But.. wouldn't you think that would be exhausting for him?
Its obviously exhausting for you because you have to watch the clock, but for him its a constant never ending “is she going to text me on time?”
Its like he's living his life in 30 minute windows and you're his framework for his reality. Its unhealthy.
And what does he do if you don't text him? And what do these texts that you send have to convey?
I read in another comment that he manages your money for you?
Run. He's whittling you down into his hostage. Please, run.
This is coming from a guy with a girlfriend that has poor time/money management. I don't tell her what to do, I just try supporting her to the best of my ability. She's always late and is financially impulsive but that gives me no right to control her life.
I just tell him either you cut it off because you’re making me uncomfortable and harassing me or you’re out of my life. I just cut them off. He’s showing that he doesn’t care about your feelings.
There are lots of places where divorce takes over a year.
All due respect, you seem like a lovely person.
But.. wouldn't you think that would be exhausting for him?
Its obviously exhausting for you because you have to watch the clock, but for him its a constant never ending “is she going to text me on time?”
Its like he's living his life in 30 minute windows and you're his framework for his reality. Its unhealthy.
And what does he do if you don't text him? And what do these texts that you send have to convey?
I read in another comment that he manages your money for you?
Run. He's whittling you down into his hostage. Please, run.
This is coming from a guy with a girlfriend that has poor time/money management. I don't tell her what to do, I just try supporting her to the best of my ability. She's always late and is financially impulsive but that gives me no right to control her life.
Again, run. Please.
I just tell him either you cut it off because you’re making me uncomfortable and harassing me or you’re out of my life. I just cut them off. He’s showing that he doesn’t care about your feelings.