What you say in the middle here is what I’m personally struggling with.
You describe the friend as strictly platonic. The dude asked you to go to a hockey game. A long term friend of yours.
But in this response, you call him a “sex friend.” To back up, I want to be crystal clear that I’m not judging you or the situation here. If that’s the situation, then what works for you and your relationship is what works for you and no one’s in any position to judge it.
My issue is that that’s not how you described the situation. To keep it super simple, you essentially told us “my long time platonic friend invited me to a hockey game. We were into each other for a little but nothing ever happened. There’s never been intimacy. I told my boyfriend and he said it’s cool.”
That’s really all we’re seeing here. But now you’re calling a non intimate friend a sex friend? If you want to fuck the guy, that’s perfectly fine. The issue here is that you didn’t present that as the situation at all. Can you I guess elaborate?
sounds full of himself
He doesn't want his wife to see the hotel charges….
What you say in the middle here is what I’m personally struggling with.
You describe the friend as strictly platonic. The dude asked you to go to a hockey game. A long term friend of yours.
But in this response, you call him a “sex friend.” To back up, I want to be crystal clear that I’m not judging you or the situation here. If that’s the situation, then what works for you and your relationship is what works for you and no one’s in any position to judge it.
My issue is that that’s not how you described the situation. To keep it super simple, you essentially told us “my long time platonic friend invited me to a hockey game. We were into each other for a little but nothing ever happened. There’s never been intimacy. I told my boyfriend and he said it’s cool.”
That’s really all we’re seeing here. But now you’re calling a non intimate friend a sex friend? If you want to fuck the guy, that’s perfectly fine. The issue here is that you didn’t present that as the situation at all. Can you I guess elaborate?