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Yea, you're blowing it out of proportion. If he's not ready to give it up, you shouldn't push him. If he never gives it up, you still shouldn't push him.
Him having this vice (not that I advise vaping) is not less for you, it's not you being forced to give it up, it's not being taken away. You chose to give it up. Would you prefer a man who only does what you do and caves on every decision when challenged?
If you don't want to date somone who vapes then don't. While it is hypocritical to do so, you shouldn't be compelled to stay with somone you don't want to date.
Sorry to say but he’s not gonna stop sexting/looking at nudes. He only says that because he got caught. If I were you I’d just leave, what’s the point in waiting for the lease to end if your name isn’t on it anyway. He lets you do all the work and pay for everting, he might need a wake up call at this point.
This sounds exactly like my ex. While saying things were perfect. She was nice, communicated very clearly and we never fought and had sex like of teenagers. As soon as we got married she changed. Literally the day after on our honeymoon it was like I had a completely different person sitting there. She turned cold, unloving and started using sex as a manipulation tactic. I put up with it for a few years and we finally divorced.
Go ahead and do it now and save a few years time. It won’t get better. Some women look at marriage as the end game and that they won. They stop trying and use the “he’s not going anywhere now” mentality to use and manipulate you.
I know you said they don’t believe in hiring a helper. But at least try to hire someone to do housework for you guys. It would be so much less stress on you.
Were you there when the friend called the number? Do you know what she said? Did it sounded as if the wife was a danger to herself?
If my SO would change like this… i couldn't just sit by and not say something to him. But you said nothing. You just let the friend handle everything. And even as you heard in the week after the call nothing, you didn’t thought about next steps or talking with her. It was like “oh well…” You were so fucking passive. I would worry that you would behave like this again. Ask yourself how you could on-line your life and not once talk to hear about her behaviour or your worries – how this is a working marriage.
All the damage this caused can take years to be undone and your wife has so many other shit to deal with. I wonder if it isn't best for her to get a divorce. To let her concentrate on herself.
I'll feel like a fool too. Not only did she lie by omission, she had you hanging out with people she had sex with. This is why you should know about your partner's past.
It sounds like you two are good friends. If you can continue being friends with her while supporting her relationship, that would be ideal.
I don’t think that this is a situation where you either confess your love for her or end the friendship. She is in a relationship. Support her. I don’t think that confessing your love would be a great move. Maybe try some dating and continue to talk to her as a friend. That may be easier than risking a friendship with somebody that may be life long.
If she is unhappy in her relationship, you may be able to tell her that she deserves better and you’re confident that she wouldn’t have to search long. But straight up confessing doesn’t seem ideal as it could lead to a messy situation.
No, they just have no respect for you or your relationship. Don’t let yourself be a pushover. Stick up for her and for yourself. If she’s yours, make sure they know that, but do it in a nice-assertive way. Let them know that it’s weird hearing what they’d do to her. Maybe even crack a joke when one of them says their fantasy and say “I’ll let you know what she thinks when I try it” to assert the fact that you’re the only one who’s going to be trying anything with your girlfriend.
I find it pretty naked to believe that a 5 and 9 YO are saying these things.
But in case this isn’t a troll post….
Part of our job as parents is to demonstrate healthy relationships for our children to model. Even if you aren’t fighting in front of the kids, children feel the tension. Kids raised in dysfunction have a higher rate of anxiety disorders and other mental health issues and tend to end up in similarly dysfunctional relationships without professional intervention (therapy).
Yea, you're blowing it out of proportion. If he's not ready to give it up, you shouldn't push him. If he never gives it up, you still shouldn't push him.
Him having this vice (not that I advise vaping) is not less for you, it's not you being forced to give it up, it's not being taken away. You chose to give it up. Would you prefer a man who only does what you do and caves on every decision when challenged?
If you don't want to date somone who vapes then don't. While it is hypocritical to do so, you shouldn't be compelled to stay with somone you don't want to date.
Sorry to say but he’s not gonna stop sexting/looking at nudes. He only says that because he got caught. If I were you I’d just leave, what’s the point in waiting for the lease to end if your name isn’t on it anyway. He lets you do all the work and pay for everting, he might need a wake up call at this point.
This sounds exactly like my ex. While saying things were perfect. She was nice, communicated very clearly and we never fought and had sex like of teenagers. As soon as we got married she changed. Literally the day after on our honeymoon it was like I had a completely different person sitting there. She turned cold, unloving and started using sex as a manipulation tactic. I put up with it for a few years and we finally divorced.
Go ahead and do it now and save a few years time. It won’t get better. Some women look at marriage as the end game and that they won. They stop trying and use the “he’s not going anywhere now” mentality to use and manipulate you.
I know you said they don’t believe in hiring a helper. But at least try to hire someone to do housework for you guys. It would be so much less stress on you.
Were you there when the friend called the number? Do you know what she said? Did it sounded as if the wife was a danger to herself?
If my SO would change like this… i couldn't just sit by and not say something to him. But you said nothing. You just let the friend handle everything. And even as you heard in the week after the call nothing, you didn’t thought about next steps or talking with her. It was like “oh well…” You were so fucking passive. I would worry that you would behave like this again. Ask yourself how you could on-line your life and not once talk to hear about her behaviour or your worries – how this is a working marriage.
All the damage this caused can take years to be undone and your wife has so many other shit to deal with. I wonder if it isn't best for her to get a divorce. To let her concentrate on herself.
Real post lol
She sounds like she's 13
I'll feel like a fool too. Not only did she lie by omission, she had you hanging out with people she had sex with. This is why you should know about your partner's past.
It sounds like you two are good friends. If you can continue being friends with her while supporting her relationship, that would be ideal.
I don’t think that this is a situation where you either confess your love for her or end the friendship. She is in a relationship. Support her. I don’t think that confessing your love would be a great move. Maybe try some dating and continue to talk to her as a friend. That may be easier than risking a friendship with somebody that may be life long.
If she is unhappy in her relationship, you may be able to tell her that she deserves better and you’re confident that she wouldn’t have to search long. But straight up confessing doesn’t seem ideal as it could lead to a messy situation.
No, they just have no respect for you or your relationship. Don’t let yourself be a pushover. Stick up for her and for yourself. If she’s yours, make sure they know that, but do it in a nice-assertive way. Let them know that it’s weird hearing what they’d do to her. Maybe even crack a joke when one of them says their fantasy and say “I’ll let you know what she thinks when I try it” to assert the fact that you’re the only one who’s going to be trying anything with your girlfriend.
I find it pretty naked to believe that a 5 and 9 YO are saying these things.
But in case this isn’t a troll post….
Part of our job as parents is to demonstrate healthy relationships for our children to model. Even if you aren’t fighting in front of the kids, children feel the tension. Kids raised in dysfunction have a higher rate of anxiety disorders and other mental health issues and tend to end up in similarly dysfunctional relationships without professional intervention (therapy).