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James Shark, 28 y.o.
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Date: November 24, 2022
James Shark, 28 y.o.
Location: Europe
Room subject: Cum NOW
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Hung out with guy I used to hook up with years ago on Halloween
why?
I promised to never speak to the guy again
but, why where you bothering to speak to him in the first place.
, but do I tell my girlfriend?
give her the money, show her the messages, and ask her what she wants to do with it. unless you've been spending the money.
also she's gonna be pissed you didn't ask for help, or tell her sooner. why didn't you? scared? not a good enough reason.
My girl knew I still talked to him
but why did you talk to him,was he a friend, like an actual good dude, or just a hookup.
My girl found out
found out huh, so you keeping secrets is a consistent problem?
. My friends told me to take the money and run and not tell my gf,
those are bad fucking friends, encouraging you to make shitty life decisions they know who'll damage your relationship, you need to assess that after dealing with this.
and am worried if my girl finds out without me telling her sheβs gonna think Iβm still in contact with him.
that and you've let this go on for about a mo th without telling her.
you need to cut the crap and face the consequences now while there's a chance at saving anything before this girl finds out and doesn't want you anywhere near her ever again.
here's my advice.
tell her, everything, in detail, show her the messages, show her the deposits, bank statements whatnot, tell her you were scared, you didn't want to fight and you didn't know how she would take it (honestly still a very poor excuse you are supposed to trust this girl enough to be her partner and you need to understand she just might refuse to accept that as a valid reason, you might very much still be in the shit. and you also need to accept that you need to come clean, dont not tell her cause you might get in trouble you have brought yourself to this position when you could have told her the very first time it happened and dealt with it together then and there) after that you need to call the police, or your bank, and ask if there's a way to permanently block his account from sending you money. you then either need to return the money (which if he is sending it to you, you have his BSB and acc number) or give it to your gf to decide what to do with it.
unless you've been spending it.
in which case you have dug a very deep hole indeed and you may be past the point of help.
but that is all the more reason to come clean right now and not even later when the hole is even deeper.
there's a chance at saving the relationship and her first in you for now, a very small chance, for not very much longer.
but a very small chance right now. is better than absolutely no chance later.
ffs people, talk to your damn partners about your damn problems.
Tell her about your 'dumping the cheater' kink !