My husband and I have been married for 10 years and have two children together.
He travels often. I also want to say that about 8 months ago I discovered that I was infected with an incurable STD; He blamed me for this, saying that I was the unfaithful one.
Well, I was browsing Facebook in a Mothers group, in that group it is for help with children, to ask for donations, share experiences and memes.
A mother shared that she would give her husband a laxative tea so he wouldn't go to a soccer game the next day. It was all mockery and laughter in the comments of the post and telling her to update the result.
I am a person who likes to read comments, unfortunately I saw a profile that had a photo of a woman with my husband.
I started watching and apparently they got married civilly, my husband created another profile but has a different name and surname. I think that child has his false last name because she uploaded a post when she went to register the child's birth certificate and placed the full name there as if she were proud of it.
I posted it in the same group (now that they give the option to post anonymously), several gave me advice and we deduced that possibly the other lady didn't know because of what she shared on her profile.
I wrote to her and was surprised that the b*tch did know that he was married. They have been married for 2 years and their baby is approximately 14 months old. Although they are not technically married, their marriage is not valid.
I hired a lawyer, I took all the evidence and I am in the divorce process, since when I complained he preferred her, he left the house to online with her. Besides, he refuses to give alimony, claiming that he has another child to support, and that if he has to give alimony to my children, he will seek the minimum payment even if he has to quit his job.
How do I proceed with my life? I think I feel very limited in rebuilding my life because of the STD and my children.
Sorry for my English, I'm not American.