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Date: October 25, 2022
I'm hoping her husband divorces her and gets the kid out from under her influence. I had a feeling they'd show up and they did even though their scene didn't go as planned. Here's hoping she regrets her actions well being abandoned by everyone
Is this a joke?? I sincerely hope so. This is ridiculous, she needs to leave.
We have some tough areas in town, but not where she would’ve been headed. It’s just a Big Lots three minutes up the street lol.
Never would I let her go somewhere I think she would be unsafe. Although, things just continue to get more reckless in this age..
I always try to consider her pov as a woman as much as I can, so thank you lol
I’m not a man but I can give my perspective from being in a similar position, as a 26f.
All in 13 months I met, went long distance, got engaged, broke up with my ex-fiancé. We are both in the military, we started dating in December 20 and I deployed in May 21 for 6 months. I got back home in November and by December 21 he proposed and I said yes. He was my first serious partner so I thought the fast speed was normal since we were “in love”. It wasn’t until I was really thinking about our future when I had the realisation that I was going to marry someone who id only spent 3 months in the same location with. At the start I postponed the wedding until we could be in the same state for at least 12 months, then I called it off completely because the LD was never going to end. In hindsight, I came to realise he was quite controlling and I stopped being myself to please him. We’ve been broken up for months now and I’m in such a better place mentally and physically than I had before!
You have so much growing to do as a person, so don’t marry this dude! Cause all the opportunities to have fun and a single person with no attachments goes away. But, just be aware of the way that he might try and manipulate you to keep you around. I wrote a script and included some potential rebuttals that he could say, so I could be confident in my position to call it off!
Yea it hurts my confidence
What your husband said is absolutely unacceptable in any state of mind. That said, it’s a little strange to be laying down absolute rules for another adult’s alcohol consumption. Is there a reason you feel justified doing that, like does he have a history of alcoholism or something?
Just tell her, not only she is making choices,she is choosing the consequences.
I don’t think anti social people like yourself should be giving advice on this sub.
You are still young. It is his loss. Go out and meet people. It is naked believe me I know. Almost everyone has experienced heart break and it sucks. Don't rush anything. Live! & experience life if you are truly ment to be you will be.
My heart aches for you. I know that feeling all too well, where you know it's time to leave but it still feels like letting go means tearing your heart out.
I promise you, it will get better. The second he is completely out of your life, your head will begin to clear from all his manipulation, and in a matter of days you'll find that it hurts less. Like quitting any addiction, once the worst part passes, it'll get steadily easier and easier until you feel anger instead of pain, and eventually nothing at all when you think of him.
Best if luck to you
Never joined a sub so fast in my life
She seems flirty—you should try!! I don’t think there would be any real harm in it!
But if he cared about you, he would want YOU to have good sex, too!!
you really would be surprised how few guys out there think like this. like kudos my dude
Tbh I can’t imagine a world in which I wouldn’t tell my boyfriend if my ex got dumped lol. I am seriously confused about why anyone would care about their partner talking about their ex unless it was in some kind of like weird/emotional/longing way.
Like dude was a big part of my life and that’s just not going to go away because I’m in a relationship, I’m not going to suddenly stop caring. We’re friends, so yeah I’m gonna gossip about his relationship status to my boyfriend and he’s not going to give a shit
But even after like 10 years??
I would agree with you if she didn't initiate it. She's the one who opened that door, and on top of that, she doesn't want to go to counseling.
If dude has gone away to school, and is only seeing you every three weeks, and is staying faithful, then sex is clearly not his no.1 priority.
It sounds like you are not compatible and you should just part ways before it gets ugly.
OPs father ignored her for the first 13 years of her life. She doesn't owe him some fake excitement about his new kid, who for some weird reason they decided to give essentially the same name. It's weird, the dad knew that it upset OP, and is going through with it anyway. The baby isn't born yet, they can easily change the name.
It makes me feel like, because I can’t give him sex, he can’t be in a relationship anymore. And I once again am feeling like all I am good for is my body.
