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In theory, sure, but you can’t rely on some person you don’t know to care about the agreements in your relationship. To him, he wants this woman and there are some hoops he’s willing to jump through to get there, but he has no motivation not to push those boundaries as much as he can. Which creates a situation where your wife is feeling fun and flirty and having to stop and get your permission just isn’t on her mind.
To be clear, I’m not absolving her of responsibility for the lines she crossed. I just think y’all created a situation where that was very likely to happen— like an adult marshmallow test.
Yeah reminds me of when I had a conversation with my sister and my husband told me that I was talking to my purse.
Thank you. Do you think I was right to jump to the assumption I did when I saw the likes? Mind you they had liked a picture of us together too but it means nothing because I know guys can post their gf and talk to others simultaneously.
Alarm bells should be the only thing you are hearing right now. Get out of that situation.
Why do you care
before real feelings get involved
Run before the real feelings start. Unless you want to entertain us in a few months with another post about your creepy bf, you better Usain the hell Bolt out of there.
I always laugh at guys who talk about “their legacy.” Are they royalty or something.
Is this about the money or does it represent something else for her?
Probably let it go but also you don’t owe that person anything. I’d probably snitch.
All I’m asking is was I wrong to leave him, and what should I do next.
Ok buddy.
Man people are butthurt about this simple fact. Here's another fact, short and tall people will also have different life experiences that they will have fundamentally insights about. Fucking hell.
I can't take this seriously. The age gap, the incest, the incest child, this reads like a shitty wattpad fanfic.
Go to the police and file a report just in case. Tell them he is threatening you and that you are afraid he might do something to himself or to you. When he contacts you again, tell him that you filed a police report and to back up.
In case you are worried: he will most likely NOT kill himself. He is just shocked that he got caught and wants to have his cake and eat it too.
Bonus if you tell your cousin what kind of a creepy stalker he is.
You don’t owe him anything, he’s 30 years old and throwing a tantrum over not getting sex when you were tired. You should be able to say no and not have to apologize or “make it up to him” your boyfriend seems very manipulative. Please don’t stay with someone who treats you like a sex doll. If the only time you see each other you’re having sex he does not value you as a person
First and foremost yes I'm religious and proud to be religious. But God has nothing to with the choices I make in life, I'm the pioneer of my own life. Doesn't make anything obvious ? That's true and life would be boring if so.
I don't make my own beliefs but I live! following rules that to this day helped me in a way I never go beyond people's bounderies. And if that happen I will be presenting my deepest excuse and if I'm not forgiven so be it I'm in no place to impose
Ignorant people will take it to all level religious or not.
OP, after she shot you down the second time you should’ve been completely done with her forever! You’re acting like a retriever hoping your master will throw the ball one more time. Please tell your fiancée what’s going on, then put the toxic woman in your rear view mirror once and for all.
Exactly
This!
You are 46 you have better things to do than spend time with some insecure dude who gets pissy about a vibrator. That should be a deal breaker when you have plenty of options that don't ghost you for six months
And the UK – Smirnoff have done a bottled one for about 20 years. It was probably one of the first alcopops
OK this was cute.
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I go commando all the time, and discharge isn't a issue like with your friend. But besides discharge, you sweat, especially on really naked days.
And that sweat gets in that area.
I come home and change pants immediately to a clean pair of pajamas. Because lets face it at home I am completely comfortable lol
it is wild (but expected from the guys on reddit) that no one is listening to or understanding your comments, i feel insane reading this thread
He doesn’t want to marry you, he just wants to keep the status quo. Sorry.
You're 30 years old. Surely you've realized that acting like a high school kid is not how you tell a guy that you're interested?
Would she be upset if you were just masturbating without a toy, or without butt play?
Okei, easy peasy. Leave him. Show his mom the texts and tell her your relationship with his son is over. There is nothing for you to stay on his deathbed for. Seriously, he is dying you are THE LAST PERSON HE WSNTS TO SEE, THE GIRL HE CHEATED ON.
4 month relationship?! Leave her! You're already putting too much effort into this new relationship.
What do you mean he got you pregnant? Where were you? Honestly asking.
I'm sorry but why does it matter? He's a long distance friend and thus doesn't need to be so involved with your life.. It comes across as controlling.
It's your life, do what you want
It's unprofessional to ask a PT for sex as it crosses boundaries just as it's unprofessional to ask a sex worker to cross their boundaries. For either worker to refuse to cross a boundary is considered professional.
Clearly professionalism was used contextually here. Stop looking to be offended.
he started talking about sleeping with other people (like one night stands and stuff).
he doesn’t want an open relationship
Do you even hear yourself OP?
Thanks for the advice!
Wait until you're both free to talk, this isn't something to have over text, or the phone, or right before you head to work. Have a sit down conversation in the evening. Tell him you changed your mind about wanting/having children. Acknowledge you understand he does, and that's perfectly okay. But the two of you are not compatible in this area.
The ball is in his court on if he wants to continue the relationship. He'll have to think about important having children is for him. This is something he needs to seriously spend time contemplating before he makes a decision. You have to be ready for him to say this is a deal breaker.
