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Leave her. It's over.
Reddit does seem to really enjoy telling people to break up. Not sure what’s up with that ??♀️
Sure, it probably is every guy's fantasy – however, if the guy really loved you, he wouldn't be suggesting you tick his fantasy boxes, he would know its freaking disrespectful to you.
Either he wants to see how far he can push you into being a weak, mindless, spineless partner – or – he is going through his sex bucket list and wants to cross this off before he dumps you. Next you'll find he has a potential lined up and/or he has already sampled the goods with her andcwill put it all on you saying he thought you were cool enough and trusted him enough to have an open relationship, but with you knowing he loved you best… and oh I have a bridge to sell you, it will be a fabulous investment.
Just tell him that since this is how he feels- that you are walking the best thing he ever had right out the door. Then dump him.
This too, you can’t make any decisions for them medically. If something happens and they need a decision, it wouldn’t necessarily be you deciding. Could be her actual next of kin. You may have no input. Just look at all the gay partners, prior to legalized marriage, who were kept out of their SOs hospital rooms, couldn’t make any decisions despite knowing what their SO would want.
There are many things to consider outside of your fear of it ending in divorce.
Yeah, it’s definitely her choice to separate out. Who knows, maybe she likes the quiet and privacy and meditates and prepares her mind and then uses the time afterward to have a moment to herself to process and comes down a bit before rejoining everyone.
How would you feel if someone used your toothbrush on their mouth and then said “don't worry I cleaned it” when they gave it back?
OP, your fiancé did you a favor and showed you your priority in his life. Waaaaaay down the list from the one and only: BROTHER. Frankly, he’s treating the brother like his significant other and you like a blow up doll he takes out of the box when he needs it.
This incident just saved you a ton of money and heartache in the future with divorce lawyers, courtrooms, and custody battles. Can you imagine the pain for any kids that have to face the fact that daddy loves uncle more than us? You need to nope the hell out of this relationship. Find someone who will prioritize you and your needs and be present in your life together. Take your vacation with the people that truly love and care for you. You really need to think about what you want your future to look like. It won’t get better—it never does. If anything, things will get worse once you’re married.
Tf? What is he supposed to do? Hop on the mic and rage at the kid? You want him to track the child down and terrorize him? It's a video game. Grow up
Now I have the Patty Duke theme running through my head…
This is why people say love isn't enough. You are not compatible, you want different things out of life. The only way you will build a life together is if one of you gives up on the life they saw for themselves. If you love each other, neither of you should want/expect that from the other. I have learned the hot way not to get serious with people who don't have the same dreams as me. I don't want children, would never, ever date someone who did.
When you kiss, you aren't sucking out and digging off the plaque and residual food in their mouth, dude. There's a HUGE difference between kissing and using a toothbrush that could have food particles and plaque. Toothbrushes are specifically used to clean the teeth. Your tongue while kissing is not used to clean the other person's teeth lmfao
Most people want sex a few times a week or at least a couple. It doesn’t mean that you’re just in it for sex. That’s an excuse to get you to quit talking about it. You may need couples therapy. It sounds as if this is a serious relationship and sex matters. It connects us. Touch is vital. It’s not just about getting your rocks off. You can do that alone. It’s about being together. Hopefully you are both satisfied with your sexual experiences when they do happen.
I know you don't want to hear it, but this is an irreconcilable difference. He wants to live! with his parents as they age. Even if you “only” have houses close by to each other, he will expect you to be in and out of each others homes and live! as one family.
This is not something you will be able to argue him out of. There is no happy answer here.
Oh, he's clarified. He also wants them crying during this.
nah dude, none of that. she’s great and for 2 years we’ve had little to no problems. its just weird how big of a deal it seemed.
She’s gotten More upset over Lesser things (she is sensitive like that) but she either cheers herself up within a day or she lies and says she isnt upset when she is for several days after. This time it seems like the latter and I hate that she has to feel upset for several days over something I said.
I think it’s pretty garbage that she’s doing that when in a 4 year relationship and it should be brought to the light. Let ol boy know he needs to find someone else who doesn’t get other peoples fingers in their mouth (unless they’re a dentist)
he shoves me to the ground during arguments he treats me like a princess
These two statements are incongruent. If he's physically violent to you, then he doesn't treat you like a proncess. The only way this gets better is to leave him. He's abusing you then lovebombing you. He's dangerous. Get out.
It tends to be that reddit has biases , and I don’t want that or any influence of gender on the post. I’m really lost – because idk if I’m genuinely crazy or if my partner is just really depressed and not realizing they’re saying things – and how to navigate that
I can’t stop, I need to be around him whenever I can. He’s the most perfect human to ever exist and thus is the closest h can get to being with him currently
Well, this is a high class problem. Good luck to you.