I don't like how you've phrased this and disagree with how you did, but YES, sex is going to be an essential part of most relationships.
It's not that “the only thing you're good for” is your body. It's that it is about 1/3 of the essentials for a healthy relationship for most men. The 3 essentials are basically loyalty, companionship and sex
If he was a provider, and protector but didn't offer any love, affection or companionship would you want to stay with him long term?
my parents are saints sent from heaven above who’s only mistake was to have such a dumb bitch for a child. this comment changed my life, im no longer mentally ill. next time i see my parents im going to hug them & thank them so much for giving me the gift of life. thank you so much ♥️
You don't have a friendship. Friendships are mutual, plain and simple. As soon as someone has unreciprocated feelings…. It's not a true friendship. And if you were really being honest with yourself you were always waiting on the sidelines, waiting your turn like she's a carnival ride, never being a true friend. She doesn't want you and she never will. You don't have a friendship, you have a failed courtship
Am I the only one that read the strap-on part and was like “atleast this grandma is accepting!!”
Am I the only one that read the strap-on part and was like “atleast this grandma is accepting!!”
Sincere thanks. This is my second choice if I can’t convince her to give her two middle names. I’d rather change it and have my wife be happy than do nothing.
Oh no. He’ll do anything to save his child. Sorry OP but if it comes down to it, he’s okay putting your life in danger.
I don’t have a lot of red lines, but if someone says they’re “quite anti-abortion” I’m out, for my own safety.
I understand I'm entitled to more but since technically webought the house before we got married, even then it wouldn't automatically go into my name so to me, he needs to just do it. Even if we aren't together, it morally should be half mine anyways so what's problem?! Just where in at with it. Yup, still in therapy! Thanks!
Ah, psychobabble. I thought as much. Sounds like some kind of Dr. Phil nonsense or similar.
I would respond “Text John* and let him help you. For reference: “
* name changed to protect the innocent
I mean… what's to explain? You have months of chatter between her and some other man.
The pictures are pretty damning.
You could meet her and give her a chance to explain. A chance to say sorry and goodbye.
But what else would there to do?
I was going to suggest sending her a bunch of photos too. She will get the hint from that and there is nothing to explain.
Set her free, there’s plenty of time to find someone more compatible.
That’s a terrible thing to say. I’m glad I’m not your husband. Imagine a marriage only valued at 15 minute of sex, regardless of who it was smh
Exactly. The “Ideal” body changes. In the 50s curvy Marilyn Monroe, 60s it was twiggy, the 80s it was the fit aerobic body, 90s it was heroin chic, now apparently Kylie. You cant base surgical decisions on fleeting trends and a shitty bf.
Your boyfriend sounds like an arsehole not you both seem to be pretty young, which you guys are.
Never get cosmetic surgery for anyone!!! There is ways to change your body without actual surgery, you can grow glutes and change shape through lifting weights. Look into other forms before thinking of dangerous life changing surgery.
Oh and get therapy.
Who said that's all she thinks of?
Either way he shouldn't have gone digging.
This would legally be sexual harassment, not sexual assault. Still extremely harmful and toxic AF.
Personally I count that as cheating, a kiss is a kiss as you said. Also the red flags, what if she just felt like having sex with them at the moment? It’s a terrible excuse and foreshadowing imo. Leave while you still can
How would you even know that??
You apparently know condoms exist, so why are you asking him about other options? There’s your other option.
Maybe paying for condoms shouldn’t just be your responsibility but protecting your body from disease and unwanted pregnancy is 100% just your responsibility. It’s completely irresponsible to use pulling out as contraception, you’re putting yourself in considerable danger with this ridiculous approach.
Use condoms. End of story.
Sounds like ghosting to me 🙁 Happens to almost everyone at some point, best to call it his loss. He’s too old to be ghosting anyway, bullet dodged imo
Very true, perhaps im simply not cut out for hookup culture even though i want to be
You are trying to equate your cheating to a birthday/leave me alone text to an ex?