Taking Ls is all apart of the dating game nothing to be embarrassed about. No you shouldn’t bring it up again. Let her approach you if she does apologize for the awkward delivery then based on what she says take it from there.
Tbh…are you sure you've discussed this new arrangement in depths, as well as covered potential worst case scenarios?
The “problem” is that the woman in question is one of my long time friends who is recently divorced. We had a conversation, and she’s open to having it with me.
Yeah….nope. You should sit your wife down, potentially in couple's therapy, and actually discuss what this could mean for your marriage. It's essential that you discuss boundaries because for many couples who start becoming non-monogamous, the “no friends/family” is key.
I hope you update once things have settled a little and let us know how you and baby end up doing!! Good luck!!!
I hope you update once things have settled a little and let us know how you and baby end up doing!! Good luck!!!
She was completely crushed, I know from mutual friends we have. And I feel terrible for it but I was always honest with her. And I wasn’t planning on telling her about my new gf but she left me no choice after showing up at my place unannounced…
I really 100% do hope she is doing well, but now I think it makes no sense to meet her or talk to her at all
Liberal white woman who has dated interracially here –
I would never dream of saying any of this. The men I've dated deserve more respect than that.
This relationship shouldn't survive. The only advice Im going to give you is to please get some self respect and dump this absolute loser once and for all. Hes an anchor that will drag you down.
I divorced my first wife because of her bad hygiene habits. She wouldn't shower for 3 days and wanted to have sex. Don't get me started on her dental hygiene.
Dude sounds emotionally stunted. A lot of guys have firm emotional boundaries they've just been raised with. If you're not feeling it I'd just end things.
You really think randoms are asking her to show her driver's license to prove her age and then not believing her? Super far fetched imo
Jesus Christ OP it’s physically impossible to list any more red flags
Stop being dense. Be fair and reasonable but firm. She takes a test and shows it to you afterward. It needs to be spur of the moment so she can’t buy a positive test it anything like that.
If she refuses, you walk. Period.
This goes without saying but, no more sex you ape. Last thing you need is a child
He threw me across the room one time and then said he was so sorry and would never do it again
Should have ended it right there. Why didn’t you? He’s clearly abusive.
What did he say when you asked him about it ?
Take a pill. Stop orgasming. Use toys.
Talk to her when you get back
Autism is not a excuse to verbally abuse other person.
Saying she the fuck up to person he “loves” just because you want to be with him is just sick.
OP do you really want to be target for such behavior?
Maybe with a mental health professional? I don't want to pile on or anything, but this was a very extreme move to get what you wanted and yet you claim complete ignorance at the time you were doing this while being 30(+). I am not sure what condition you might have, but I do think you have something for this interesting mix of characteristics. Potential bpd as you tried to start up again once he wasn't behaving how you thought he should behave….
All the people I’ve heard talk about how open relationships totally work, are super not in the relationship they were telling me their open relationship totally worked in.
Gratitude.
Thank her and let her know you appreciate what she does
Have y'all ever considered pets.
I stopped reading when I saw the age gap.
He led you on for 12 years he's childfree and is about to take away your chance at having kids. Do what you must do, or you'll be the lonely old woman sitting on a bench at kids play ground wondering how amazing your family life would of been had you not met your husband/ex.
Not your GF. Not paying bills. Free babysitting. AND she wint let you date
You lost me at dating someone who takes morning showers. Cringing at the thought of snuggling with someone who hasn't showered after a full day, strong BO or not.
Good luck!
That doesn't make sense. If he's going regardless, why even need to have you pay half? He'd be paying full without your company. If anything only lightly suggest, but not expect. What i'm hearing : You're not worth a tank of gas.
I get that times are nude right now, but even the fact that you split snack money?! He doesn't respect the person he's with. I'm fine going dutch on a lot of things but this guy is straight up stingy af.
There are a lot of shitty therapists out there so your “it would be rare” take is a bold one.
Knowing your biological family is important when it comes to yours and your kids health, it's why I think paternity tests should be mandatory
Is it infidelity or dishonesty if they weren’t exclusive or in a “relationship”?
Unless this behavior is something recent, I would not expect a change. It’s only going to lead to further resentment and disappointment. It is very rude and inconsiderate, and he knows that. He knows, and does it anyway.
If you insist, do the ultimatum but you have to be willing to pull the plug when he doesn’t come through or else there’s no point.
she responds with vague answer or says she doesn't remember.
And then you say?….
I guess I'm a little confused about why you seem to be letting conversations just die.
“I understand that this may be difficult to talk about, but something clearly happened at that party, and I'd really appreciate it if you were honest with me so we could move forward together.”
Obviously OP is aware that privatizing your account is possible and it’s not something she cares about
Anything could happen to anyone at anytime. Do your thing.
Lot of missing info, too much to really give advice. Why did he move out? How long have you lived together? What are the agreements you had with money? You’re broken up, right?
In any case, it sounds like you won’t be getting that money.
Don't take his name. Keep yours and let the decision be in his court.
Or offer to sell her the tickets and go someplace else. Or is it for an event that's only happening in that time & place?