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I'm sorry this is happening to you man. I wish you the best though.
Tell him you already ate but do need to study. This takes the meal out and helps define it nothing more than friendship without being awkward.
Where were you in my past relationship
Maybe, I’ve never heard of guys cooking a frozen pizza for friends, can you reheat frozen pizza ?
She probably just made the decision to do whatever she wants while keeping it a secret.
Yah, that is normal ❤️ Love is new. Life is full of tumult, confusion, new feelings, being unsure, overwhelmed. It can be a real rollercoaster. She told you she realized she was just feeling overwhelmed with other life stuff. I was up down sideways back and forward in the space of an hour when I was 16. Happy Birthday! Hang in there… she was just going through a rough patch it sounds like. If life is smooth then you can feel all the love feelings but if you’re stressed out and weighed down it’s like the signal is jammed and that can be confusing.
That was the FIRST thing that came to mind. WoooAow
Are std treatments free or cheap enough not to use your insurance? I mean you can check to see if he did get treated, because if he is taking antibiotics then that could be easy enough to find out.
Then that blows his “story” out of the water doesn't it, if you find out about his getting actually treated.
I think my eyes rolled round too nude in reading about his excuse as well. Laughable yes, I could cry it is so laughable an excuse. He must think you are stupid to believe him.
Educating myself and talking to others who have experienced a loved one having bpd and even some who themselves have bpd has really opened my eyes on this disorder.
As much as I want to be there for her, I can’t continue to be her emotional punching bag. I’m a supportive person, but I am also finishing college and have a career to look forward to. I feel as though if I stay with her I will continue this cycle of feeling like her caregiver. Our entire relationship I took care of her emotionally, financially, physically, etc. without her ever truly getting anything in return.
I think that if she were serious about our relationship she would seek some better medical help. Looking back I have noticed most of her relationships have only lasted a few months and that she’s basically vilified everyone’s she’s dated before.
If this is what dating someone with disorder (untreated) is like, im going to leave. I’ve saved myself a lot of depression from becoming educated. Thank you for your insight, it has helped me so much. I tend to think that things that don’t work out are my fault, but I realize now I probably didn’t have a chance no matter what I did
Joseph Campbell would call this a “call to adventure” and you’re a reluctant hero. Seriously tho— I would approach this like counseling an employee— couch your criticism between a couple of positives, such as: I love you, and I do want to explore this with you however this may not have been the most appropriate occasion for this “gift” as it is also something of a gift for you. Now, if you want me to be “giving” this holiday season, I’d like to see you be a little “giving” this holiday season. Give the guy a chance to right his bone headed mistake— make sure you call him out on being a bone head— and then if he does a good job on round 2, maybe use the original gift together. Positive reinforcement to steer him away from future boneheadedness…
likes her emotional affairs?…shes just playing the field and testing the waters, one day its wont be testing anymore.
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I feel bad for your STBX. Lol over 50$. I bet you the type who will make him fight and if he looses you will get upset with him because he lost so his “man card”
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“my boyfriend forces me” “stop being pathetic”
I beg the women of Reddit to pick their standards from the floor. Hell, worse – they are buried under the ground, they are in the Mariana Trench…
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Your relaxed and easy communication is because she has no stake in this game. She's leaving. Why stress or press about anything here when she'll soon be gone.
I think the only reason she is saying that things won't change is that she is young and naive… and hasn't travelled yet.
Say goodbye.
If she looks you up when she gets back… YOU might not even be the same person.
Your relaxed and easy communication is because she has no stake in this game. She's leaving. Why stress or press about anything here when she'll soon be gone.
I think the only reason she is saying that things won't change is that she is young and naive… and hasn't travelled yet.
Say goodbye.
If she looks you up when she gets back… YOU might not even be the same person.
He digs alliteration.
fair point again. But i’m trying to say if there’s a will there’s a way. We’ve been together for 5 years and having her insinuate (intentional or not) that I’d cause grave harm like that really hits me in the gut. Also I’d just like to point out some of the ones in her set are half a foot long LOL!
A cruel irony of depression/anxiety is that they make it very difficult for you to get help for yourself. And, sadly, most therapists don't make it easy to schedule appointments as a new patient. (There are few things more horrifying to someone with anxiety than calling multiple therapist's offices looking for appointments)
Can you sit her down and say “I love you. I'm worried about your mental health. Let's figure out a plan to get you help.” Make it clear that you'll make the phone calls if needs be.
The current situation isn't sustainable, and you're totally justified in losing your patience. But she may need a helping hand to get started helping herself.
What nonsense
If you want help, don't insult people.
