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Date: October 8, 2022
Then change it up! They might be shocked into actual silence!
Hi there 🙂
I'm sorry this happened to you. You sound like a sweet girl and I'm sorry to tell you this but your bf sounds kind of shitty.
If you think that in spite of everything he's a good guy, let me tell you that's not where your mind should focus on right now.
I don't know him so I can't say he's a bad person but he put both your health at risk. He doesn't care about you and he probably doesn't care about himself much either. He definitely needs to go to therapy. And so do you. You need to value yourself more. You shouldn't be afraid of being by yourself because you're worthy of true love and respect.
I sincerely hope you leave him sooner than later and can reconnect with yourself. That way, the next boyfriend will be good because you'll know you deserve better.
Good luck and be strong ?
Remember when people say your opposing political/social views don't matter if you like someone?
Yeah, don't listen to them. They're either limp as cooked spaghetti about their morals or don't understand compatibility and healthy relationships.
You cant re-teach an adamant grown man. You can only decide if his bs is too much for you to handle or not.
I agree that it is far too long
I'd reach out to the other woman. You have reason to believe these things. Maybe the province he lives in has legal records available live!? In the US, every state has a website where you can search things like divorce, marriage, births, court cases, etc. I am guessing most countries (or in your case, province) have something similar. Maybe go to that website for his province and plug his name in and see. I might do more social media research and look at his ex's page to see if there were any other pictures or signs that they were still together.
Tell him that if you cannot work things out as a couple then you would like to only communicate about the kids. You don’t want to make small talk or hear about his day anymore.
Simple.
Thank you. My priority before kids is a solid bond with my partner. That's what I used to justify waiting a year for a kid. And that's what Im making sure as hell I've got in place now before moving forwards. Her flaws aren't very hot to see, and I can see they cross her mind on occasion. But motivating that 'I want to change' element is so very hot. I think it'll only come if she feels she really has something to lose.
You say leaving isn’t an option, but it also sounds like she has broken up with you in the past for a fling and then come back to you. Honestly, that doesn’t sound great and not like she respects you very much or at all. Children and a house make a breakup much, much more difficult, but not impossible.
Wish you weren’t getting downvoted for being honest. Just brainstorming here, but if you want company and some type of intimacy (emotional, social) that doesn’t include anything physical have you thought about going on like fetlife to find someone whose kink that is?
Free hoodies in this inflation climate? I'd say she's a business genius if anything.
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Please recognize that fixing him is not your job, and that you are incapable of doing so. Setting an example to him that you are a kind, considerate, loving partner does nothing. He is not going to change. This is who he is.
As soon as she said she would be okay with an “open relationship”, it should be over for you. However, if she is saying that it could be fun hypothetically, that is different. So you need to find out if she is ready for a long-term monogamous relationship. If she is not, then so long!
Could they be for himself? Or maybe his dad?
Why do you keep reposting this
You would not be the asshole. She is stringing you along till something better comes along. She thought it had and when it flopped she thought she could just pick you back up Again.
There are blonde hair blue eyed Italians.
You should probably find a girlfriend who is a little less insecure. Her BFF doesn't like you because you called out her shitty boyfriend and forced her to see the fragile state of her relationship.
Your girlfriend is being ridiculous re: being overbearing about a gf being at the house when the guys get together. Ask her what exactly she believes is going on. To spell it out. If she believes she is in a relationship with someone like that, she has great taste. ? Does she know these women or hates them for sport?
Would it be crazy if you both agreed to record it next time it happens? I wouldn't rule it out entirely but this relationship isn't as strong as you think if this causes serious fights
I do also agree that I need to be clearer in my communication in terms of wanting him to achieve more etc. I notice I’ve avoided this to avoid arguments and blame shifting. I asked him recently what I can do to help him when he quits weed (which he says he aims to do tho I’m not fully convinced) so that his irritability isn’t too bad etc.. and he accused me of being near manipulative in trying to approach something looking like I’m doing something nice, but actually having devious type of intentions.