He isn't upset because what you said was harsh.
It is because you called his bluff.
His statement wasn't meant to get a retort. It was meant to make you feel so guilty and self conscious you kissed his feet.
When you pointed out the obvious he cracked. Because yeah. It's bullshit. He is obviously a toxic sack of so and so.
The question becomes not what he has done or given up, but rather what exactly it is that is easier about having him around. Like at this point a child support check would be much easier. It is him that has to prove he is capable of a dad, not you appreciating his non existent effort.
He went for a slam dunk on you manipulation wise and you slammed that shit right out of his hands and knocked out his coach on the sidelines.
You don't trust him, you pack his things and tell him to go.
You’re stuck in the fallacy of sunk costs, it would be a horrible life for your child(ren) if you stay with your alcoholic husband just to have kid(s) sooner than later. You need to move on, your husband can’t and won’t get sober for you. He has to do it for himself
I want to correct something people can dislike this if they want but I think Most men have looked at someone outside their relationships and thought “that person is attractive” or “I wonder what it would be like if that person was my partner”
This however is not even close to Most men have or want to destroy relationships because that is just what men do.
Honestly, the way he told you this really sounds like he's prepping you for when you find all the used condoms in his closet. Sorry OP this sounds bad all around. Take care of yourself out there ??
Honestly, if this was for something superfluous, like a new TV or a wedding, then I'd probably mock-up some formula, like the following, to try and isolate objective and subjective variables and make a more sound decision.
=SUM(1- (ME_WORK_HOURS / COMBINED_HOURS)) \ (( 1- ME_STRESS ) * 2 ) * (ME_INCOME + BF_INCOME)*
But this is housing we're talking about. A basic-need. Both of you should be contributing everything you can to securing it, regardless of how to split it, even if that means that you and he own different amounts in the end. The per-month payment shouldn't be crossing either of your minds, all that matters is that it's paid and how much each of you have paid.
Splitting bills 50/50 is one thing, because of the perpetual-payment aspect it's hot to get a sense of shared scale with collaborative earnings and the answer is 'just agree how to split it'. Housing isn't that, it's a big purchase that's paid-off over a finite amount of time, and that makes it easy to plan.
TL:DR; you and your BF need to put-away all spare money until you both, together, have enough to complete the mortgage (including interest). Pay the mortgage from that saving account and keep a note of who's paid-in how much. When the house is paid-off, you'll be able to work-out the ownership-split, and if you'd like you could then work-out a plan on equalising the payments between the two of you.
The arguing can wait for when its relevant. You've got a house to secure.
Your relationship is likely over and that isn't really surprising given how old you guys were when you locked into being grown ups. It is likely she is going to realize the grass isn't necessarily greener but in the prices of learning that, she will do some things that you probably can't come back from.
I would sit down and take a really hot look at the financial decisions here. It's selling the best option? What if one of you bought out the other? Or make it a rental and birth find other places to live!? That would be a business decision that needs legal input but at this point you should be looking for financial and legal representation anyway just to make sure you make the smartest financial decisions.
It's hot but you need to separate the financial decisions from the relationship decisions now.
You Couldn’t be more wrong about me and my circumstances but if that helps you sleep at night, be my guest
Thanks for your great wisdom
You're supposed to bang her, and then dump her.
Lmao to the person who deleted their comment: Yes, I send him tiktok links to videos I think he will enjoy. We've been together for 5 years, if he had an issue with the things I do he would tell me ? and I sure hope he knows he's my boyfriend seeing as we have a whole ass toddler together. You're weird.
Have some respect for yourself and end it. She cheated on you, and she’s still talking to the guy.
If you don't like it, then it's not for you. May be you should break up
My comments are absolutely in good faith – I’m pointing out the inconsistency in your posts, but nice try. There’s no joy to be had. I just wish this sub didn’t descend into the troll filled mess it’s become, so that posts like this didn’t detract from genuine posts that need genuine help and advice. That’s right, blame the Internet. You’re on Reddit, the saddest and most toxic of places, except for anything related to funny animals obviously
That must have been what it was for us. Idk if it wss prolonged exposure therapy. Our writing and exposure exercises were a mere 20 minutes long. It wasnt as bad as one would think.. Once you survive it the first few times, it feels empowering.
First tell your step dad then tell Roger. If Roger makes a big deal about it then he doesn’t need to come to the wedding. It’s your wedding and you shouldn’t give your bio dad a free pass after the way he abandoned you. I did the same thing. My brother walked me down the aisle and my dad was a guest.
Unless you can handle physical confrontation, why provoke a possible physical confrontation by someone speaking the truth? At the end she is still fat and your beaten up.
