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Date: December 6, 2022
I’ve been in your situation before. I knew that my ex was cheating on me, he gave me infections couple of times, I was extremely unhappy with him but I still stayed and kept going for almost 10 years of being in a very toxic relationship. Untill one day I had enough and decided to end it for good. I’m not going to sugar coat it for you, it’s very hot, being alone and crying almost daily, but it does get easier, you find your self, you start loving your self and really getting to know your self.
When you are single and away from toxicity you realise how much you allowed people to hurt you and you start to feel bad for letting them treat you the way they did.
Please break up with him. Don’t look back. Focus on you, life is just too short to waste time on toxic people.
Nope. It just isn’t as important as the emotional damage caused to a child.
It sucks for OP and it’s not fair.
But there’s a child involved so his feelings aren’t as important.
He can hash it out with the mother but it isn’t fair to disrupt this child’s life.
Leave him.
He’s an idiot, and deserves to find out the naked way. So dump him, find yourself someone special who will treat you with the kindness and respect that you deserve. If you happen (or not depending on what you want to do) to also have a ‘college’ experience while finding this person and be able to rub it in his face all the better.
Leave him.
He’s an idiot, and deserves to find out the hot way. So dump him, find yourself someone special who will treat you with the kindness and respect that you deserve. If you happen (or not depending on what you want to do) to also have a ‘college’ experience while finding this person and be able to rub it in his face all the better.
gave me a set timeline
Ultimatums are typically way to kill relationship. If y'all aren't on the same page, relationship generally won't go well, or won't even last.
2 months
And only 2 months? Well, at least she lets you know what she wants/”demands”. But if it's not a fit, time to break up.
sweetest kindest person
Nope – totally loaded with red (and many of them major) flags.
might be moving too fast?
2 months, and she wants you committed to a 20+ year & kids game plan? Yeah, that's too fast – no question about it. She can dream/wish/ask for whatever she wants. That doesn't mean she's going to get it. I/most/many, would generally recommend highly well knowing the other person for at least a year before even very seriously considering and committing to marriage … let alone kids, etc. So, maybe like a year before committing to marriage, and before that make sure you're on the same page regarding kids and generally life goals, timelines, “dreams”, etc. – make sure that stuff all reasonably well fits together, then after marriage – probably make sure that's damn solid for at least a full year together before even seriously considering starting a family … heck, before getting a cat or dog, let alone planning to or starting towards actually having kid(s). So, in at least my opinion, at 2 months, that's way too soon to be committing to 20+ year timeline and major commitments and milestones on that, etc. Heck, only known someone “that” well for about 2 months, could easily discover within a year of your being quite and regularly close to them, that they're really not at all the person you thought they were. And … if you were to be married and her pregnant with your kid within a year's time, then you learned she's not at all who you thought she was … then what?
student visa
Hell, you don't even know if she'll be able to stay/return! Yeah, that (and possibly also cultural differences, family pressures, whatever) might also why she's pushing the marriage thing so soon … yeah, marriage (and especially kids!!!) is never anything anyone should be pushed or rushed into. If she pushes that hot – let her walk – you sure as hell don't need all the high risks of stuff that could go majorly wrong. If she can't see that and be way the heck more reasonable – just let her walk – don't f*ck over your life (and that of (potential) kids just go give way and bow to her “demands” – the hell with that!
politely but firmly put my foot down
Good! If you look and behave like a doormat, she'll treat you as one.
she told me she was worried she was pregnant
She's trying to baby trap you. You better be damn careful with her, or she may just “accidentally” have an “oopsie” and be (or claim to be!) pregnant, coerce/”force” you into marrying here, and fast/soon, then she'll be like, “Well, no reason to use protection now, since I'm pregnant anyway” … then you'll really get her pregnant … DO NOT fall for it! And be damn careful. Better yet, just dump her – you don't want to be the walked/stomped on doormat (ab)used pawn of her game plan.
she has the implant
You absolutely know that as fact?
very unlikely because
I never cum inside her
Oh sh*t, no, that's not reliable birth control. That's about as safe as using Russian roulette for gun safety.
positive she would have kept it
If you're not ready to be a father and damn soon, and with her as the mother, you best be damn safe and careful with her. Don't rely upon her for birth control! She wants to baby trap you and get you to marry her pronto. Don't fall for it, and don't have an “accident” like that – and it'd be no “accident” on her part – all part of her plan.
I'm not emotionally, mentally or financially ready to be a parent at the moment and won't be for years
So, absolutely be damn safe with her and DO NOT rely upon her regarding birth control – she wants to be makin' babies – and apparently from you – and pronto. So if you don't play it damn safe you're gonna find yourself a father-to-be with her pregnant and in very short order. Heck, for all we know she may be banging other guy(s) just to be sure she's pregnant, and then she'll tell you, “oh my gosh, the birth control must not have worked – you got me pregnant and you're the father – I'm absolutely keeping it, let's get married right away now too!”. You could even be married to her, kids pops out … maybe you don't figure it out for years even, and you find out the kid isn't even yours – but you're stuck and legally the father anyway.
she said “okay yeah same here really, I was thinking 2 years”
She's playing you! She only says that after all her actions and statements before are to the contrary – she only says that to sound like she's agreeing with you.
Way too many huge red flags! Dump her ASAP!
she then started crying
thought you'd react more responsibly
she keeps asking me when we're gonna have sex
keeps reassuring me her implant is working
she saw a doctor to get it looked at
she's now okay with me wearing condoms
She's playin' you for the baby/marriage trap.
And oh my gosh, one of 'em leaked/broke … because you left it alone with her … and wow, there's a pin prick through the packaging … I wonder how in the hell that could'a happened.
No, she's dangerous.
she's just perhaps a bit insecure
She's worried you might not fall for her plan.
magic and the spark might already be very damaged
Way the hell beyond “very damaged” – what she wants is way different than what you want, and she's willing to play you and sacrifice you to get what she wants – that's not a partnership, that's her (trying to) making you the sucker to giver her what she wants at the expense of what you want (and your future for decades to come). She might even choose to stick it out with your for a decade (“long term marriage” in most jurisdictions when it comes to divorce), then take you for half of everything you've got and much of everything you ever will earn.
timeline in her head
It's more than in her head – she's implementing her action plan! Watch out!
she keeps using the L word and posting like a million pictures of us on her socials
All part of her plan to trap you.
past relationships, when I've invested emotionally then been hurt
Oh she'll do a lot more than hurt you – she'll totally screw you over and at least much of the rest of your life! Don't let her!
don't want to push her
Dude, you really need to – she's dangerous … toxic even!
I want things to be chill, fun, and slow
Won't go that way with her – she'll be (claiming) preggers most any day now, she'll trick/coerce/”force” you into marrying you – she'll be/get pregnant – might not even be your kid. She is not the one for you – she wants what she wants, completely and totally at your expense/peril – that's absolutely not okay – you need to dump her. Find someone that's actually decent and on the same page as you – but this one – she's playin' you – and to disastrous consequences if you play along or fall for it.
Good luck. And dump her … or at minimum be exceedingly damn careful and do not trust her! And keep watchin' for red flags – by now you can probably collect or have collected from her at least a half dozen or more huge red flags, and probably lots of smaller ones too – if you want to start a collection, she's a ready supplier of red flags – many of them huge.
She needs to understand that this isn’t healthy. She’s making her problem into your problem.
How 'bout this …
You and your wife go and tell Adam that his drinking cheating wife needs to stop burdening the two of you with their marital problems and they need to talk and work that sh*t out and be responsible adults. This whisperin' secret (and major at that) stuff to your friend about your partner and not telling your partner … that sh*t is for like teens in jr. high, and maybe high school – not for grown *ss responsible adults.
Okay, maybe don't word it exactly like that, but marriage is based on trust, and she done f*cked that up. Not that everything is her fault, but for f*ck's sake, two children 18 and 4 months old, she needs to start behaving like a responsible adult and spouse. 22F married with kids is long past time for doing stupid teen kid stuff – she needs to seriously grow up and be responsible … and sure, he does too – kids ain't no cake walk. And for f*ck's sake, don't be making more kids, situation is already quite sufficiently messed up as it is.