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Date: October 30, 2022
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I know that is mom and all but…fuck her! She made her choice. Tell her to meet up with Brad.
I’m a woman.
What?
Am I dumb if I stay with her because I love her?
I feel like it's horrible for you to even question that. Because why would you leave her to begin with?
There is no circumstance where cheating is justified. If you want to have sex with someone you're not committed to, you shouldn't be committed to anyone.
Thank you, really, I needed to hear this
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You don’t need this until you do! Also, women are smart…we hide presents really well. If you found this one it’s probably a decoy
The only reason she gets dramatic is because you keep doing things that questions your loyalty. Why do you keep trying to break the trust in your marriage? You and your wife are supposed to be a team. Someone who you are supposed to care about, to listen to their opinions and making decisions together.
I would talk to him and address this directly to see what his expectation is. And tell him clearly you don't mind “spoiling” him but he should give you the chance to do it, and if he is the one asking for it, it sounds like an obligation and doesn't feel good. Some people are just waiting for every opportunity to mooch off from someone. You need to find this out now, because if this is his expectation, you need to decide if this is what you want out of a relationship. My ex acted similarly, but he wasn't blatant on his comments. He just expected me to cover more, cover his part of the bills etc. That's something that makes me lose respect quickly, because I am not looking to be a sugar, the same way I am not expecting someone to pay for my life.
“I want to break up but use you to gain citizenry in another country at your expense just In case I can't sucker someone else into it.”
Don't get used and abused. You're worth more than being Plan B.
Yes, she is the one acting badly here. Your daughter was sweet and grateful for her gift. Your daughter has a right to be enthusoastic about the movies she received.
And the guy would be arrested and/or get his ass kicked.
Yea that’s kinda lame and I don’t blame you at all for feeling that way. It’s such an unnecessary comment to make. Like yeah I know I’m not the most attractive person alive but I’d like to feel attractive in my partner’s eyes.
A friend of mine once asked me such a question, that if I would kill for her, i simply replied If she would take the punishment for that instead of me. Needless to say she never asked me any such questions.
Sometimes you don't have to answer their questions, rather out themselves in a similar hypothetical situation they put you in. This usually shut them up.
It may be just me but I think this is cheating. Just picture as if he was getting dressed up on certain attire and f'ing a fleshlight, jerking off or such for women, posting it on a website for women and watching women masterbate while they chat back and forth. He may be either exploring his sexuality like how some women do with other women or he's living a lie. He may love you but perhaps not in that way anymore. If he did, he wouldn't be doing what he's doing. And cheating is cheating regardless of the gender.
Side Note: The former governor of NJ, Jim McGreevey was married with kids as governor and then had an affair with a guy while in office. He resigned, came out as gay, got divorced and then is now with his partner.
Not saying it does. Just trying to give OP some perspective on why having a relationship with her isn’t exactly normal.
I don’t care how well you think you cleaned it. Anal toys should not be used in the vagina.
Listen to your feelings, not to his nonsense, look at his actions, why is he making you feel so bad?
Her kid isn’t your responsibility. I wouldn’t spend any money on her kid, period.
Might as well, you all get your ancestry info as well then
I understand your perspective.
Jessica likely felt that you didn't understand Ryan and therefore could not be supportive of her relationship. People can act funny when their friends don't react the way they want them to.
I really think that she doesn't want to overtly cause a problem, yet doesn't want to be as close as you once were. I'm sorry that happened. I'm also sorry you went through what seems like a exhausting divorce.
If she wasn't supportive of what you were going through (regardless of Ryan's own situation), then maybe it wouldn't be such a terrible thing to let this friendship continue to die out.
Either way, if she isn't willing to communicate, there isn't much you can do. In my opinion, if someone cares about you, they should want to discuss relevant issues about your friendship, even if it's difficult.
You can try to talk to her once, and if she doesn't make an effort to save your friendship, then you know it's over. I'm sorry because I know how much it hurts.
I would tell her that quite simply I only do relationships with humans. If you are a cat, we are through. Still a cat? Yes? Bye.
Damn every day I think I’ve seen it all on Reddit… each day I’m wrong
Reddit just keeps showing me that I must be a dried up husk by now.
Someone already said that. I told them that I wish it was something like that. Just a mystery novel waiting to unravel. But it really is as weird as it sounds. Hell, people are saying I'm just seeing ghosts. So I guess it is not even that creative to begin with then.
Just ask yourself if you would want to know and then you have your answer.
If anyone is reading this, ladies, do not lose your virginity randomly and when you're really young.
Then honestly imo I’d just let him do this thing in his rap adventure. It’s just entertainment and often times he’s developing a persona.
