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Date: October 8, 2022
He has an alcohol problem and he needs treatment. It's happened to many times to believe him. He doesn't see a problem and isn't interested in fixing it.
Does that mean he brushed away your feelings as if they don’t matter?
Because that’s a more important matter than whether or not he stays the night over there. If he took your feelings seriously and reassured you properly you might feel better about the arrangement too.
You know, my parents divorced when I was a kid and there was so much drama and conflict back then that when I became single and started dating again in my 30s I quickly decided that I would not date a guy with kids (I have no kids myself either). That would exclude a lot of great guys, but I know myself well enough to know that I would not like to have parts of my life decided by someone else outside of the relationship (as in the ex).
What happened in this case for you, him deciding to spend the night at his ex’s place without talking to you first before it was decided, that would be a deal breaker for me. It’s not about whether or not spending the night is OK. It’s about actively caring for the new relationship and giving reassurance and showing respect to the new partner before making the final decision. If this had happened, would you have felt better about it and maybe said it was OK?
If you both enjoy the transaction who cares if it's normal. Although personally I find that to be a great idea.
Dude.. how is any of this your fault? Your (hopefully soon to be ex) gf is in a HOTEL with her family, while you’re with your dying mom. Is she pissed she has cat allergies? Not your fault. Is she pissed she wasn’t able to come with you? She could’ve made the choice to come with you and support you. Your gf is nuts, her mental health is her responsibility alone. Sorry dude, but you’re being emotionally abused.
Take it from me, I was married to a woman that refused to do anything to better her mental health issues. We both turned UGLY doing the course of the relationship. Even backed against a wall knowing I’d leave the relationship, she refused to do anything to help herself. You can’t help people that won’t help themselves.
I’m not usually on the break-up train, but dump this person, for both your sakes.
He is not a good dad to one. He is damaging both kids by picking a favorite and you're literally sitting there doing nothing about it. You asked for advice on what to do. You leave the guy, and start treating both kids the way they deserve to treated – equally and with the love and support they need. You even said that he's not a good person. Please stop putting your kids through hell, as well as yourself.
He's controlling and abusive. He expects you to cook for him and not nap and you can't tell him what to do and he thinks he's better than you?
Get out. Run don't walk. This guy is human garbage.