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Date: October 22, 2022
It's his house and he's doing you a favor. He knows what you two are doing in your room and I don't blame him. If anyone has grounds to be disappointed it's him. You've got alot to learn about men
the guy she went home with was also his age?do you have a problem with that too or are you a hypocrite lol
He (36M) and I (24F)
Oh no it's one of those posts
thought we were soulmates
Mhm…
Then I got pregnant
Oh no..
and we got married
Oh god…
He was grossed out by my body while pregnant
Shocker
kindness has stopped completely
Go on say it already
I recognise that he works and provides
Ok I'm gonna stop you right here. Stop arguing for him. Stop justifying for him. Stop accepting his rationalization.
I'll say it since you didn't realize it in this post. He's abusive. This man sounds like a monster.
He likely has a breeding fetish. He got with an early 20s woman and he put a baby in you as fast as he could. He then put together a shotgun wedding.
I'd bet money that he was specifically looking for a younger woman when he found you. It's not your fault you got in this situation. I saw your edit, I'm specifically avoiding the g word because of it. Nobody's calling you an innocent sunshine child because of what happened. Grooming can happen to anyone. My cousin was groomed by a 34 year old when she was 20 and she literally is the toughest person I know — scares the shit out of me because she could absolutely kill somebody if she wanted to.
But what you need to do is move on. This man is never going to change his mind about how he feels about you. He's never going to get more mature, he's fucking twelve years older than you. He's never going to change who he is and become a better parent to your kid.
All I'm saying is your kid will thank you later if you forget about this man and start talking to a therapist right about now. I sure as hell wish that's what my mom did when her deadbeat military ex left her, because the fact that she didn't caused me to spend most of my teenage years in and out of courtrooms and psychiatrist offices.
Get back in therapy and on meds. BPD isn't really a self manageable issue.
I would rather lose the money than online my life always being second.
Good point about him stopping empathising with me, think we have a pattern of this happening. It concerns me a bit that as a result I am often doubting myself. Stuff to think about.
Going to take up your advice and try to shake it off. Thanks a lot!
break. up. ?
I deff prefer this version from the ‘business talk’, as a fellow business owner.
After all the wrong that i did, should i tell the guy even though it’ll make me look more slimey than i already do or should i just let him not know and let them online on happily which i don’t mind but i wanna know would all guys in that situation want to know or would they rather not know
How am I transferring the anxiety over? By like asking so much?
So who do YOU imagine during sex when you need the mental stimuli to keep going?
I know a lot of people fantasize about others during sex but… you know some of us don't, right? What flashes through my mind is all the dirty deviant shit I want to do with my wife.
You should never tell him to stop. This is something he needs to decide and realize on his own. If you do that he will likely feel he needs to choose and personally I would select my family over someone I’m dated for 2 years every single time and he probably would do the same.
My ex did this before we divorced. It was hell, but he was calling my bluff every time he threatened to take my kid away. Now we have a good co-parenting relationship and joint custody. We each have her every other day and every other weekend. Chances are, she doesn't want full custody and won't fight you, if what you're saying is true about her being a cold parent. Get a lawyer and request joint custody.
Are you sure there is no one else? Perhaps she met at the training class?
I find stupid people to be very unattractive personally. If you are dumb as rocks and can't even understand basic words, let alone have deep emotional and philosophical discussions, then why would I want you as a long term partner? Honestly I wouldn't blame you at all for ditching his ass, as cold as that may sound
Without more context, it just seems that he has just changed how he tells you the message, not that it has changed.
He was saying “in about 5 years” he’s now saying that he’s not ready yet. Well there is still 3 years of the original timeframe left, so if you were happy to wait then, why are you not happy now?
And if it’s really important to you, you know that you can propose to him. You can then know what his answer is rather than waiting for him.
Don't forget to mention snatch and grab day
Where he goes down on you and then grabs you dinner
This would be a dealbreaker for me. The sweet love story is suddenly a story of deceipt. Why'd she go and screw your best friend if she was in to you. And why did she suddenly shift gears. She didn't like his performance?
Nothing above indicates he’s a red flag.
Meet with a lawyer while she is gone. Try to gather as much evidence as you can. Godspeed.
If I was in your situation I would make a report with one of the customers and explain the problem and ask the customer to find out her name and tell you. If I was the customer I would find it funny and would absolutely be willing to help you.
i mean obviously. you pay for most, you fuck him, you cook for him, you clean for him. obviously he's in it for what you could do for him. This isn't new information, that's practically the deal you've set. standards are important, because they eliminate people who like to take and take while giving absolutely nothing. Insane that you even put up with this in the first place, even went and married it but some people would rather be coupled and miserable than single. lesson to whoever reads this, someone who's happy at the expense of your money, effort and time does NOT love you. Love requires reciprocation.
What exactly about the way I type sounds artificial?
Yes. I will do that. I have an issue stopping drinking once I start. I'll need to manage that.
I literally said the gf was the problem ? If she won't change, the answer is to leave, not to create more drama with someone he pretends he's afraid of.
Are you telling any of this to him or are you just venting here to us?
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and say that you have talked to him about it. The next time he has a big angry episode like that make sure you're recording him discreetly and then show it to him when he's sober.
He needs to be able to see for himself how he's acting and admit that there's an issue in order for it to be resolved. Be gentle about it
Forget the house OP. Why do you let him talk to you that way?
By the way, I like your dad.
If there's a good diet involved, it might be worth it. Tell your mom you'll do it if she buys you a house and a business.
Yeah the groom was also a roommate. Part of the reason I think I’m best man is we went thru all this crap together and had each others backs
Does he have a porn/masturbation problem??
You not feeling “tight enough” and him not maintaining are both signs of him jerking it too much