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Date: April 2, 2023
I didn't see a clear response, so I have a couple of questions-
Was your fiancé the father of the stillborn child?
If so, he's grieving too. What was his opinion of you carrying your mutual stillborn child's dress in your shared wedding? How has he been handling the grieving process, side from it being really very important to him the wedding would be a happy, healing occasion?
How clear were you to everyone that you'd be tucking the dress very discreetly behind a bouquet? The way you initially described things, it sounds like you wanted to turn walking down the aisle into a funeral procession and parade the dress in your hands like it's a holy relic. Your dad's family also seemed to initially be under this impression. Did your fiance also believe you were about to walk down the aisle in his, your, wedding holding the dress of his recently stillborn child in front of you like a flag or instead of a bouquet, or something?
I'm sorry for your loss, but it kinda seems that neither of you managed to communicate well or fit your grieving processes together. You wanted to have a memento at your wedding, but instead of talking it through you just stopped talking about it and planned to quietly force it through anyway (without being clear about how discreet or not it would be). Your fiance wanted to have the wedding be a break from the grief, and instead of communicating properly and talking it through decided to force his view through as well.
It's a horrible situation but ultimately it sounds like the conflict is borne out of grief and a mismatch in grieving processes – the wedding was too soon, save you both attached different highly emotional expectations related to the loss of your child to it, and neglected actual therapy because you were focusing on the wedding. The path he and his family took wasn't the right one, but honestly you're both experiencing loss and struggling to cope with it.
It's good you didn't go though with the wedding considering the circumstances but try to be mindful of the fact that your fiance is also dealing with grief and it may have been as emotionally important for him to have wedding be a break from the grief, as it was to you to have the dress