That being said, when I first mentioned the irritability he agreed, and now he says it’s not true and it’s my fault.
Been together 5 years
Best friend is a guy that you haven't met
Bro….
He at least deserves the chance to get help before being abandoned for his illness.
Does he live! in an area where he really does need that protection? Answer: PROBABLY not. If you and him live in an area where he needs to be armed, then shouldn't you plan to move away? If you don't live in a dangerous area, and if he is bring a gun everywhere, then it sounds like he has some deeply held insecurities. In that case, why are you with him?
What a comment this is. Meaningless unless he coughs up money? A child has the opportunity to engage with his biological father, someone who (from OPs comments) is stepping up to the mark and making the effort. That’s invaluable for a child and precious for his future. Far too many children go without that
It’s absurd that so many peoples first reaction to situations such as this is financial benefit. I’m sure it hasn’t been easy for OP but I’m glad her priorities are the safety of her son, and then the potential relationship with his father. Whatever system she works out with her previous partner is whatever she decide’s best for the child. I despise this mindset of a man’s value is only what he can materially provide (or else he’s deemed “meaningless”) — I’m referencing a male in this example, but I’m fully aware the situation is also applicable with the genders being reversed.
I’m happy for you & your son OP. You’re clearly doing a fantastic job with a great head on your shoulders. Keep it up 🙂
me too, idk why i come into posts like this knowing i’m gonna feel sick but still read them anyway
Oh my GOD this is so disgusting.
Why are you so desperate to talk about something that they don’t want to talk about?
You should channel that energy into you dating. There is greater personal return for your time and energy.
Brush your teeth before you go to bed to reduce morning breath. Or brush your teeth and go back to kissing
The purpose of dating is to see if it’s a good fit. This is a fundamental incompatibility.
Some people might be jealous that you have so much time for yourself. It doesn’t sound like that is her issue. Some people might be annoyed for carrying more of the financial burden. That’s not her issue either. Her issue is that she believes you have the opportunity to earn more by working more which would get to HER goal of having a home and a family faster. And she’s frustrated that you value your “me time” more than your future with her meeting her goals.
So…it’s a fundamental incompatibility.
I make a lot more than my partner. He works full time so it’s not that, I just am in a more lucrative career. He has the training/certification to work in a job that pays way more than I make but he chose to work in a different field so he can have set hours and be home after school with his son.
If I didn’t make enough to basically have the life I want on my own, or if we intended to have kids together, I probably wouldn’t have continued dating him had I met him earlier in life because I don’t want to have to work til I die and it’s very hot to save money for retirement and raise kids if you’re not making all that you can early on.
I dunno. She knew this about you when you two met so I’m not sure why it’s all of a sudden a bigger issue to her other than perhaps she’s thinking about the future more seriously and feels that you are sacrificing life long earning potential for more “me time”.
I think you’ve got a great thing going and don’t blame you at all. If I could make the same $ and work PT, I absolutely would. I can totally keep myself busy with my hobbies, volunteer work, keeping up the house, etc.
So I AM jealous of your sitch and yay for you!
I’m a lesbian who has been put in this situation more than a few times by bi girls.
They come on to me, I think they’re cute, we make out, and then she starts giggling or smth and is like “my boyfriend is over there teehee” and i’m like fuck this shit i’m out of here.
Anecdote: One time I asked the girl (after she said this- and her boyfriend was RIGHT THERE) if she was in an open relationship and she told me no and I asked “but is your boyfriend okay with this??” And she said he would be … and the next day! She messaged me asking all innocently what had happened because “apparently we had kissed” but she would “NEVER cheat on her boyfriend” and that he was breaking up with her and all this guilt tripping stuff ….basically trying to get me to say I had started it … in truth she has run up to me at the bar and literally pulled me into a kiss before I had barely had a second to process what was going on (she was a friend of a friend). I hold her the truth, she did not have her boyfriend again after that night. Dude dodged a bullet.