I like your style ?
After looking through your post history, it seems like you're trying to find an excuse to end things. Idk I feel like you're not as secure in your relationship as you think you are and need to talk with your bf about these insecurities
? I'm but u sound as bad as the bf
Why the fuck were you even flirting with him?
This should have been dealt with before getting married. Rushing to the altar often brings this result, discovering things much too late. Incompatibilities should be dealt with early, and not acknowledged instead this late in the game.
In anyone seriously christian, the relationship with god always comes before relationship with anyone else and the only way not to be cheated on in that respect is to also be involved in that threesome. Blunt way of looking at it, but in this scenario you're the partner on the sideline not taking part.
So encourage her to sing other songs.
Still laughing
Being insecure is one thing but it's the way he said it, he's acting like you did it on purpose to get other guys attention and that's a red flag to me
Also out of interest did you want to do the date or valentine's day or did he? Cos if it was you, he may have deliberately ruined it so you wouldn't want to do it again
He was hoping for a Netflix and Chill sesh
For those who are going to jump to the “insecure” and “controlling” perspective without thinking….OP you are 19 and he is 20, you're both very young and still learning to navigate life. With that said, you perhaps had the most sincere intentions wearing the outfit for him, but it DOES NOT mean he saw it that way.
There are two things going on, he in one area does not realize you genuinely were doing this for him which is completely fine as a concept, but in the other area he IS NOT comfortable with you overly exposing your skin in public. And you know what? He does not have to be and I would argue the vast majority of men are not ok with their partner doing it, however many of us have been taught and pressured to accept that it is indeed ok and to keep those feelings bottled inside for fear of judgement. But that is another conversation.
What I would do is simply sit him down and have a conversation when you both cool off, and explain why you chose that outfit for him and your thoughts process. See his response, and then afterward try to talk about his feelings on you overly exposing yourself in public and get his perspective.
Once you have that information you have a choice to make, compromise and see if you both can reach an agreement, or leave and be with someone who is ok with you dressing how you please.
Maybe help more around the house and with the kids. Get someone to come and clean once a week for her to help. 4 kids 6 and under is enough to make anyone tired. Spring for a sitter for a date night. Bring romance back to your relationship.
While I agree that OP should dump him, I would 100% take a Brazilian wax over a dance class.. if you hate dancing, the discomfort isn't a physical one based on the tightness of shoes
He has his age set to a different number.
I have a co-worker who is like that. I would never do the things she does, but people are different. She once lost one cheap plastic flip flop on a train and went back for it. Last month we ordered lunch and it was really not good. She packed everything up and went over there to the restaurant and made the cook taste it, after work! I would never have bothered! But that's how she is.
I’m pretty convinced. If you want to be more convinced get all cuddly and chatty with him then look him dead in the eye and ask about the trash. Even if he lies watch how his body language changes.
Be very very cautious. It is sinister and secretive. I hope he gets help before that happens tho. Good luck
I didn't say it was an American thing to care about someone's wellbeing. It's an American thing to assume you know something about someone else's culture and try to educate them about it in a paternalistic patronizing way.
I don’t and I mentioned it already, but that doesn’t mean he has or will ever do anything to me nor has he shown me nothing but love since we have been togethee
You delivered vaginally and they did an improtu tubal that day?
You need to go talk to your family about the threat your fiancé made. Do you think he is going to stop making that threat during the future if you marry him? He won’t, if you want a divorce before he is done with you, he will threaten to kill you and the kids, or you and everyone that you have immediate family connections with.
While I get your upset about people being anti monogamy a lot of us poly people are VERY committed and put a lot of work into our relationships. It’s an unfair assumption to think that we can’t commit or anything of the sort.
I’ve been in a very stable loving and committed poly relationship for over 10 years (our 11th anniversary is coming up soon!!) and we’re just as committed as a monogamous relationship!!