Tell him no thank you. I am unavailable
Or get an extension cord
Welp! What can I say but that you were right
Bro you can't even wor out or play the game? What the fuxk is that? You gotta lay the law down, you need you time. She seems to have some psychological issues if she cries because your playing the game and not sniffing her hair for every moment of the day
You asked a question. You basically had a 50/50 shot of. Rather, that answer would be descriptive towards what you look like.
It's usually not a good idea to ask questions like that. He is entitled to like what he does, as are you.
This is abusive behavior. You are not less than he is. He's just fooling you into thinking you are so he can keep hurting you. You are worth more than he is. Love yourself and leave.
Oh, hells no. She completely lost any right to care about chastity before marriage with you when she fucked around behind your back. That she would dare to tell you that you have to wait, while putting out for some other guy?
Turn her around by the shoulders, march her to the front door, and put her out of your life.
Throw his stuff I a trash bag and never see him again.
She texted me Monday morning but I responded Tuesday’s early at 3 cause that’s when I got off my job
Its not cheating. She is well aware of my sexual interests….. thanks for turning this completely around
I always hold that an apology that is about oneself rather than the person apologized to is not an apology at all. George has not apologized to you – he has sent you an email with a list of his motivations for abusing you and a sob story about himself.
This man has done years and years of work (so he claims) to develop the very smallest watered-down dribble of empathy. And even that gets thrown away at the first frustration. I'm with your husband – there's nothing in George worth pursuing.
Get out
So… everybody wants to say that communication and honesty is the most important thing in relationships until they have to back it up. Which is exactly what your bf is doing and I commend him for it.
Idk if you’re outwardly bi or not, but either way you didn’t initiate things. You didn’t ask for it to happen. And just like I don’t ask for it to start raining on my home from work, it would be insane if my girlfriend got mad that I was wet when I came home, and it would be inappropriate if your bf got mad that something happened against your will.
Something happened. You didn’t initiate. You don’t seem too confident on how you feel about it. But it definitely seems like you stopped it once you realized yourself. That means you did what you’re supposed to do. Then you communicated with your bf and told him so he can know and grow with you. That’s all you can do. Things happen every day. They don’t have to be good or bad, they just happen. And partners are there to work through them with us, not punish us for them. It’s not worth it to discard that value and punish yourself anyway.
I would definitely have a chat with your friend though. That is a major breach of boundaries. If a guy did that without way more consent we would be having a serious talk about things (but that’s not the topic of your post so I digress)
I hope you can find peace with yourself. Your bf clearly thinks you deserve it.
P.s. other options that should be considered, and if they seem probable, don’t take the above advice:
1) your bf just kinda finds it nude and wants a threesome.
2) your bf doesn’t think/know you’re bi and is just kinda misogynistic and isn’t threatened by women.
3) your boyfriend is most comfortably polyamorous and doesn’t know it yet.
If any or all of these are true, I’d ignore the parts about him above (but you’re still not a demon for doing the equivalent of sitting on the corner of the washing machine)
don’t date porn addicts! never worth it.
All the things you’ve mentioned here seem much worse than making one offhand joke. If she’s a cheater, manipulator, has gaslight you, your friends think she’s a narcissist, and you feel like you support the both of you but don’t get much in return I think you should break up with her. That’s a laundry list of issues and unless she’s aware of each one, proactively apologetic, and actively doing better she isn’t worth it. Don’t passively endorse her toxic behavior by staying with her.
that is definitely the kicker here for me. I’m trying to read between the lines here and my guess is that she’s a teacher, which, my god lady…
She claims she tries to save more but with her medical expenses now, she can’t afford to. So I’m ok with saving more. I agreed that we can split chores more but I don’t see a way to meaningfully fit that into my full time work schedule. I take out the trash and do the litter box. She cooks, does laundry, does dishes, and cleans the house otherwise. I feel this is a pretty even split because of our work schedule. But she’s not unhappy about doing most the work around the house as much as she is unhappy about me not bringing home more money. But I explained that’s not really feasible atm.
This is the quote in case anyone wants to see it. (107 days ago)
Her and her ex (of 4 years) broke up about 2 years ago. They remained friends after the breakup… possibly too close a friends. She helped him find a dog to adopt a year later and now they share and raise this dog together. So, they see each other several times a week (only to grab and return the pup as far as I’m aware). If he goes away for work she’ll stay at his place to watch the pup.
This is insane. A shared dog after they broke up? Absolutely nuts. Seeing each other several times a week? Omg….
He told you he wants you to initiate, you offered no solution, you described what he is already doing….
It’s not the effort either, it’s about feeling wanted, desired.
