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Does she not realize that she also had a personal life before dating you? Even if she doesn’t talk about any past relationships doesn’t mean they didn’t happen.
I don’t think what she’s asking is exactly fair. However, looking back, did you bring up your past relationship a lot? Like once a day or multiple times a week? Perhaps her hearing about it constantly is what set her off.
Regardless, I think situations will come up plenty of times where you’ll be working through something and you leaning on a past experience and expressing what you learned from it will be helpful for you and relationships moving forward.
Perhaps you can talk with your GF one more time regarding this. Maybe you can inform her that while you may bring up past experiences that you’ve learned from, you’ll try to refrain from using a specific name. Maybe that will still be helpful.
Ask him when you leave “is (?,??,) picking you up today “? Or show up and ask him if he needs a ride.
Why do you care so much about what other people think about you? You will drive yourself insane trying to get people to feel a particular way about you – you can’t control their thoughts. Just focus on yourself. Stop trying to live to other people’s standards and start living by your own.
(•_•) Mother mercy
He shouldn’t be saying that he won’t meet her if you’re uncomfortable. He should’ve offered to cut all contact with her there and then.
If you haven’t done so already let him know that from your perspective what he did was set up a date with another woman. In secret. And he can say he would’ve eventually told you, but you only have his word for that and given the level of secrecy his word is not worth very much right now.
He gets to send her one more text only. To shut it down. And it has to be worded in such a way that it’s clear that he’s the one that has no interest in pursuing a friendship with this woman. If he sends something along the lines of I can’t see you because my girlfriend doesn’t want me to, then that’s unacceptable. It’s leaving the door open to seeing her if you don’t know about it.
Now he has to rebuild your trust. Open phone/socials policy. He has to let you know where he’s going and who he’s meeting when he’s not with you. And I’d suggest couples counselling and individual counselling for him to work out why he thought it would be a good idea to do this behind your back.
And if he wants to meet other people going through the same thing I’m sure there are support groups for whatever medical conditions you’re facing, where he can meet like minded people in a non relationship-threatening setting.
If he does all of this then he may be able to rebuild your trust. Whether you can get over it only you can tell. Unfortunately it won’t be a quick fix, it’ll take time. If down the line you do find it is something you can’t get over then be honest with yourself and him and move on. Better to leave than stay in a relationship where you’re unhappy. Having written that, I do hope it’s a momentary act of stupidity in an otherwise happy relationship and you can both work it out. Good luck.
Right? Like, that's no. The sayings “Zero fucks to give” and “Many fuck gifts” is just too funny not to appreciate.
He doesn’t display any pictures at his place, which is a good sign
I have spoken to her multiple times before that this behaviour is unhealthy and is scary to him. She doesn't seem to understand
No way.
Wouldn’t waste the effort on you.
That’s very different.
Constantly explained my indifference to your results.
You should know already but you made life decisions with zero information. Not wise.
Your husband is blaming your friend for the fact her husband is a cheating liar with zero morals.
Sami has done nothing wrong, nor have you. I'd suggest you guys stand together and let your husband leave if that's what they want to do. Let the trash take itself out.
she doesnt know I feel a bit neglected but I feel like dropping that I loved her was already a lot for her to handle so I wanted to ease off a bit. I want her to eventually be able to tell me what she likes about me by her own volition. seems like Il have to just remain strong and keep chugging along
This. She's selfish, self centered and entitled. You did nothing wrong. I'd LOVE for my boyfriend to put in literally half the effort you did.
Don’t have boundaries unless you will stand by them. If you want to be a door mat that’s fine but don’t sit her and bitch about it. She is likely have inappropriate talks with this guy at a minimum she proved to not be truthful but the part that shines is she admits she knew you wouldn’t like it. Did it anyways. Now she is trying to do damage control.
Boundaries don’t exist if you don’t do shit when they are broken.
when we are not arguing we get on like a house on fire…
Seriously ??♀️ since when did house on fire = good thing..
OP knows this relationship is a shitshow, not sure what he’s looking for from Reddit here?
Can Karla be disinvited to events?
This sounds like some kind of OCD type issue where she is fixated on something that cannot be changed. If this is turning into a situation where you are walking on eggshells around her, that's just not a healthy relationship.
What does she want? Is she asking for permission to go sleep with other people?? Is that what she wants?
You don't say why the therapy didn't work but sometimes it is the wrong therapist. Especially if they didn't pick up on the fact that she is obsessed with this detail to an enormous degree.
As someone who dated a man who had a velcro mom – do not do it. It’s far more trouble than you want. It became very weird when his mother began to see me as competition and he began hauling me an hour every weekend to sleep over at his parents house.
