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Gensha<3, 21 y.o.
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Date: October 30, 2022
Gensha<3, 21 y.o.
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You’re not being unreasonable. You like what you like and you have wants, needs and plans. It’s your call if your gf fits into those plans or not.
They say you never really know someone until you online together and maybe that’s what it took for you to see that it’s not going to work for you.
It’s ok to do what you gotta do to be happy.
Does she have active symptoms? If she hasn’t gone for a test in the past three years there is a possibility that it was undetected and she didn’t pass it on to you. But then again, there is a much higher possibility that she cheated on you.
You don’t owe anyone, anything, ever
She’s sleeping with somebody, confront and dump
Regularly going out with the intention to having a couple beers only, then getting so fucked up you miss your commitments the next day, is alcoholic behaviour.
Honestly, my friend. She seems to have made her position clear. She wants the single life but doesn't want be the bad guy in ending your relationship.
You're not the one for her and she's not the one for you. It sucks that you seemed to be more invested in the relationship and she was but be glad you found out now and not after you were married.
You know what you want, she knows what you want. Don't contact her. Let her contact you when she is ready to tell you what she wants.
Just let her find someone better. She deserves better
Oh my gosh I'm so sorry to hear that. I also literally found out I was pregnant yesterday and I just can't imagine how disheartened you must feel. Sending you a hug. Hope you will find strength to do what you need to do to be happy.
Iv brought this up, as she claims to want to have kids with me this summer!!! And she said that’s different
You don’t want him to save them. He wants to save them/jokes about saving them.
My advise is stop sending them to him. If he loves and respects you he will understand your reasoning. No is a complete sentence on its own.
If you’re scared you’re going to upset him by saying no then that’s something you need to work on personally by being confident enough in yourself to assert boundaries. You’ll learn as you get older that people pleasing does absolutely NOTHING for oneself apart from making you feel >small<
No means no. Long distance wouldn’t make it easy but you can always talk on the phone or sext without the need to send nudes unless/until you feel comfortable
I’ve literally got nothing.
You just don’t get matching tattoos with a partner it’s the kids of death.
Agreed – this is so vindictive and I would be horrified to think someone who claimed to love me could be so cruel.
Because you can’t wait for people.
It will make you look clingy and pathetic. If you’re pressuring her right now, she may even feel uncomfortable around you now, and that’s not the right vibe to have if you’re trying to date someone.
The best chance you have for making a relationship with this girl is to make sure she doesn’t feel pressured into it. Give her some time and space not just for a day or two but back off for at least a month. Let her reach out to you.
He’s gay.
you’re only saying that because you know girls are all cheaters lol
OP,
Has this child ever met his real father? If not, this is the conversation you should of had with your partner. Then you could both sit down and talk with the child.
If he has met him, and is in his life, you being called Dad is a sign that he loves and respects you to be called DAD. A lot of children have two dads, and two mom. Some have a DAD and a Step dad. The dad and not step dad comes with the child respecting you enough to be called DAD.
What is your boyfriend doing when you’re being harassed by his parents?! By the sound of it, he’s allowing them to treat you this way, and it probably won’t change.
you need to be careful here, if you keep shutting him down one day he might stop sharing completely. or he might find someone who cares about what he talks about, is interested in what he has to say.
surely it is nice to just actively listen to your love ones, enjoy the passion they have and not internalize it to make yourself feel bad.
the silence when they no longer talk to you is much harder to bear then a gentle nod and question as they talk.
could you imagine being in a relationship where you felt you couldn't say the things you wanted to. where you have to get permission to talk. could you imagine something important to you that you want to say, but then remember your partner doesn't want you to talk so you have to mentally stop yourself from expressing yourself. overtime that can be damaging.
I want to encourage the ones I love to be who they are, talk about whatever makes them happy because oneday it might be the last time they talk and I will spend the rest of my life missing their voice.
I hope for your sake that is true. Though I will say that it happened so easily even though you know exactly what it feels like to be cheated on is a worry. Also know that remorse is rarely enough to truly change people, especially if they never work out why they did things in the first place. You cheated for a reason deeper than just finding someone you vibe with, that's something you will have to really make sense of.
So based on your comments, it sounds to me like a main driver in this is a mismatch in communication styles between them. Your friend is interpreting his short answers as being unfriendly and deflecting. Her confrontation to that wasn’t friendly at all though, and would make most people defensive.
I think if you want them to get along, you need to play a more active role in their communication and forming relationship. You’re the one who knows them both. What interests do they have in common? Start there and open up a conversation. Let them bond over their mutual love of horror movies, or their mutual disdain for reality tv, or whatever it is. I’m sure there’s something in common between them since you like them both.
It also might help to have hang outs organized around an activity rather than just chatting. I didn’t get alone well with one of my friend’s now husband at first, and didn’t under why she like him, because he was actually a lot like your boyfriend. He gave very short answers to most questions and would immediately shoot back another question. He felt like a stranger who didn’t trust me or want me to get to know him. But then he started coming to our board game nights, and over time I got to know him much better and now I do like him quite a bit. His personality came through as we played the games and he was more comfortable talking about his life in that casual setting rather than the initial conversations that can be awkward or seem forced.
So try to find something for you guys to do together, whether that’s board games, hiking, a sport, or whatever. Even seeing a movie can be a good conversation starter. Give them something to talk about.
Worst case scenario, they actually don’t have to be friends or even like each other, as long as neither tries to come between your relationship with the other. I don’t like all of my friends’ partners, and that’s fine. It doesn’t have to be a problem.
This guy has serious issues. He’s not worth the drama, he’s immature, he’s insecure, he’s childish, he’s a manipulator- he’s waving more red flags than a marching band. Dump his misogynistic butt-you deserve better
Just end the relationship
I dont see any posts saying its not his business
He is trying to run your friends off so you that you won’t have any. You would become more dependent on him.