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Date: February 18, 2023
Block your ex! Don’t fuck up your life for someone. It didn’t work out the first time it wouldn’t work out now. You didn’t marry the wrong person. This is no right or wrong person there is no “the one”. You have a successful marriage, one that a lot of people would dream of, don’t fuck that up.
You should just go for broke and tell him exactly how you feel and what’s missing
You feel taken advantage of and she feels insulted or put-upon. I think expectations on both sides are slightly unreasonable, and you both need to bring it down a notch, which you seem to already know. It ain't even that big of a deal, and hopefully you cna both come to an agreement that makes sense for you both.
There’s a huge difference between speaking/taking to someone and living with them. Do you think he wants me not to speak to her anymore?
Same. I’ve been in the same situation and left just the same. It’s more than the physical act as well, it’s the blatant disregard for you and the complete violation of your body by someone you are supposed to be loved and protected by as well. There’s zero coming back from that.
Everybody will have had sex with another partner.
And from here on out, all your future partners will face the same thing with you.
So what?
How do you know he said exactly that? Maybe they were paraphrasing
Eitherways, it’s quite rude to stare at anyone, to begin with.
You gawking at other guys while you have a bf is quite insincere towards your relationship and hurtful for your guy. And doin that shit this early in relationship ie during honey moon period wouldn’t help build any trust.
Even if you bring him back, his feelings for you wouldn’t be the same.
I’m sorry but you fucked up
How do you know he said exactly that? Maybe they were paraphrasing
Eitherways, it’s quite rude to stare at anyone, to begin with.
You gawking at other guys while you have a bf is quite insincere towards your relationship and hurtful for your guy. And doin that shit this early in relationship ie during honey moon period wouldn’t help build any trust.
Even if you bring him back, his feelings for you wouldn’t be the same.
I’m sorry but you fucked up
He literally sees you as nothing more than a hook up, and he’s actually been honest about it.
Enjoy the perks I suppose, but continue this knowing that this isn’t ever going to be something serious. Be careful.
This sounds a lot like, “if you love me you'll let me fuck your ass”.
Don't let anyone pressure you into doing things with your body.
Use a # at the start of the line.
Just because you said you weren’t sleeping with anyone else doesn’t mean she’s not going to. It doesn’t work like that. She brushed it off because she was uncomfortable that you said that. You weren’t dating, you really shouldn’t be upset. Until you are exclusive, it’s really none of your business if she’s sleeping with other people.
You’re in your 30s. She’s halfway to 40. We literally just drop all these made up rules because we realize we can do whatever tf we want and we don’t have to wait around for someone to be ready to date us.
If someone doesn’t want someone they just met to sleep with anyone else while they are going on dates, but not exclusive, that needs to be communicated. You can’t make up rules she doesn’t know about, then get upset she isn’t the perfect, celibate woman you made up in your head.
Did he go for any of his follow-up post-vasectomy tests to double-check for presence of sperm post-snip? Pretty standard and routine tests to get done.
Yass!!
Down time, sleep, and money, are all family resources that both adults should have equal access to.
SAHM =/= 24-7 default parent.
I recommend you come up with a parenting schedule. So 2-3 evenings a week he does the bedtime routine so you can go to sleep early, he gets alone time when you do it, and you each get a weekend morning to sleep in. Then figure out when you have a couple of hours of personal time.
(Assuming you are nursing and therefore indespensible at night for a while) If you are nursing, a good recommendation I have seen is- since you do 100% of the input, he does 100% of the output when he is home.
At the very most, send a list of shelters. If they ask for more, don't respond.
You're also well within your rights to just ignore them.
What happened to everyone else in the group? Have you heard from any of them?
Exactly. I’ve told him I’m not going to request he never goes to strip clubs. I just do not want it for his Bachelor party. And you phrased it well.
What grosses me out is the vibe of “it’s my last night as a single unmarried man” “ooo very hot hot girls”. And that’s how he wants to celebrate his marriage with close friends? I also don’t really like it when women have male strippers for their bacholorette. It seems like a slight to their partner. That’s just how my heart feels.
It’s very possible that staying in this toxic relationship Is exactly what’s stopping you from finding and creating a healthy support system.
The only constant in life is change. It comes for us whether we want it or not. In moments when change is inevitable, it’s always best that we take control and steer it to where we want. Otherwise it crashes over us like a wave.
I don't blame you. I'd be upset if my partner did that too.
But I guess what it boils down to is: you can't control her. She can do what she wants to do. You've told her how you feel, and she didn't respect your feelings. Where does that leave you? Does she often disregard your feelings or is this something out of character for her?
You can only control yourself. So you have to ask yourself if this is something you can accept in your partner. If you think you can work through this, then go for it. If you don't think it's worth it or you can't move past it or it's a trend and not just a one-off thing…well, you'll have to decide what to do with that.
But fwiw, from what you've said here it sounds like you had valid concerns and she just didn't take your feelings seriously, and I would be upset too.
Olivia he doesn’t care to talk to me anymore. Is bombarding him remotely normal? I’d love to date him?
The way I see it people generally fall into one of two different routines depending on their values around relationships and particular relationship dynamics. Either both decide to never have sex when they aren't specifically in the mood, and eventually almost never have sex at all, or they find their way to, and pick your term here because I don't feel like I have a satisfactory one, compromise, adapt, respond, take one for the team, placate, relent, humor, please, serve accommodate … whatever, their partner's needs. In this later case it only really works out in a healthy way if both partners are doing, whatever you want to call that, from time to time. Situations where there is a significant or large mismatch in libido are, in my opinion, completely fucking doomed to resentment in almost all cases. Not that this fact ever talks anyone out of continuing those relationships, but that's always what happens. Someone goes with the flow until they can't take it anymore and begin resenting their partner, or someone gets rejected so much that it breaks whatever magic leads to that sexual chemistry in the first place.
I think you should have a think, then a conversation with your boyfriend about which of these kinds of couples you're going to be. Or, if the mismatch is that pronounced I honestly think the best decision is to move on, but it's very Reddit to suggest that and, like I said, nobody ever does.
Yeah the old “ I went over to his house, but we just kissed nothing else”
That is tricky… all I can suggest is perhaps broaching a conversation by setting out what you want to discuss and why. If that doesn’t resolve things, he can’t come. You can’t possibly have the best day of your life tainted by anxiety through this person being in attendance. I feel for you!
Are you worried about his reaction? As in, is he likely to become volatile and violent?
Dump his ass and move on. I don’t care if there’s a lot of history there. Mental health problems aren’t justification for poor treatment, and if you’re feeling anxious and mistrustful around him, it’s no longer a healthy relationship. If he has depression he should be seeing a therapist and/or on medication, not taking it out on you and putting you down to make him feel better about himself, ESPECIALLY things you’re more fragile about like disordered eating. Block him on everything and never look back.
It’s not as black and white as u are making it sound. I stuck by her side for two years completely sexually unsatisfied before I met the other girl.
My brother is Christ an entire human being came out of you in what way are you not a victim?
Seems like you want to get free food, otherwise you wouldnt have gone in the first place. Thats the trade off, hes gonna think its a date, hes gonna be all touchy and giggly, but thats how you pay for that food, you give him the attention and hope hes looking for.
And hey maybe youll see something in him? Who knows, thats the name of the game. Deal with it, if you dont like him after the date, then boom he flopped and theres no naked feelings, he feels good because he shot his shot and realized that it didnt work out (or it did) and you got free food and some sort of validation in his interest in you.
Done deal no very hot feelings, just go with it, give him a chance, enjoy your meal and if hes not charming then tell him that.