Trust me it is not worth it and no it genuinely doesn’t get better.
If you do not get authorities involved he might and he could end up with custody. You need to work with professionals
Thankfully I have my husband to support. My friends told me you are patient and stronger than I think, I just need to own it. Hanging there is the only way out so yea I will hang in there. Talking to a therapist will certainly help also.
You have to consult with him on small impact things like buying laundry baskets?
I do think that changing the laundry was something you should mention beforehand but his reaction to everything is as wrong as it gets.
My partner's mother recently died after fighting tumors for 24 years.
Today during Easter dinner, my partner's father was venting about the immense toll of being a caretaker and then said “I'd do it all again for her. That's my person.”
Your husband is a genuine POS who doesn't deserve an ounce of your love and respect.
He's told you who he is and what type of a person he is. Believe him. Leave.
She doesn’t get to tell you not to talk to other people if she’s out there fucking another guy. Leave her behind. You’re young, don’t waste anymore time on her.
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This is going to be a long post and I thank everyone who takes the time to read it.
My fiancée was sad that she wouldn't get a bachelorette party. She just doesn't have any childhood friends, it has to do with the fact that when she was a little girl, her dad died in an accident, debts, she was alwayys poor girl at school…. you get the picture. Anyway, I have two friends, since kindergarten. One is married , we'll call his wife Sophia – the other has a fiancée- we'll call her Lucy.
Two months ago I was sitting with these friends having wine and I mentioned that my fiancée wasn't going to have any bachelorette party. I asked if they would like to come to my fiancée and do her bachelorette party. The whole thing was rather in a funny vein, so I wouldn't have expected anyone to take this seriously.
For the record. They know my fiancée – Sophie met her before Lucy, and with Lucy and my friend we were been on holiday together. A month ago my fiancée was added to a group chat where they wrote to her saying they would come and do a bachelorette party for her. Anyway, my fiancée planned the whole program, they didn't reply to anything only Sophie wrote – I want to go here and there as if the farewell was about her.
They were originally supposed to arrive by train at night and leave the next day. When asked if they at least had tickets and when they would be arriving then, Sophie wrote that they'd probably arrive and leave the same day because she has no way of getting on a train at midnight – which is a complete bizarre – her husband has a car and doesn't do any nights out, they live with their parents where there are two other cars in the household, with the added bonus that she herself is an active driver.
My fiancée was obviously unhappy about this because it was more like they wanted to take a trip, they didn't care about anything, Sophia was looking for ways to leave as soon as possible and that why don't they want to get to know her better then. Anyway, the night before they were due to arrive last night my fiancée had absolutely cleaned and prepared the flat for their arrival. She prepared cosmetic packages for them where she hand sewed the flower wrappers. You can probably imagine how much time it took her. During the day, she sked what they would like to have for breakfast at our house, so we bought lactose-free and protein-free foods.
Guess what happened the night before, the morning of their arrival? An hour before the train left, Sophia texted that her daughter is sick so she wasn't going anywhere. Her daughter is 4 years old and every time my friend doesn't want to go anywhere their child mysteriously gets sick. Of course they on-line in the house with their parents and there is a husband at home. What absolutely angered me is that Sophia in that group chat said to Lucy that she was sorry she had to put off a change a shift at her job. Not to a word my fiancée…. Of course Lucia also just wrote that she wasn't coming and also didn't write that she was sorry….
My fiancée cried all night and asked me if there was something wrong with her. I'm incredibly disgusted and don't want to see them at our wedding. And I'm mad at my childhood friends too. I can't imagine if my fiancée wanted to do this that I wouldn't say anything to her… I just dont know how to process this… any tips, advice?
TLDR: The wife and fiancée of my childhood friends wanted to do a bachelorette party for my fiancée. They had my fiancée plan everything, ignored her the whole time, and cancelled at the last minute without so much as an apology – they only apologized to each other.
Dude,I cant comprehend how terrible this whole situation must be for you. Not only have you found out that your children arent yours, but your wife has utterly betrayed you and your marriage. There is no way you can go back to trusting her after having a years long affair like that. This was not a one time mistake. It is a character failing on her part. Now what happens from here regarding the kids since they arent technically yours, is in the air. I cant see any solution to the situation where they arent going to be broken hearted, but that's not your fault. It's not like their old enough to truly grasp it all. And If you separate from your wife, there is a chance she wont allow you in their lives. That is if its something you want anyways. The only “brightside” to the situation is you can cut the traitor that is your wife out of your life and move on, no strings attached, if it comes down to it.
No don’t reach out. That’s giving him the power back. I’m a guy breaking bro code here. I’d move on, you won’t care about it later. good luck to ya