You f*cked up and now you have to live! with the consequences. It probably doesn't feel real good to watch your gf have sex with a random stranger off tinder. The fact you can easily have sex with someone you dotn know can't feel good. Plus you basically forced him into it. He wasn't really on board. If you've been on reddit long enough you should know that this rarely works out well and more often than not the relationship is over. Unless someone is 100% on board with three some or open relationship you don't. It always ends up badly. You can't fix this and he likely won't ever get past this. So better get used to being single and yiu can have many 3 somes as you want
Along with visiting her doctor, it could be time to play with different positions and angles. Maybe a thick pillow under her hips or something like that could help.
What do you tell people when they ask how you met? If you’re not honest about that then you both know it’s wrong
Now you want the same things he does?
Your behavior smells fishy. So does his.
…..
Let alone being pregnant and risking her life alone. She could die and he wouldn't know.
Every morning waking up puking, getting angry that you're getting more and more disabled, when you have pre-eclampsia and need someone to care for you, when you can't lift anything or tie your shoes. When you're miserable and wish you had gotten an abortion… being alone doing that is something you can't undo once you've reached the point of no return. Too many people let their hormones control their decisions and trust me when I say this, it can destroy the woman and the unwanted child.
Jesus you're a wreck
THIS. I broke up with my fiancé 2 months before our wedding. Planning the wedding gave me sooo much insight on who I was setting myself up to marry (as well many other things added in). He pawned so much off on to me.. I had a very similar experience as you. He wanted the wedding at a venue, etc. he just threw money at it but wanted nothing to do with planning, assisting even sending out invites to his own family. Yet I was working 40+ hours a week, full time college student, took care of the house, the dog and his kid (from a ONS). It made me realize that I had been so alone doing so much on my own to keep the relationship together. It made me realize that he was only with me for what I had to offer not because he ACTUALLY liked me/loved me. I broke down and realized I needed so much more for myself and to not settle for someone who really didn’t love me but just loved what I had to offer.
I hope so
Yep $20-30 for afterschool makes more sense. Where I live! the summer camps are around €80-€100 per week, but often they're not for the full day.
If you're willing I'd love to hear how things went after telling him. I read all your responses & your husband sounds like me. I wouldn't have an issue with it as I think love is love. As long as are children are happy that's all that matters. Also supporting them in their decisions♡♡♡
I'm a mom of two & already told my oldest I won't be mad if she does end up with someone of the same orientation.
Support & love goes a long way. I'm so happy you reacted the way you did. I would also have many questions if I were in your shoes.
Consider actually following through with the tactic I threatened my 5 messy kids with: I was going to get a local police officer to stop by for a social visit, Look around, and say “My god – you’ve been ransacked!”
Omg do not do this. Read all the comments saying don’t do this. We don’t want to see you posting in a couple of weeks about this ending your relationship. Please don’t do this. Please.
He developed something you “think is Balanitis.” Why would you guess? Regardless, it’s now five months later.
Because he has the symptoms of it. Irritation, dry skin. His doctor initially thought it might be dermatitis, but this would make more sense
When you then mention oral it shows it’s unrelated to the diagnosis you decided on.
Oral is more gentle and is not as painful for him. Though I have always had the feeling this is a cop out because it is just more convenient for him.
As you continue, it just seems like he makes every excuse he can not to spend time with you. What’s there to salvage?
We still hang out multiple (4-5) times per week (get lunch/dinner, watch a movie, hang out with mutual friends) — we just do not have sex as frequently anymore.
You are not living together?
Have you considered that all the pain and irregular periods could be a medical issue she should get checked? Because this post is all about your sad penis and impatience, and nothing about your girlfriend's health.
So the first thing I would do is encourage her to talk to her gyno.
So he is ignorant, racist, sexist, rude, and insensitive to your feelings? Cool dude….
Is your question how low are the lowest reasonable standards? Higher than this.