It helps that you’ve given him feedback on thinking about rapping about other things and maybe over time he’ll find his own voice and evolve more. But like it said, it’s just entertainment.
He didn’t call you unattractive!!!!! It’s possible that you are not his usually type- bigger or smaller or chestier or less chesty than he normally went for. You are giving so much power to words that were not spoken to you and that you are likely taking outside of the context they are intended.
Have you ever met someone that you thought was beautiful, only to spend some time with them, and to see their personality mike them uglier and uglier?
Looks fade girl, and personality and attitude are everything- don’t let what you read change how you feel about yourself or your relationship. He is your fiancé and he wants to marry you- he is attracted to you and he paid a major compliment to your personality.
But if it is still bothering you- you need to talk to him, and possibly need a bit of therapy- don’t let something not intended for you to read ruin your relationship.
I’ve only known him my adult life. I turn 20 next month. I have had my fair share of older guys trying to hit on me or hook up but I believed he was different.
I’ve only known him my adult life. I turn 20 next month. I have had my fair share of older guys trying to hit on me or hook up but I believed he was different.
You have what we used to call culture shock. Take a gsl class it will help a lot. The rest of it you might need therapy for because running away and hiding is not you living your best life. I have always enjoyed Germany and hope to go back next year.
You have what we used to call culture shock. Take a gsl class it will help a lot. The rest of it you might need therapy for because running away and hiding is not you living your best life. I have always enjoyed Germany and hope to go back next year.
This generation has gotten way too comfortable with using the term “assault” She was betrayed by someone who she felt she could trust but she consented to unprotected sex. She didn't stop him. She didn't ask him to stop. She had consensual sex with her partner and he didn't pull out and as unfair as it is contraception in large part lands on the woman because it is our body. We have all had the birds and the bees talk. We know where babies come from and we all know the pull out method is no where near good enough to be used as contraception. She should have asked him to wear a condom. What she feels now is anger at him for ignoring a boundary/request and regret for allowing him to have control of that issue.
Take the test. Dump the guy. He's a POS. Learn a lesson from this.
You obviously weren’t THAT important to her. Just go ask him…
Surprise her with pregnancy test and have her take it in front of you. If she refuses, she’s lying.
OR insist on going to the dr appts with her since you want to be involved in this baby’s life from the beginning. If she refuses (or forgets to tell you in time), she’s lying.
Keep using the condoms, or develop a really bad ‘not in the mood’ problem until you get confirmation.
Good luck!
Please !UpdateMe about how it goes.
She would also likely have paperwork from the doctor’s appointment. Educational handouts about prenatal care. Or even better a receipt for payment of the visit. The receipt would have her name and one other patient identifier like her birthday.
this makes me happy lol . She seems really kind and not like the kind of person to get you in trouble at all but you’re right and I completely agree with you . I was just wondering if she liked me at all or not.
I’m a girl who dates girls so do with that what you will, but when I was ready to be exclusive with my current girlfriend, I just told her I was so into her that I didn’t want to see anyone else. I told her that she could take all the time she needed to decided for or against that for herself, but that’s where I was. She happily told me the same and we have been happily together ever since. Just go for it!
Why? Because she’s in a comfortable situation. She’s got a comfy home, entwined expenses, and 24/7 emotional support! She just doesn’t get good dick! So, fuck her commitment and her boyfriend, if she can sleaze around and have it all, why bother rocking the boat? Easy!
Then again, looking for logic out of someone willing to throw their life away for selfish gratification, and trying to use some flimsy “likes gurls on Instagram” plot as vindication for cheating, isn’t exactly the sharpest knife in the crayon box.
The thing that stood out to me was
I sent him a tiktok of an all you can eat seafood restaurant. I thought it would be nice to go to together with or without my daughter. I haven't heard anything from him about it so I thought that he didn't want to go
There's no direct indication here about any communication going on. She sent him the TikTok, but did she actually say “hey, this looks fun, we should go sometime!” She didn't hear anything about it from him, but did she ever follow up saying, “hey, are you interested in that seafood place?” Hopefully, if she's just hinting around and not actually saying what she wants, then her expectations – and her disappointment – is mostly on her.
I thought I was being respectful and respecting his boundaries ?
Girlie, please reread this as if a stranger wrote it..
The person writing this is about to marry someone who by their own admission defaults all work to them, criticizes the decisions they wanted no hand in, then emotionally blackmails through silence to make you feel guilty *(and it’s working..).
You’ve dealt won’t this for 8 years, but this doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship to make legal.
Is their premarital counseling? Is he always this way?
