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Date: October 3, 2022
Ginny, y.o.
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This is cheating! The only person she should be going on dates and relieving stress is YOU! Dump her.
It's not an affair, your mother is just enjoying dating and the sex. Leave her alone, she is an adult.
i don't know what to do in this situation
Leave.
If she is an adult and can legally get married in Britain without his permission, just run away and get married. He’s being a jerk.
Why do you not want to date him? Too much commitment? You being a single mom?
When you put it like that, kinda makes her BF sound like a second choice. I wouldn't be fucking thrilled with that either.
OP, just consider that your fiance is watching porn now, regardless of what he says. He is incapable of telling the truth, this is only 1 part of him that you now have noticed and Im sure there will be many more.
So you need to accept that he is watching porn behind your back since any push from you to introduce porn responsibly is being rejected by him.
I get that but it's the reminder that she was extremely awful to me that hurts me the most. This is why I want it to be just over.
I think you have a pretty narrow/naive view regarding partnered/married finances.
There’s certainly nothing wrong with combining finances and that works pretty well for two people who are fiscally responsible, communicate well, and don’t have strictly “personal” expenses.
But when one partner can’t/won’t budget and overspends, when two people don’t communicate well about money, or when they have extensive personal expenses, it doesn’t work well.
When I was married, my (ex) husband and I combined finances we made about the same. There were some bills he had before we met (like a mortgage and car payment). All good right? Nope, he’d pull that money and spend it on other things. Car got repo’d, lost the house. He wiped out our very meager savings to buy his daughter a new car. There were times I had to borrow money from my dad to make rent. And my husband was in his 40’s! It’s not like he shouldn’t have known better. But he’d just see money in the accounts and spend it. That’s when I split the accounts. That ended our money issues.
In current partnership, I make a lot more than my partner. We each put in towards our shared expenses (mortgage, utilities, etc) based on % of total income. Then he handles things like buying things for his son, his vehicle, his credit card, boat, etc. I take of my vehicles, horse trailer, horses, dogs, credit card, student loans, etc. I also cover big stuff like vacations or new appliances for the house.
It wouldn’t be fair for me to be spending any of his avail money on my hobby and all that goes with it. He is fiscally responsible and has healthy savings and investments. And I don’t want to have to choose between taking my horse to the vet or paying for his vehicle repairs.
We simply don’t have to discuss money much. Works for us. But we are older, both previously married, both previously financially abused.
Just break up!!
Work should be paying for his hotel so that’s not an excuse. It’s a respect thing and if he’s not going to respect you then maybe he’s not the right fit. I had a boyfriend try to pull this one time and I broke up with him. Best decision ever as he ended up cycling through many women after me.
Creatives have been having to make international marriages work for millennia. Obviously neither of you is just going to stop working in your chosen career. So you'll have to work together on taking or not taking certain bookings and trying to spend as much time together as possible. If she doesn't have any English language stuff on her showreel she'll want to branch out into that so she has something to show US representation (which hopefully her agents in Europe can set her up with). You might need to start working on creating a few sets that'll play in Europe and get your US representation to look for opportunities to perform there (festivals are usually a good place for Anglophone comics to work). Assuming that neither of you is going to give up your (nude won) vocational calling, it'll be a matter of exploring each other's worlds and finding some common ground in the middle.