U just need the right negligé…
the good news is there is absolutely no question to if you should leave this guy or not, or if he's a terrible mate, or not. those answers should be really quite clear.
that said, I note your title asks 'is this gaslighting and manipulation'…
yes. it sounds like a combination of gaslighting and manipulation. to pull just one example, he 1 called you a 'dumb bitch', 2 lied and said he didn’t, and 3 moved the goalposts when you proved he did.
friend… I'm not sure how you can experience that and still have any doubts regarding whether or not he's a gaslighting asshole.
none of this is acceptable behaviour for a mate… period.
it sounds like you need to get out of there. do you have any family or close friends you could stay with?
So you didn't even acknowledge what you were doing to her until she's leaving over it? Oooph.
Do you do the same thing in other places, conversations, topics, etc? I'll bet yes, because it's usually a lot of things together.
He looks really insecure, like if you go secretly to an orgy each month.
Make it clear that he has his daughter and you have your glamping. You both had it before kniwibg the other. No one has to ask the other to abandon it.
I thought the same thing. This is not first relationship, early 20's just starting out age. This is I'm heading quickly towards middle age and should know some shit by now age.
This is how I perceived his little “contract”
-seeing each other 2-3 times a week Ok. That’s reasonable ✅
-I should be more fun/positive Does he think you’re boring and rude? ☣️
-make the plans for us if going out Why? Does that include YOU paying? ☣️
-encourage him to tidy up or achieve a goal Mommy kink? ?
-Take the lead on cooking meals Is this supposed to be during the 2-3 times a week you see each other? ☣️
-initiate affection/sex Seriously… ?
-be softer/gentler in mood/energy See replies for 2nd and 4th ?☣️
-demonstrate my admiration/respect Mommy kink confirmed ??
-not accuse/ bring up the past that starts fights Translation: Don’t point out the obvious so you don’t realize your mistake in dating me ??☣️☣️
I have those as well as other severe mental shit and i'd have to agree. I do however think it's ok to request more time together and asking them to try to be more positive but these things should never be a demand. I would just need someone to be there for me, encourage me and maybe help in other ways from time to time. Such as spending some time with me if i'm having a big depression episode. Things that are reasonable and supportive.
While I can understand how bad this shit can be, hell I have the practical pharmacy of meds to prove it, this guy is demanding too much. About half of the shit on that list is unhealthy. It's specially made bad by it being demanded. He might think it would help but you can't hurt your partner to help yourself.
He is verbalizing that he blames you for his life being bad and he recently smashed apart a chair in anger. Why on earth do you not fear for your safety?
Boy byyyyyyyye!!
First off I'm not excusing his behavior.
However, he is grieving. It is coming out in all sorts of unhealthy ways. If he is refusing therapy then your relationship may not survive this. There is a reason why many couples don't survive the loss of a child.
Quite honestly get some distance for a while. Stay somewhere else, or have him do so. Let time do its thing.
I know man but something I've learned is that you can't put yourself in a shit hole you can't deal with. Besides once she is out you will resent her and she won't understand why, then she'll dump you even tho you put up with her shit (maybe I am projecting)
Dont worry! I saw u were here and were listening to both sides and thats a good thing. Anything I said about being forceful and weirdos isnt applied to you, it was to commentators who were pushing that rethoric. Im glad u came here with open ears and listened to both sides
You’re not being dramatic. He brings nothing to this marriage and actively makes your life harder while also complaining about how much he doesn’t want to be there.
Love it an action. He may claim to love you but that’s worthless if none of his behaviours reflect that, and they don’t. Stop letting him pay lip service to your marriage while he continues to drag you down.
Your mom is crazy
HA! “Cotton is so much better for you. You could end up with thrush from all that nylon. You're welcome honey”.
That's not what you said in your post. You said you grabbed her to prevent her from leaving.
