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Date: October 10, 2022
This. Its obvious she does respect you enough and only wants what she wants. Good luck OP
I also want to say that setting boundaries is necessary, but not always easy. You are doing the right thing. Think of all of the difficult things we have to do that are ultimately in our best interest. Cutting off toxic family, working out, not eating an entire cake
I tried to talk about it with him but he only response was that's “not his thing”. Like I would have a really good outfit and make up on etc, generally just a day where I feel really good and I have to ask if I look good, he doesn't says it on his own. He also only recently started making me compliments because I complained about it..
I’m so glad you’re out! I wish you much peace and happiness.
Thanks for holding me accountable on that. I’ll be sure to apologize to him.
The time old test to determine if someone is just a friend or someone that your so has romantic feelings for is, and always has been, getting together with them. If your SO and her friend have no issue with the 3 of you, or others, having drinks together, dinner together, or simply hanging out together then they are just a friend. If your SO won’t hang out with their friend, and you, together, or always finds an excuse why you can’t, then they are a romantic interest.
If my bf wanted to go with friends, Bachelor party or not, I wouldn't care. I trust him completely and know he's hanging with friends and looking at some boobies. Still wouldn't care even if he got a lap dance, cause he's not having sex with this chick.
Do I look like any of these ladies? Oh heck no but I know he loves me and finds me sexy, I'm not competing with them in any way (if that makes sense).
I know he wouldn't care if I went to a strip club, male or female, cause he trusts me.
And if he ever did violate that trust then he isn't the guy for me. But I'm not going to police or tell him he can't do certain things, he's an adult and free to make his own choices.
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You’re right
I should clarify. Over our year together, I’ve talked about it maybe 3 or 4 times. If my post made me come off as pushy, I’m sorry. She wants this to change too, but I think for both of us it’s a hard topic to get around, and overall a shitty situation.
No, it’s just weird and inappropriate.
You want to risk everything due to boredom? Can you not just get over the feeling and find excitement elsewhere? Will the temporary pleasure be worth it?
The woman that I left 2 months ago said that her father was abusive and never listened to her needs.
I told her that I'm allergic to something – not terrible allergies, but it would make me a bit uncomfortable and stuffy. She made sure to rub it in my face.
Sometimes the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, right? So do you want to be with that person still?
Why not a stay at home dad? She said she made more than him while working. Women also tend to live! longer than men and therefore need more retirement savings. Wouldn't it make more sense for him to stay home while she works?
I'd ghost and move on. Why even bother to give her the closure..
He doesn’t like you out of the house??
Do you not realise how controlling this is.
You'll love my story about how I found out my dog was seeing another family behind my back, just as I rushed him to the hospital after he ate an entire bag of Lindt truffles.
How long has it been? Is he overweight?
I absolutely agree that a line has been crossed. The rest sounds like excuses on her part, but hey, I'm a stranger. I only know so much.
Understand and accept you are infatuated with an ideal and not reality. Moreover, you do not really know this person very well and only focus on his positive attributes, not negative ones.
It's called abuse. Isolate you from everyone controlling money. You're 26 leave.
so happy for you for leaving him , you deserve so much better ??
When you do, show him this reddit post. That should cut off his “sacrificed everything” martyr complex right at the knees.
you shook his hand. he took that as being friend zoned
I was going to say he sounds quite narcissistic.
I had an ex like this. He could be ridiculous and very unreasonable but the minute I reacted and stood up for myself HIS feelings were hurt. I was always the bad person, he never took accountability for his actions.
OP this sounds exactly like your bf. He SHOULD HAVE APOLOGISED AND HELPED YOU LOOK FOR YOUR CAT.
People like this dont change.
You say you agreed to be exclusive.. so yes, you did cheat. How can you be so bad at communicating?
i get where your gf is coming from but it’s kinda toxic to say “if you move in with your sister we’re done “ best thing to do is either find a place for all of you or talk to gf about it and figure something out
Thank you so so much ?
I don’t know either. People don’t like to communicate unless it’s over clicks on a phone. Probably asking if she asked him something triggered people because they hate talking about semi-uncomfortable topics face to face. Soooo scary!!! Lol
If you truly like each other this is all that matters. If people talking things (as they always do) bothers you this much you should talk to a therapist to understand better your insecurities
Why are you saying no if you still want to marry him some day? Just because you say yes doesn’t mean it has to be this year, next year, or even the one after that. You can both start planning when you’re mutually ready
Your boyfriend is a powder keg. Get out before it gets really nasty. Do you want your kids exposed to that behaviour?
Unfortunately abusers often target single mothers in the belief that they are desperate and will put up with abuse just to have a man around.
Kids is one thing you can't compromise on. It's not like you can have 1/2 of a child. So, unfortunately, and I mean really tragically, this is a relationship extinction issue for you. You can hold out for a while longer but how long to let that go depends on how you'd intend to procure a child. Some jurisdictions have upper parental age limits for adoption and that's something to consider. If you have the funding for surrogacy you could leave it a bit longer. But sadly it's a stumbling block that'll only be resolved by one of you changing your mind.
Ahold have had the conversation with your Mrs. It looks like you have something to hide by never saying anything. Are you getting reimbursed for gas and extra mileage?
But me and my bf are working on our relationship, we never asked them to pick sides. My bf and I felt really bad about the whole concert thing when she said she didn’t want to go anymore, he was very apologetic, we insisted we go but she said it’ll be miserable if we don’t drink.
Out of curiosity, does your mother work? Or is your dad the one who keeps the roof over your head?
You’re tripping
He likely sees you as a mother and best friend. He's seeing happy and ready to start a new chapter in your life.
Share with him what shared with us and give him some space/time to digest it.
Uhm, uhm, no. He put a note in his calendar. That’s it. That’s all. You are overreacting. He has a life.
Yeah, and I know that, in Japan, it’s more acceptable to comment on physical appearance. But comparing me to his exes constantly has been a bit draining on my self-esteem, not gonna lie. Thanks for your advice (: