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Date: December 6, 2022
Jade Koi, 20 y.o.
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Dates are the process by which we get to know a person. You don't need to have a set amount of familiarity to ask someone out. Some bold people walk up to strangers and engage in conversation specifically for the purpose of asking them out. Personally, I am not comfortable asking someone out unless we've shared a moment. I've had a good conversation with a person and asked them out on the same night that we met them.
She definitely has some lapse in judgement moments. She is more reactive to things than she is to think things clearly, but can also be a lil ignorant or stubborn sometimes too. I really like that you said there is a difference in insecurities in this sub. Thank you for the comment, it made me approach this situation differently.
I would never be humiliated for masturbating in my own home. Listen if you want.
I said until the past few months because they broke up.
Thank you. This actually helps alot. 🙂
What sort of advice are you looking for here?
Cheating is never okay. Talk with your partner and if nothing gets better break up..
After reading your comments and getting more context I think it will be best if you just leave this man
But fuck your bf.
Buttfuck her bf?
hahaha this is how rich folk stay rich 🙂
She’s feeling guilty and by telling you (partly!?) the truth, trying to feel better.
There is no way this is the truth though. Try to find out what really happened.
So you chose a trip with friends over saving your relationship.. that's all there is to it. You can be upset but the fact that you knew things were rocky before you chose to leave her for months is on you.
INFO: is it only in certain settings that she has this type of response? Like I know you said “in public” but at a bar if someone came and put their arm around me I’d probably react exactly as she did if I wasn’t expecting to be touched unless my partner was already sitting next to me. It sounds like you came out of nowhere and touched her and she reacted to it. I just want to be sure I understand what’s actually happening here.
Have you actually had a conversation about this? Why do you want it so badly? Why doesn’t he? Was he upset about the ultimatum?
So basically you're only staying with him out of the misguided hope that he'll change his mind.
That's not a good reason to stay in a relationship.
Such an odd thing to get mad about. There’s something more going on with dad. Maybe he is unhappy you’re becoming more independent. He misses connecting with you even if it’s through an angry fog.
Tell him you’re sorry. You wish you’d waited for him. That you miss your time with him and you regret it. Dad will melt in the inside even though he’ll likely deny himself the chance for his warm and fuzzy feelings to come through.
I would need more info about why the separation. Did you kick him out? Did he move out…what is the underlying dynamic?
Was their cheating by you or by him?
i also smoke a lot, but i respect other people’s wishes in their own home as everyone should.
i do want to point out however if he is only causing problems when he’s crossed (alcohol+weed) and those problems involve aggression, it is most definitely the alcohol.
Something tells me she cheated with someone close to family and doesn’t want to disclose it to your dad..
She is letting it continually happen but staying his girlfriend instead of making him an ex. Otherwise you’re right 100%
Yes!! Ask what the joke was…
Everybody that has it on had it off at one point
She made up her mind. Respect her decision.
I left. I packed up all my things and left. Then we talked and I came back to his place and we were trying to move on. Honestly I missed him so much when I left and I truly regretted it. Today he came home from work and I made him dinner and after dinner I was talking to him and he told me how tired he is of me. That he’s tired of listening to him talk & I piss him off all the time. Told me that I’m weak for feeling alone when I left yesterday. And how funny it is that women are so weak that they can’t handle anything on their own. So I think it’s safe to say I will be leaving again and this time I won’t regret it, nor will I come back.
You don't need a reason to break up with somebody. This is a egotistical and self-serving mindset. Where you have made yourself some type of pillar of morality that can't be damaged because people will think you didn't have a good enough reason.
I went through this when I was 21. Got pregnant by my not long time boyfriend, was too young to be a mom, not financially ready and bf didn’t want a kid. I am firmly pro-choice. I set up an appointment for termination. Went through the process, back then we had to have at least 2 appts before they would schedule the termination appt not sure if it’s the same anymore. Might also have been a state rule. At the final appointment I couldn’t go through with it. Ended up being a single mom. I can tell you it was very hot and exhausting and there were days that I really regretted my decision to keep him. Also, I didn’t come to terms with being a mom until he was about 2. For 2 years I was on autopilot just keeping him alive. If my mom wasn’t around, not sure how he or I would have survived those first 2 years. As the years went by I still have days where I regret my decision but those are greatly outweighed by all the other days. I can’t imagine my life now without the kids. But this is a very personal decision and only you can make it. Don’t let others persuade you. You will regret your decision either way, at times. It’s a naked one and it’s meant to be a hot one. But only you know what you are ready for and what you want. I support you either way. Good luck.
Okay, in reading through your other comments, you've got one big issue in your relationship, and are fighting with her about this stupid other issue that you've created.
It is not wrong for you to want a prenup. But it is also not wrong for her to not want one. Neither of you is right, and neither of you is wrong in your view, but the way you are treating eachother because of this difference in views, is wrong. You are both in the wrong for that.
This is an incompatibility that must be resolved before you even rent a home together, let alone but one. This might be resolveable, but it might not. It will likely require lawyers to discuss with, and a relationship counsellor to help you two get through it. But living together before you address the problem, is stupid.
Deal with the actual issue you two have, instead of making up other problems to catfight over, maybe?