Try switching between hard and cold compresses. That might help. And if you wanted to cover it up, I would recommend make up. But the make up will only hide the color, your eye will still be swollen lol
If he is so uncomfortable and embarrassed he may as well end it. All she is asking is for him to say the words “I need space” he is a sad little child with a bruised ego and honestly she could do better than someone who causes her physical pain then gets upset when she calls him out
Guys obviously a weirdo, and this is him on his best behaviour
Let me start by telling you about me; I'm a guy and I'm happily married. I also had quite a bit of fun in my teens and twenties. I tell you this for two reasons; first, so that you know I'm not a woman coming at this with some sort of potentially blind perspective that you're just a prick and the reason I feel that way is because I'm a woman. I'm not. Second, you have a misguided notion (as do many others) regarding the relationship between someone who likes to have fun as it relates to being a good monogamous partner.
On that note, let's just call out how you begin; you say she's far from your standards. On that note, why wouldn't this have ended then and there? I'll continue to provide my opinion here (which again is nothing more than my own opinion) and say that her enjoying clubs/parties, dressing revealing, and wanting to go out with the girls is inherently a non-issue.
Why is her enjoying clubs and parties inherently an issue? I logically know what you'll say to all of my questions so I'll state them and address them; your premise will be that it means she'll get drunk, be around drunk people, and is more likely to cheat. The first two are obviously going to be the case. But why does that mean she's going to cheat? Getting drunk always means you're incapable of making rational decisions? If that's something you have to fear, then you certainly shouldn't be in a relationship with that person. But it's not because of partying; it's because they're shitty people.
She likes to dress revealing? So what? Might make people more attracted to her? Awesome, you should take that as a compliment. Means she's going to cheat? Yes, guys will almost certainly hit on her. The hard truth is that they logically will even if she's dressed in a way you deem appropriate. But again, so? She has the agency to respect her partner and not entertain the situation. Before I then get into the friends, I'm certain you might argue something like “I trust her; I just don't trust them.” That's the biggest lie someone can tell themselves.
Let's now talk about going out with the girls. Why's that a problem? She can't have friends? You can't have friends? Independence is important and healthy in a relationship. That means time to yourself and with friends. If you need to be with your partner 24/7, you're going to struggle dating I promise you.
After all that, let's get into the specific example. You first describe her as your “side chick.” Not exactly someone I'd suggest you're in a position to give shit to for living their life given how apathetic you are to them. Regardless, you essentially ask her out on a date. You tell her you trust her and that she can do whatever (which is honestly a fucking weird thing to say in this context), but then you disappear for an hour.
So let's put things into perspective; you ask a woman out. She comes out. You then voluntarily ditch her. Why couldn't she come with you? Why did you think it was ok to be gone for an hour? Why did you intentionally avoid her? It's seemingly because you were playing games.
The girl who fucking came out with you got left by you, you blew her off, she reached out to you a bunch, because yeah, who logically wouldn't want to know where the fuck their date is? I'd imagine at that point she thought “well fuck this asshole, I'm going to go have fun.” She did exactly that, you decided to reappear and then make her out to be an asshole for hooking up with someone else.
Yeah, she chased after you because she's young and dumb. She has nothing to apologize about. You're logically a piece of shit and you're now gaslighting her. You then go on a date and decide you can never forgive her for something she shouldn't be sorry for. Give the poor girl a break and let her go.
She's not that into you mate
Everyone keep saying to tell you dad. I was in the same situation as you at 14. I told my dad to confess what he had done to my mom. I told him many times, and eventually the lies caught up with him, and my mom caught him.
Either way, you’re not at fault, it’s not your responsibility and it’s also not your relationship, but in your situation, you mom needs to take accountability and tell your dad. At least for everyone’s sake and for your mental health.
No, it was only like a week ago
You haven't had trust in a long time.
She followed you on Instagram and watched all your stories, but then next time you saw her she was not as friendly…
I’m wondering if there is anything in your stories or posts she could possibly have been offended by or that turned her off?
This quite literally reads like a horror movie to me.
This isn’t normal, at all. And it’s very clear this isn’t what you want.
