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I very much doubt that she will feel more attracted to you from seeing you out with other women. Love your life but prepare yourself for the possibility that she may find it off putting.
I did call her out on it in the moment she made the comment. As for your other advice, thank you- I believe you’re right. We have both tried to get into one another’s interests for one another with very limited success. Things that we have in common are fine because we both enjoy them but we are both quite independent and have a very hot time doing leisurely things that we don’t genuinely enjoy. We often will share space doing our own thing, but lots of this has led to both of us feeling less connected over time. I do join her for things she enjoys pretty often but she doesn’t do the same for me and it leads to us doing stuff she wants far more than doing things I’m interested in.
I think I just have to decide if all this is something I can deal with (looking less and less likely) or if it’s time to draw a line like you mentioned.
Wow get a dna test, and stop being a trash human
I tell them i don’t want sex. just like that. they just assume i’m not serious. i set boundaries and it’s an issue down the line. everyone gets hurt
Typo in my first response— if you *aren’t breaking the law, I would think contacting the police when needed is ok.
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I very much doubt that she will feel more attracted to you from seeing you out with other women. Love your life but prepare yourself for the possibility that she may find it off putting.
I did call her out on it in the moment she made the comment. As for your other advice, thank you- I believe you’re right. We have both tried to get into one another’s interests for one another with very limited success. Things that we have in common are fine because we both enjoy them but we are both quite independent and have a very hot time doing leisurely things that we don’t genuinely enjoy. We often will share space doing our own thing, but lots of this has led to both of us feeling less connected over time. I do join her for things she enjoys pretty often but she doesn’t do the same for me and it leads to us doing stuff she wants far more than doing things I’m interested in.
I think I just have to decide if all this is something I can deal with (looking less and less likely) or if it’s time to draw a line like you mentioned.