You send her a picture of your arse, with the caption “I know you are cheating, this is the last you will see of me”
Yeah, fuck you brian…if that’s even your name
Not rilly
Some of my guests are acting up. I'm the one who invited them, I'm the one who needs to sort that shit out. I've known my family all my life, OH hasn't even met some of them. He's not in a position to sort things out without coming across as an asshole, whereas I have 30+ years of knowing them and can be more frank with them.
With the MIL, there's a dynamic that's really important to balance. People get stupidly heated about anything wedding related and it all too easily could descend into animosity that outlasts the wedding.
So basically, it's about protecting relationships.
Put it in a college fund then…
Omigod I had a dude say that to me when I said I was married! God I was so pissed.
It's so skeevy and it just grossed me out so much how he said it. He lowered his glasses, licked his fucking lips, and said it. I'm sorry that happened to you too
It sounds like he is”love bombing” and also pretty much assuming that things will go somewhere with you, by being somewhat demanding with his interactions with you.
The first week or two of interaction with someone should be fun and exciting and encourage both parties to meet up in person, and see how things would progress “in real life”.
Knowingly or not, you already gave him a test, with the whole mention of the guy friend that “may be into you” and you saw what his reaction was to that. Well, to be fair to him, it's a bit unusual to have something dropped in like that. As a man, I likely would have joked about it and said something along the lines of “yes, I know what us men are like, haha!”
If you don't feel comfortable continuing the interaction than you are well within your right to not do so, and not see him in person. Or, give it another week or so and see how he takes the initial cancellation
I’d mail it to his lawyer.
She said “pick him up” so I assume restaurant
I said „I think“, it was my opinion so calm the fuck down.
And tbh if a man made me feel so miserable about myself I‘d file for divorce. I could never trust him ever again which is why the relationship would be over for me.
And to your question: His wife of course decides whether she gives him a chance or not.
I tried to be nice about your comment calm down?
The same argument goes for any opinion, spoken or gesticulated. If you’re unwilling to risk someone not approving of something g you donor say, you cannot communicate honestly and instead would be required to censor anything anyone you talk to might not be ok with. Including things they might misinterpret. Or intentionally misinterpret.
But in any even, at least now I do understand why you made the comment. It’s ok to agree to disagree about it.
Chances are she had a polite conversation with him at the wedding. The typical “what's up,” “what are you up to,” etc. and he mentioned where he works. If she was without work at that point, the conversation probably involved that. She likely didn't think much of it and wrapped it up as some random encounter. She probably didn't mention it to you because at that point, it was the same conversation she had with everyone else at the party and you seem to really hate the guy. I probably wouldn't have bothered bringing it up either.
If she was struggling to find work then I get why she took him up on the offer in January. I understand that she should've told you about it, but by doing so she would've had to explain how he knew. And again, you fucking hate the guy, she probably wasn't keen on laying that on you.
She fucked up by not telling you when it came up. But I can see how this might have come about. It doesn't have to be cheating or actively malicious. It could very well just be a bit dumb and poorly thought-out. You might be freaking out because this guy is a known homewrecker and you're projecting that on to your wife.
Info: How do you generally react to difficult conversations? Do you argue or throw blame? Do you yell or cuss or give the silent treatment? If so, you might understand why she wasn't keen on telling you.
Has she done stuff like this before? Is she hiding her phone? Staying late at work or going out more frequently? Did she recently change passwords or hide info on her socials? Has she recently started using Telegram or other chat apps?
I mean anything could be happening. It's nude to tell without being in the middle of it. But just take a step back and stop yourself from spiralling. Have a calm conversation with her and voice your concerns and listen to what she has to say. Reddit is way too eager to tell you that the worst of the worst is happening without having any real insight. Good luck.
I can certainly sympathize with doing so much for someone while having an understanding that you were both working towards this goal, then feeling like they pulled the rug out from you when they back out when you feel like this is your last chance. However, I don't feel like the correct response is to go ahead and force this person into being a parent. Everybody deserves the right to make that decision for themselves
then I doubt she'd be wondering what his reasons could be ?
Just show up an hour later than you’d expect her to show up.
???????? everything you said, is spot on .
yeah that's weird, I've been out to drinks with coworkers only 3 times and on two of those occasions someone's SO tagged along. that being said, idk if I'd want my SO meeting my coworkers, I like to keep those parts of my life separate, but I'm also an anxious and private person so….. I would probably agree if they specifically asked.
Maybe you can ask her why does she feel the need to comment about other people’s bodies, and about this girl in particular? Ask her if she’s aware that her comments are fatphobic and just disrespectful.
Yeah, exactly! I mean, so what if I’m having a orgy with 10 dudes on Sat night! You shouldn’t have looked in my phone and then you would still be having a nice day. I fail to see what I have done wrong here!