One of the most important reasons for counselling is to overcome arguments where both of you view yourself as right, and the other as wrong, so that you can prevent an issue becoming deep resentment. It's much harder to come back from a big issue than it is to get someone to help prevent one.
Why did this cause a fight, I don’t understand. You said you mentioned to him as a suggestion, he gave his honest answer, and you should have dropped it. He didn’t “control” your body as you paraded the words, “my body, my choice,” he told you his boundary. Women are expected just as much to respect a males boundaries in a relationship. You decided not to listen to his boundaries, so he did exactly as he told you that he would- so why is it really surprising that after you verbally disrespected his boundaries that he’d break up with you and make good on what he told you he’d do?
Let the man go because you seem kinda crazy to me. Honestly. This can’t be real lol
Some things need to remain a fantasy, you pushed him into it and now killed the relationship. Be the better person now and let him go. Accept your fault and let him find someone with who he can be happy with.
You’ve been dating this guy for a month. He’s practically a stranger. How can you definitively say what he is and isn’t? The only problem here is your extreme jealousy.
Yes, I realize that. We disagree on whether or not it makes me unfaithful, but I stopped doing that regardless. I just get content off reddit mostly now. This all started because she wouldn't believe that some messages I deleted were innocent. They really were though, I deleted them because I thought there'd be fallout from me even just talking to another woman.
You say you trust your boyfriend, but you clearly don't trust your boyfriend or you wouldn't be posting this, because there would be no need to post it if you trusted him.
Whether you have been married 6 minutes, 6 weeks or 6 years, you should not be treated like this. Do not have any children with this man. Please get away with this man. Someone who is threatening to take a knife to you is not someone you can be living with. What you need is support, a bit of therapy, and I congratulate you for having left one abusive partner and realising what danger signs are. You know deep down that you are seeing those same signs now and you have to leave this. Please get out and please update us.
A true old soul has the wisdom to know that age gaps like this are just drama. Old souls wouldn’t rush into a marriage while in their twenties.
You are not an old soul. Also most psychologists say that young folks who are described as “old souls” just had traumatic experiences that forced them to mature too fast.
Honestly she isn’t worth keeping, she hid it from you and was never gonna tell you
What do you mean he’s good at communicating?
why are you even with me? I hate your family and will never meet them. That should give you a reason to walk away”
Listen to the lad. Leave him.
That poor little boy. What a shit stain mother, using him like that.
One of the most important reasons for counselling is to overcome arguments where both of you view yourself as right, and the other as wrong, so that you can prevent an issue becoming deep resentment. It's much harder to come back from a big issue than it is to get someone to help prevent one.
Good luck.
Therapy sounds good. I’ll try suggesting this to him
Why did this cause a fight, I don’t understand. You said you mentioned to him as a suggestion, he gave his honest answer, and you should have dropped it. He didn’t “control” your body as you paraded the words, “my body, my choice,” he told you his boundary. Women are expected just as much to respect a males boundaries in a relationship. You decided not to listen to his boundaries, so he did exactly as he told you that he would- so why is it really surprising that after you verbally disrespected his boundaries that he’d break up with you and make good on what he told you he’d do?
Let the man go because you seem kinda crazy to me. Honestly. This can’t be real lol
How else is she supposed to pick up dudes?
Some things need to remain a fantasy, you pushed him into it and now killed the relationship. Be the better person now and let him go. Accept your fault and let him find someone with who he can be happy with.
You’ve been dating this guy for a month. He’s practically a stranger. How can you definitively say what he is and isn’t? The only problem here is your extreme jealousy.
Yes, I realize that. We disagree on whether or not it makes me unfaithful, but I stopped doing that regardless. I just get content off reddit mostly now. This all started because she wouldn't believe that some messages I deleted were innocent. They really were though, I deleted them because I thought there'd be fallout from me even just talking to another woman.
You say you trust your boyfriend, but you clearly don't trust your boyfriend or you wouldn't be posting this, because there would be no need to post it if you trusted him.
Don't date people you don't trust.
Whether you have been married 6 minutes, 6 weeks or 6 years, you should not be treated like this. Do not have any children with this man. Please get away with this man. Someone who is threatening to take a knife to you is not someone you can be living with. What you need is support, a bit of therapy, and I congratulate you for having left one abusive partner and realising what danger signs are. You know deep down that you are seeing those same signs now and you have to leave this. Please get out and please update us.
You using woke in that way, tells me all I need to know about you.
A true old soul has the wisdom to know that age gaps like this are just drama. Old souls wouldn’t rush into a marriage while in their twenties.
You are not an old soul. Also most psychologists say that young folks who are described as “old souls” just had traumatic experiences that forced them to mature too fast.