Yeah, my bf really doesn't want to be on the premises or involved. We're keeping up the illusion of almost -normalcy, I guess. When I articulate that, I completely understand my bf's anxiety and stress about the situation.
her sibling died recently but still seemed in good spirits.
Grief can make people do stuff they won’t normally do. I know people can change over the 10 years apart but if she’s dealing with a lot of stress in her life maybe she’s trying to capture what she has all those years ago?
I could be wrong, so maybe start small and see where she’s at. Make sure that she’s in a good headspace.
THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR THREATENING TO KILL YOUR FAMILY.
Get the fuckouttahere with this bullshit “whataboutism”.
Whilst your intentions are very noble, they are misplaced.
Yeah, my bf really doesn't want to be on the premises or involved. We're keeping up the illusion of almost -normalcy, I guess. When I articulate that, I completely understand my bf's anxiety and stress about the situation.
her sibling died recently but still seemed in good spirits.
Grief can make people do stuff they won’t normally do. I know people can change over the 10 years apart but if she’s dealing with a lot of stress in her life maybe she’s trying to capture what she has all those years ago?
I could be wrong, so maybe start small and see where she’s at. Make sure that she’s in a good headspace.