But some people are really hot to shop for. She was going based off a hobby it sounds like. What if he gave her absolutely zero clues what he wants? What if all he does is go to work and then works on cars afterwards, what else is she supposed to get him?
I’d suggest to just act grateful and then a few months later say we should create an Amazon wish list for birthdays and Christmas with lots of things on there to choose from so it’s still a surprise.
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Ah that makes sense, sorry. You are absolutely right, they are just not compatible. Also I looked to OP posts history and it seems like this isn’t the only issue. This man seems really toxic.
I mean, I have a VERY platonic male friend (he’s also very close friends with my partner) who I will call “my love” on occasion just like I do almost all of my femme friends or gay friends and I send hearts and kissy faces to practically everyone. Sometimes it’s not that deep.
But on the flip side, if that’s not her usual behavior or you suspect something else may be amiss it’s worth checking into. You need to have an honest and frank conversation where you explain what you saw and why it makes you uncomfortable.
The mentality that makes it so important you must wait is the same mentality that causes vaginismus. In this case it is literally that the adults traumatized her about sex to the point where they ruined her marital sex life.
i will look into parenting classes for sure, as for the therapist, we did start seeing one. Not sure if he is mainly like just a relationship one, or family or what. We started initially seeing to help our relationship, but as i said most of our arguments is related to parenting so our sessions so far have been on that.
Yeah he sounds creepy
My man, sounds like you need to forgive yourself and move on.
Everyone else also lives and learns. At least you admit that you fucked up and can learn from it instead of hiding from it.
If your best friend made the same mistake as a TEENAGER, would you rag on him in the same way? Probably not. Have some self compassion
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But some people are really hot to shop for. She was going based off a hobby it sounds like. What if he gave her absolutely zero clues what he wants? What if all he does is go to work and then works on cars afterwards, what else is she supposed to get him?
I’d suggest to just act grateful and then a few months later say we should create an Amazon wish list for birthdays and Christmas with lots of things on there to choose from so it’s still a surprise.
Stop being his mommy while he jerks off.
Real question is, WHY DO YOU WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH THIS EMBARRASSING LOSER.
I think their point was that it was a stupid attempt at a metaphor and doesn’t in any way actually represent the reality of the situation
Yeah agreed he’s a pos
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And don’t forget compansation for throwing away her long term earning potential…
You've jumped from a background of financial abuse to a future of it. Please realise this man isn't worthy of your time.
Ah that makes sense, sorry. You are absolutely right, they are just not compatible. Also I looked to OP posts history and it seems like this isn’t the only issue. This man seems really toxic.
Where on that page doesn't it say sexual coercion is rape?
How about you communicate with her and tell her how you feel. You know its okay to say no to your significant other when you dont want to?
I mean, I have a VERY platonic male friend (he’s also very close friends with my partner) who I will call “my love” on occasion just like I do almost all of my femme friends or gay friends and I send hearts and kissy faces to practically everyone. Sometimes it’s not that deep.
But on the flip side, if that’s not her usual behavior or you suspect something else may be amiss it’s worth checking into. You need to have an honest and frank conversation where you explain what you saw and why it makes you uncomfortable.
The mentality that makes it so important you must wait is the same mentality that causes vaginismus. In this case it is literally that the adults traumatized her about sex to the point where they ruined her marital sex life.
How unfortunate for you. I myself sadly am stuck in a 12 year relationship with a man i married who simply supports me the horror i know!
He dares to tell me i can achieve things! And gives me.. i can't even utter it.. but i will..
emotional support!!!
I failed to find a man who thinks the sun rises and sets with him. Maybe we both will be so lucky in our next lives!
Break up. Life is way too short. Don’t waste it with boring sex.
RUN!!! Get out!!
i will look into parenting classes for sure, as for the therapist, we did start seeing one. Not sure if he is mainly like just a relationship one, or family or what. We started initially seeing to help our relationship, but as i said most of our arguments is related to parenting so our sessions so far have been on that.