Focus on your school. Decide what to do with him after you complete your school work. That HAS to come first.
I get that but if she wasn’t interested why would she sit on the phone with me everyday and talk for hours about everything going on in our lives? She does show concern for my mental health and everything and when I have problems she sits there and talks me through everything. I just have such mixed emotions. Half of me wants to be done, the other half keeps saying to push on because eventually we will be together and I know how stupid that sounds but it’s the reality of how I feel
If he honestly thinks it's an addiction, then he should see a therapist who specializes in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to work on this issue.
You have to decide for yourself how much of a boundary this behavior is for you. Some people would consider what he's doing to be cheating, and others would say it's just masturbation, or interactive pornography.
If you find it unacceptable and can't be in a relationship with someone who does this, then you should give him an ultimatum and tell him he needs to see a therapist to learn how to stop this, or else you're getting a divorce.
OP,
Lets just say everything in your life with your GF up to that point was wonderful, Then yes she should of shut that down and she should stop gaslighting you. Now you have to ask yourself if you can either get over this or kill the relationship. If she is not going to take any blame then your relationship is already dying.
I edited my comment.
You could have just signed her up for self defense class. Jeez. Help her pack because she needs to leave. You know she could report you to the police?
The advice I was given when I was young was, “Never lend what you aren’t willing to just give someone.”
That way you aren’t in a jam if they don’t pay it back on time, and you’re just pleasantly surprised if they do.
Eww. He went out of his way to cheat without cheating and then tries to justify it? No way. He knew what he was doing and hoped you'd just shrug your shoulders and be okay. And when there's a next time? And the next?
He doesn’t think you will die. He fell in love with who you are now and thinks surgery will change you. He may even think you will leave him because you will get a swelled ego because you look so much better.
I didn't see the post on time but from the title, all I can say is if my bf proposed to me with an onion ring I would marry him and wouldn't complain either.
Ummmm it happened before you both met. It’s only as awkward as YOU make it. You broke up with your boyfriend, and ended your friendship over something that happened BEFORE you met him? And he or she didn’t KNOW that was the person you’ve been dating?
This is a YOU issue. It’s also a maturity issue. My ex and my friend ran into each other years after he and I broke up. They got to talking, decided they liked each other, but came to me and expressed if it made me feel weird, they wouldn’t. I didn’t care. They’re a GREAT couple. But they KNEW. You’re punishing people for doing something before you were even part of the equation. But, I guess you won’t have to worry about anymore. You’re now down a boyfriend and a friend.
One day you’ll have the maturity to deal with a significant others past. Hopefully.
Those are good questions, I agree, but OP said their partner shut down the conversation
So you're just being irrational and emotional about the situation.
Sure, Jan.
Also are you using an AI chat bot? Because word on the street is that you are ? But keep it up, please post the update after you’ve embarrassed yourself in front of your ex-friend’s fam!?
you have your things out of order…it goes contact lawyer first, then confront wife, then tell parents..that seems like a better order of events.
So, uh…how'd his laptop break?
Dare I ask?
I was upset at something different
And we're just…gonna leave this conveniently vague too, huh?
Guess you can't say anymore that he's always made you feel safe. At least he knows this was selfish and insane.
Ask him what he plans on doing to make sure this never happens again.
We both have anger issues and will hit things if we’re mad (unrelated to arguments)
That's toddler shit. Yall need to figure out when to take a rage nap.
The porn is almost the most wholesome part of this post. What a party of red flags.
Be the bigger and better person; block him, forget about him and move on.
If someone even briefly thought about threatening my cats they would be out of my door and out of my life in seconds. This dude is a walking red flag, btw. You escaped one abusive relationship and hopped right back in to another one, even if it's not bad yet. He's testing you and seeing how much you'll give up, how much you'll change. You know how it gets from here.
If you don't love yourself or your dog enough to leave, get that dog to a safe home. She shouldn't have to suffer.
You need to tell her. There was a thread a couple of days ago that had the woman cheating on the man. There was a lot of good comments on that post.
You are not the victim here. Your feelings really don't mean shit. You cheated and you're providing excuses. You'll probably get away with it this time, and that will make it easier to cheat on her again. Cheaters going to cheat. Give her the info now bc it will come out one day down the line and then you'll add manipulator and liar to cheater. Let her make up her own mind about the relationship.
Also you need to get tested and not have any sex with her until you do. I know the likelihood of STDs is incredibly low, but it is still not zero. And I've know ppl who pick up shit from a cheating SO.
Also if you have a sex addiction then take tangible steps towards treatment and don't just “woe is me” bs. Go to therapy or counseling. Find some sort of group live! if necessary. Fix your shit.
I dont get cheating and hell I'm not even a monogamy sort of person. Like jfc use your hand buddy.