Because it seems like he has a vision, yet will do 0 work and get mad. Are you a mind reader? Because if you aren’t/don’t plan to be then this will be an ongoing issue.
Omg. Dealbreaker
Block him. Have no contact with him till you are completely healed
You are not a man nor are you a husband. You’re a vile excuse of a human. As a fellow mother who has been where you wife has been, I commend her for doing it on her own. She’s going to leave your ass one way or another. My husband was my absolute rock, the light of my life along with my kids. If it wasn’t for his adoration of me and what I was going through I don’t know if I would have the same strength and resilience your wife showed.
Ya nasty.
I wouldn't want him staying at my parents' house. No, you do not pretend all is well, that is lying. He should stay home and allow you to grieve the relationship with your family.
I actually think it is weird that you are considering letting him go.
I would get a therapist asap if you don’t have one already, and If you do want to try to make things work with your wife you will need to do couples therapy as well. She def fucked up and broke your trust in a huge way.
He’s not a dom. He’s sexually assaulting you.
You’re still missing the crux of the issue: he WANTS to continue his close friendship with the racist homophobe who has lied to each of you about the other. You shouldn’t be in the position of telling your bf that Kade isn’t a good friend. Brian should be sufficiently bothered by Kade’s behavior (if nothing else, the blatant lying) that he naturally distances himself from Kade. That he doesn’t means that he’s unbothered by Kade’s behavior. He doesn’t see a problem with Kade telling lies about you. He’s ok with Kade trying to break you up. He supports Kade’s political views. All of that is a problem – and the problem is with Brian. Maybe he’s not quite who you think he is?
This is my actual nightmare.. Talk to her about it! Its an important realisation.. She may or may not feel the same way and maybe there are or arent limitations to that
The age gap between the two of you makes me wonder if she's been grooming you, even if it's not the case, she's highly abusive and it's a common tactic by abusers to isolate their victims from family. Plus she stole your car, contact the police ASAP
Yeah I figured, thank you
So you need a good lawyer. Start shopping around for one and start lining up all your ducks.
Financial statements, documentation of previous affairs if you have it, bank accounts, everything you can think of including shared digital devices or passwords. Lock that shit up. You got a job? Great! You don't? Start looking for one.
Then start building your support system. Who do you have? Family? Friends? What about his? Who would he be relying on?
Your aim now: getting out of there with as many resources as you can for your kids. Keep them happy and safe by allowing them to on-line with a mama with who is happy and free from scrubs. Unlike Pluto singing in the background
I feel you’re an accessory to him. Sorry to be cyclical but these are my thoughts. You are someone to be physical with and to show his worth as a viable partner to her while he tries to reconnect with her. Meanwhile he’s constantly belittling her partner.
He’s also constantly moving his requirements and expectations so he can continue this charade.
You can probably do anything you like whatsoever so long as this situation stays in place.
I would leave as quickly as possible. He may complain and seem upset but he will probably have a replacement in your place soon.
He seems like an awful human. Being kind, he needs to be honest with himself and with her and ideally you both need to break up yesterday.
Doesnt sound like a very good marriage if you dont feel romantic feelings for him. would you teach your future kids (if you decide to have any) that this is ok to go thru?
Move on. It’s been one month. He’s not that into you. Does he even see himself as your boyfriend?
You said yourself that should be the honeymoon phase. This is literally the best it’s going to be. Is this what you want a long-term relationship to look like?
Let him go and find someone who is super into you.
Block her and move on.
???!!!
This! You need a support system outside of your partner – if your partner is your only outside liaison to the world, that's placing a huge emotional burden on them. And it's frigging boring for them if all you can talk about is how you stared at the wallpaper while they were gone. On-line a little and connect with a few more people. And move on from her, that ship has sailed.
No don't spoil it
I can't wait to see his expression when the other shoe drops.
What does he say when you discuss it with him?
I’m not sure you went “wrong” per se but you changed your mind and maybe he didn’t. Plus, you elected to on-line together and have a baby prior to marriage so….? If you didn’t want that, why do it?
Two of my exes have passed away. One of which I deleted most of the photos before he passed. After he passed I was……broken. Thankfully I had cloud.
I don't delete photos of exes anymore.
Then….do it? Not sure what the issue is.
Trust the gut on this one. She may not be hiding what you think she is, but she is definitely hiding something….
…..or someone.
Honestly work on your insecurities as someone else said this is a weird question to ask, even weirder when you basically knew the answer already.
I don’t engage with him. I have him blocked everywhere but he uses fake numbers to contact me. I even told him I won’t speak to him while he is in a relationship and he doesn’t stop.