So basically maybe doesn’t think it was cheating, but the other girl might, and you do. So she needs a careful realignment of her values on all fronts.
By all means make THEIR relationship all about YOU. News flash: they don’t need your permission to date. Try being supportive and happy for them.
And you want to be with this man why?
Sounds like he needs to work through some things in therapy if he's intentionally alienating his own partner. He's literally creating an island around him and your daughter and keeping you outside. It's like he's emotionally preparing himself and her for your departure same as how your daughter's bio mom left.
I don't think he's “over” that trauma and may never be. But you can decide if that's something you have the capacity to work with.
I think I’m just going to let her get her own place
Let her? You have no right to prevent her from doing that, nor does she need your permission. Is this, in any way unclear to you? You have no rights in regards to her activities. Just like she did not need your permission to leave, but still had to escape from you.
Honey, it's time to grow a spine. He's using you to feed his new very hot boy ego.
This isn't the man you fell in love with. This is the man who is getting new attention from women and he definitely didn't wait for the breakup to take advantage.
Please do yourself a favour and cut him out.
He broke up with you, he doesn't get to harass you now when you're looking for space.
Send him one message “Our relationship is over, if you continue to harass me I will contact the authorities. ” Then get yourself to therapy.
You deserve a soft life full of love and a partner who contributes meaningfully to that. He's not the one. He let his changing body male him believe he deserved better than you, he has no idea how wrong he was and it's not your job to teach him.
I'm so sorry, you never deserved this.
At the very least, you're not married and don't have kids, this can be a clean break.
Also kids will pick up this behaviour and accept it as normal. She's not capable of giving a good example of conflict resolution currently, kids are not going to help that.
Talk some more about it. Tell him how much you love him but he also hurt you with the choice of words used. Try to meet at a common ground where some of these things can be resolved and y'all can go back to being sweet to one another again.
As someone who is similar to the disposition you described, you feel nothing because everything you thought you had with him was destroyed. You supported him through a very very hot time, probably to your detriment, and he had no problem betraying you. So, you body, psyche, and emotions have decided they are done giving to him.
I’m sorry you are going through this.
Im talking about his behavior. She described him as a very hot head before but it hasn’t changed.
not much togetherness in that sleeping, was there? OP didn't exactly mention that those were the best 3 minutes of her life
I am thrilled to hear that!
Sorry, I read a few of your comments that got down voted and they seemed defensive. Seriously take that time to think about if this is going anywhere, it sure sounds like he's a “my way or the highway” guy in this situation, which isn't great for you.
I guess my question would be, could she actually enjoy the company party knowing husband is just sitting in the hotel room waiting for her? I would personally feel guilty in that situation and feel like I had to rush or leave the party early so my spouse wasn’t just waiting in a hotel room for me for hours.
Yeah fuck him for feeling hurt that she lied and excluded him deliberately amirite?
How very hot is it to be honest, there wouldn't be nearly this level of fuckery if she actually was a big adult about it and said it to his face from the get-go.
He deflecting his behavior on you. He’s cheating. Don’t move
then his request can fuck off.
Ditch the dude.
Please leave your gf.
Dude, my web browser gives me the weekly stats when I open a new tab.
She was looking for a fight, not a weatherman.
This.
Can you go see her? Some people flee to their most familiar people or places when struck by grief. It’s not great, but it’s a thing that happens. You may need to go where she is to be with her rn. If you can, tell her you’re planning to buy a flight to see her, and will be there on [date/time], because you want to be there for her, unless she tells you she doesn’t want you to come.
Is he not allowed to have a hobby/downtime?
No, not when his wife is also working full time amd spending all of her off time taking care of the kids and cleaning and has no downtime. Where's her downtime and hobby? For example, He's getting 6 hours of gaming, she's getting none. He needs to step up so she can have 3 hrs and he can have 3 hrs.