subjecting a child to a fake family life has a huge impact on the people they become. Through it all my impressions of men were that they were all selfish, cruel and they made the rules in a relationship with the woman just having to go along with it. My brother grew up to learn that a good smack across a woman’s face was ok and that a woman was no equal to a man. Both me and my brother to this day cannot say “I love you” to anyone but our partners. My mum has never heard those words from her children, how fucked up is that. We don’t discuss our emotions or feelings, we don’t show emotions and we deal with our feelings silently and alone which has it’s obvious consequences on our lives and mental health.
At 39 years old I can honestly say I wish my mum and dad had divorced when things started getting bad when I was around 8 years old. Or at least that’s when I started to notice how desperately unhappy they were. They didn’t divorce until I was 18 and both me and my brother had left school. All those years of bitterness and hatred have left their mark, and it’s the reason I chose to never have children, because of what my childhood was like and that I know I’m not in a good enough mental state to raise a child and give it the love it deserves.
So please don’t stay for your husband when he’s clearly already checked out, and please don’t put your child through a life of watching its parents living a fake marriage.
You and your child deserve happiness and to be loved.
My gf said no I won't show and you won't follow this girl either. After this incident happened 4-5 times, I was really curious.
There comes a point that this kind of thing becomes a test, one that you failed unfortunately. For her to go “don't follow this person that you know” and then go “oooh look at that cleavage, look at that butt” several times is trying to needle you into wanting to look. It's basically a trust test which is very childish and not something a person in a healthy relationship should do.
I'm not saying you didn't mess up here but it sounds like she knew exactly what she was doing. If I was in your situation, I'd cop to my part of the screw up but would also be pissed at her for the set up in the first place.
The relationship can only be saved if she wants to save it. There's not much you can do about that I don't think. I'd also consider whether you want to go back to that relationship.
Just to cover all angles, maybe it wasn't a test. The fact it was that big a deal to her in the first place suggests that her and that person may have a bit of a history, or an issue of comparing herself negatively to the other woman.