That's your opinion. The difference is I'm in a really healthy relationship and I'm married and I've always been in healthy relationships. Can you say the same?
Wow I mean their are so many people with same names in this world etc. It's so unimportant. If she can't support you and get over this i suspect she isn't a very good friend actually and this is probably not worth the fight. Im assuming she doesn't have kids yet. You'll soon find you won't have time or energy or give a crap bout people haveong petty arguments with you like this trust me !! Focus on the family and the baby way more important!! Congratulations by the way !!!
I see this more as someone is trying to break your marriage up- and this someone knows the details of your scars. Who knows that info? Who knows that info and may have a motive to break you up? Could be someone interested in your wife- anyone sniffing around? Could also be a toxic family member, maybe jealous of the relationship. Anyone bitter about your marriage? Do some thinking with your wife about possible motives and suspects. Check the wording of the message, does it sound like someone you both know, because this is someone one of you knows.
The only thing she knows about you is that you went to the same school, but you think she might be “the one” for you?
The problem is not that you said you like her. The problem is that you have built up some idea of her in your mind that isn’t who she actually is. You need to learn things about a person before you can evaluate how you fit with them. Get to know a person so you can find out if you like them. And that should be someone who isn’t her. She’s not interested. Find someone who is.
You are not the one being controlling here – at various points, you make comments that make it clear that your girlfriend is moderating your request for advice about how to deal wirh her. And, yes – you have to sleep on the sheets, too, so I don't know why it would even be a question that both of you should agree about them. But she doesn't want to give you a say; she's trying to control the entire situation. Thr fact that she escalated that into conflict when you might have liked her choice anyway (especially if they're the good sheets she thinks they are – though they're not: I regretted buying cheap sheets on Amazon six months after the purchase, when they were already pilling badly; they're definitely not “the best” unless that means the best under $100) makes me suspect that this is a pervasive problem with her behavior. What she's doing when she says you are being controlling when she actually is the one being controlling is a common manipulating technique called DARVO.
You should handle this by dumping her; she's abusive and won't change without years of psychotherapy, and maybe not even then. You should not stick around to be abused while finding out if she's willing to try and if she actually can change.
I would go and my husband would support me but he's not a possessive immature guy like your bf. I reckon that you eould have greater emotional distress not seeing your grandma than placating him. If he's so desperate to go with you is there any way he xan ask his own family for the air fare? If not, you should still go and he needs to get over himself. You're going to see your grandma who will be attending a work conference.
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That's your opinion. The difference is I'm in a really healthy relationship and I'm married and I've always been in healthy relationships. Can you say the same?
Wow I mean their are so many people with same names in this world etc. It's so unimportant. If she can't support you and get over this i suspect she isn't a very good friend actually and this is probably not worth the fight. Im assuming she doesn't have kids yet. You'll soon find you won't have time or energy or give a crap bout people haveong petty arguments with you like this trust me !! Focus on the family and the baby way more important!! Congratulations by the way !!!
I see this more as someone is trying to break your marriage up- and this someone knows the details of your scars. Who knows that info? Who knows that info and may have a motive to break you up? Could be someone interested in your wife- anyone sniffing around? Could also be a toxic family member, maybe jealous of the relationship. Anyone bitter about your marriage? Do some thinking with your wife about possible motives and suspects. Check the wording of the message, does it sound like someone you both know, because this is someone one of you knows.
The only thing she knows about you is that you went to the same school, but you think she might be “the one” for you?
The problem is not that you said you like her. The problem is that you have built up some idea of her in your mind that isn’t who she actually is. You need to learn things about a person before you can evaluate how you fit with them. Get to know a person so you can find out if you like them. And that should be someone who isn’t her. She’s not interested. Find someone who is.
Ok. Let me know when you get to the funny part of the joke.
You are not the one being controlling here – at various points, you make comments that make it clear that your girlfriend is moderating your request for advice about how to deal wirh her. And, yes – you have to sleep on the sheets, too, so I don't know why it would even be a question that both of you should agree about them. But she doesn't want to give you a say; she's trying to control the entire situation. Thr fact that she escalated that into conflict when you might have liked her choice anyway (especially if they're the good sheets she thinks they are – though they're not: I regretted buying cheap sheets on Amazon six months after the purchase, when they were already pilling badly; they're definitely not “the best” unless that means the best under $100) makes me suspect that this is a pervasive problem with her behavior. What she's doing when she says you are being controlling when she actually is the one being controlling is a common manipulating technique called DARVO.
You should handle this by dumping her; she's abusive and won't change without years of psychotherapy, and maybe not even then. You should not stick around to be abused while finding out if she's willing to try and if she actually can change.
Yes it is time to end it.
I would go and my husband would support me but he's not a possessive immature guy like your bf. I reckon that you eould have greater emotional distress not seeing your grandma than placating him. If he's so desperate to go with you is there any way he xan ask his own family for the air fare? If not, you should still go and he needs to get over himself. You're going to see your grandma who will be attending a work conference.
It sounds like she's having fun with other dudes or something.