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Date: October 13, 2022
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Please look at the 3 or 4 other posts with this exact plot. It seems really common for both partners recently and maybe there are good answers there.
It seems like she's lashing out and the brunt it falling on you. I understand her anger but she doesn't have the right to take it out on you. Your parents problems are theirs not yours. Maybe this is her way of regaining some kind of control. Your relationship with your parents is none of the other sides' business. Honestly her making you feel like you need to chose a side is pretty shitty of her.
Maybe you could have a compromise where whenever you spend time together you don't talk about or mention your dad's family. But if you do want a relationship with your dad she cannot dictate that choice. You're an adult she needs to get that
this is also something that had happened before we met and I believe before he even started high school.
I don't know where you're from, but where I live, people are usually 14 when they start high school. If this happened before high school, not having a relationship with the child probably wasn't his decision. He would have been a baby teen. And if the child's mom needed to “find out” who the father was, because she had multiple partners… if she was the same age as him, that takes things to a whole other level.
I hold the bond between your first child and the parent to the highest regard. Its like Iβm seeing a different person, I could never expect my bf to not want to care for this child and just let the child grow up without knowing that heβs the father. It just saddens my heart and I feel like there is a stranger next to me.
I think it's valid to be upset that he didn't share this with you, since you have been together for three years and discussed starting a family together. But the rest of the above quoted part is pretty dramatic and judgmental (and the bolded part is just weird).
You have no idea what he went through or what the circumstances are. Bring it up gently and don't be accusatory. Let him know what you saw and that you have some questions. Then decide how you feel. And don't make it all about you and your hurt feelings for having to find out the way you did. Address that after the conversation. If you can.
Yeah, I get it, but life is stressful enough with adding someone who makes your life harder. Just accept that it was an experience, but personally Iβd leave her in the past. You can find someone else- even it your situation. It takes a bit more organising, you want a loyal, kind, attractive and steady partner- not this.