If you’re scared to make an exit plan, call a domestic abuse hotline – they can help!
I’m asking for thoughts on how to handle this situation because I don’t play games. I already made my feelings clear and without going into the detail of “he didn’t handle it well”, IMO it was justified to block him.
Especially if I was used to make another girl he had been dating previously jealous so she’d reach out (unconfirmed, but when I was there on the hometown trip one of his friends girlfriends called him out for just dropping this girl one day).
I’m concerned that he is immature in relationships and I can’t handle games. I’ve already been clear once. If he isn’t making his intent known, that’s a bad sign to me.
My ex used to do this over the smallest and most insignificant things until I’d be crying and begging him to talk to me, at which point he’d just laugh and continue with whatever he was doing. He would look at me like I was the most disgusting thing on earth if I kept trying to talk to him. This, combined with various other abusive situations (both physical and psychological) lead me to end up fleeing to a women’s shelter after enduring it for 3 years.
People like this will break you down gradually. You won’t even notice it happening until you’re already too deep into it. It won’t stop at things like this. Gaslighting will come into play, ‘well if you hadn’t done X I wouldn’t need to ignore you’ or he’ll be overly sorry and loving for a few days/weeks to ensure you stay before it happens again.
Maybe I’m reading too much into this but it really triggered memories for me that I wouldn’t want anyone else to go through.
It's doesn't have to be like a final yes/no question.
You could ask just to open up the convo and see if she's ever thought about it.
Questions like: “hey. Sometimes I think that living together might be nice. Do you ever imagine or think about living together? This is what I would enjoy about it (XYZ).
What would that look like for you? What do you need/want from a romantic housemate/cohabiting partner?”
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Op please pay attention to this advice?
Yeah idk. It depends, arguments could escalate from things as small as me touching her pillow or moving in the night, to me getting jealous ab her entertaining/not shutting down flirty guys on Snapchat.
Well that was an instantaneous reality check huh never really considered that especially seeing as I've been very transparent with my therapist and she always told me I'm just young and it's normal
Glad to hear it!
I was thinking of one of my friends. Sometimes he's been there for me when I really needed it, and other times he's unexplainably a big flake. But I've come to understand that's just the way he is as a person. He's still my friend, even though I won't count on him in every situation.
A lot of it is personality difference. I'm guessing you're an introvert, and your friend isn't. If you find a fellow introvert, they may be able to better relate to the kind of friendship you are looking for.
I can understand how painful all these comments must be for you to read. But
Your going circles here. He says what he knows you want to hear to shut you up and keep you around for his convenience.
HE DOES NOT WANT TO GET MARRIED!!!! TO YOU OR ANYONE
How can you still say that he is a “good man”?! Seems like you can't realise the severity of the fucked up shit he did…
I don't even know if I want to do our nightly (every night) FaceTime date as he calls it. It's like 2 hours long. We live! 1.5 hours from each other and consistently see each other every weekend taking turns at each others place. I feel I want to do the facetime but part of me which is mostly sweet nurturing and kind feels bitter and pissed tonight and I hate that I feel I wanna say no I don't want to speak to you tonight as a form of punishment and make him sweat a little and see what he may lose. Is that manipulative or is that just me being hesitant to ruin our routine by needing some time ?
I don’t believe in that. It is just normalising delusion. I don’t think they deserve misery but I don’t think it is a normal thing. I obviously won’t share this with my sister, I’ll be civil with him but I won’t change my personal views.
I understand that what my husband said was bad and I had a talk with him after we put the kids to bed but he doesn’t see what he has done wrong. He has his own strong beliefs that are too strong to hide.
I think when meeting my sister if she accepts an olive branch I somehow manage to get her to accept it will just be me and the kids.
Reading each other's texts does not mean you have a good relationship, it means you have an insecure relationship.
Unless he has shown a lot of insecurity in the past around this area I don't see why you have any reason to worry. It's true some guys are weirdly threatened by toys, but I think those guys are rarer and rarer nowadays.