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You seem to care about this man more than you care about yourself. Start there.
Everything you start to think about him, make an effort to change your thought and direct them towards yourself, what can YOU do, think, and feel, that's unrelated to anyone else.
Being obsessive and vindictive over this man is a waste of your time and energy.
You're not wrong. But I'd say that we all suck sometimes. OP, you should look at it this way…. You want everyone to get along, and did what you could, which wasn't the right move. Your fiancé should acknowledge that your intent isn't malicious, but that it was for good… It just… Flopped… And that's okay.
I had a rocky relationship with my mom. I think your fiances mom probably still isn't fully grasping things if she's reaching out to YOU about it – she's not respecting her son's wishes of no contact. It's probably hard for her and she probably desperately wants to make amends now that she's no the 17-27 year old she was as he was developing.
Your fiancé, like me, probably has justifications in his feelings. And the fact he was (or wasn't) raised by his mother is probably actually perpetuating that…. She didn't raise him with the ability to (ultimately later in life – today) be able to forgive her, or move past, or whatever… For me, I had a rocky relationship but my mother came to live! with me while I was a student in a cheap housing situation and it created more tension but ultimately I “forgave” her for what it was that created resentment… So… Maybe he doesn't ever need to be good with her, or maybe he needs the skills she failed to give him to be good with her first… Which may be difficult for him to acquire…. Regardless, in my experience (pattern of being a fixer type in relationships), it is not your responsibility to mend their differences. and I would really find a way to make good with your fiancé and not try to fix that aspect of his life in the future. In a way I think his brokenness should make it easier to make things good with you (unless it's triggering betrayal? Maybe talk specifically about that, and how it wasn't your intent).
I would avoid his mother and if she reaches out to you then I would encourage you to tell her that you feel what you did was a mistake and that any mending between her and him is not something you can be involved in. Maybe express some sympathy to her but ultimately I'd be clear with her that there is a very strong boundary between you and her until HE and her are good.
I really hope this helps…. It's a shitty spot to be in, especially after 6 of being with someone you utterly love
You seem to care about this man more than you care about yourself. Start there.
Everything you start to think about him, make an effort to change your thought and direct them towards yourself, what can YOU do, think, and feel, that's unrelated to anyone else.
Being obsessive and vindictive over this man is a waste of your time and energy.
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You're not wrong. But I'd say that we all suck sometimes. OP, you should look at it this way…. You want everyone to get along, and did what you could, which wasn't the right move. Your fiancé should acknowledge that your intent isn't malicious, but that it was for good… It just… Flopped… And that's okay.
I had a rocky relationship with my mom. I think your fiances mom probably still isn't fully grasping things if she's reaching out to YOU about it – she's not respecting her son's wishes of no contact. It's probably hard for her and she probably desperately wants to make amends now that she's no the 17-27 year old she was as he was developing.
Your fiancé, like me, probably has justifications in his feelings. And the fact he was (or wasn't) raised by his mother is probably actually perpetuating that…. She didn't raise him with the ability to (ultimately later in life – today) be able to forgive her, or move past, or whatever… For me, I had a rocky relationship but my mother came to live! with me while I was a student in a cheap housing situation and it created more tension but ultimately I “forgave” her for what it was that created resentment… So… Maybe he doesn't ever need to be good with her, or maybe he needs the skills she failed to give him to be good with her first… Which may be difficult for him to acquire…. Regardless, in my experience (pattern of being a fixer type in relationships), it is not your responsibility to mend their differences. and I would really find a way to make good with your fiancé and not try to fix that aspect of his life in the future. In a way I think his brokenness should make it easier to make things good with you (unless it's triggering betrayal? Maybe talk specifically about that, and how it wasn't your intent).
I would avoid his mother and if she reaches out to you then I would encourage you to tell her that you feel what you did was a mistake and that any mending between her and him is not something you can be involved in. Maybe express some sympathy to her but ultimately I'd be clear with her that there is a very strong boundary between you and her until HE and her are good.
I really hope this helps…. It's a shitty spot to be in, especially after 6 of being with someone you utterly love
Goodluck OP.