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Just being aware is great start! ???
If those kids are like all the kids i know out there, they'll be up way before your bf could EVER realistically wake up safely, drive over and be in the house before. My nephews used to get up at 5am prepared to capture Santa after staying up til 10/11 the night before solely preparing. I think it's not shady/unexpected to want to still be there for his kids especially if this is his first Christmas like so but I think this is also him trying to compensate for what he and his ex are doing to the kids by not being together.
Instead, if the kids wake up early they are going to find their dad sleeping on the couch (assuming that is where he actually sleeps), highlighting the fact the family isn't together any more. The dude can drive over at 5:30 – 6:00 and still maintain an early morning presence without spending the night.
There is an appropriate way and a healthy way. She decided to do the oppostie of both. She framed herself as the victim and used tears to manipulate her partner into dojng what she wanted and when that didnt work would use jokes to try to make him fell like the bad guy. She literally outted herself. Change all of the guy/girls in that post and see if youd be on his side if he was jokingly making her feel bad for not putting out or crying to get what she doesnt want to give
OP can definitely be upset, and it IS a reasonable boundary to have, BUT, was it ever expressed prior to this engagement? SO OFTEN people say they have these boundaries but never explicitly state them and just assume everyone thinks the same as them (which is obviously flawed). OR if they state them, they are vague and open to interpretation.
My advice OP, be explicit in your boundaries, whatever they are. And if you can’t fathom the possibilities, it’s reasonable to ask your partner “if we haven’t discussed BLANK happening, please talk to me before you engage so I can determine my feelings in advance”.
Basically it’s a lot of communication, and don’t veto everything, but keep that line open and you’ll be in for smoother sailing.
Good you need to meet better people and need to get help yourself if you think you need to be wit someone who will throw you away just to get high. Lol maybe you needed this wake up call that everyone is calling you a troll because you literally were arguing with your so called “GF” in the comments
Just communicate information that demonstrates that you know her well, that you know him well- info that close people would have but not info only you would have. Prove that you know her and him, as opposed to continuing to try to prove what happened. Then, say she can take it or leave it.
How is it different tho?
See the thing is. I had tons of nudes of my ex & my girlfriend found them. I didn't even view them after I'd initially received them and I didn't even bother deleting them, I'd given her access to everything. She was furious but it was just not something I'd even thought of doing, they were sort of out of my mind as im working 10 hours a day and spending time with her daily.
The biggest violation is secretly sending videos of you to him. This is pretty disgusting, no means no.
Nobody who reads this would want you to be in this situation either. You sound like a hardworking and ambitious person and the last thing you need is some older slacker using up your time/money and dragging you down right at the time you need to be looking forward. You're not “stuck”, you've never even met this person. Be brave and end it.
It doesn't sound like your relationship is borderline over. It sounds like you have some insecurity issues to work through. You can share how you're feeling with your girlfriend but they're your responsibility to deal with or it'll never go away. It will probably be helpful to find a therapist.
lmao if she leaves someone to be with someone else she will leave you to be with someone else too
Rehome the wife?
It’s so weird the shade of your skin is still looked at that way. Also heard Asian men are having problems on dating apps. Just be yourself, there’s always someone who will love you for who you are.
My cousin is a therapist, some of my friends are therapists and I have been to several therapist. What she is doing is crossing lines. This makes you (and maybe him) uncomfortable. This doesn't appear to be a “just want to help thing” because she most likely would like to help everyone and extending sessions (especially that much), constant contact and hinting for divorce does not do that.
Let's think rationally, if she extended her sessions like that to everyone she would have very few clients and very far apart sessions. She most likely doesn't, therefore, she is extending one but can't the others. Unless your husband was in dire need (I've heard in cases when a person is considering harming therefore or others) this is really not logical or ethical for her or her other patients.
Other than her traumas/anxiety, she's amazing. I do want her to feel like I'll take care of her (emotionally) because I want to. Yes it does feel like walking on eggshells a lot.
Let me be one of the only contrary opinions here. I wish I never would have been allowed to shower or be around one of my grandma's, but everyone assumed it was innocent and okay because she was my grandma. Some grandma's are evil. So if you feel uncomfortable with it, speak up. I know millions of people shower with female relatives and all is okay, but some don't too and I feel like no one else has really brought that up.
We do his/hers/ours like you OP and pay shared expenses out of “ours”. Vehicles/vehicle maintenance aren’t considered shared. We each pay for our own vehicles and gas. The only time I pay for gas for his truck is if I borrow it for a project.
Do you call her mom?
Tell her to stop treating you like a child, could have been cute at some point but now it's plain insufferable. She has to change or move.
You realize you are not in high school anymore. Your friends have jobs, school, spouses, kids etc. They have their own lives and stuff going on. Getting mad because they did reach out over YOUR moms passing 14 YEARS ago….common!
So your friends expect you to go out with a girl and because you said as you are heterosexual and your friends are now calling you homophobic ? Wow would any of your heterosexual female friends go out with her if she asked? No, so why do they think you should? These are not your friends, they are nasty bullies and your parents need to go to the school and if your school refuse to do anything go to the school board or the police. Bullying is not accepted, you shouldn't be afraid or worried about restarting school after Christmas. These are not your friends , they are bullying you over something that is ridiculous and their bullying has already resulted in you getting hit. Have you spoken to your parents, have you told them how worried you are about going back to school? As a parent I'd want to know what my child is worried about and would try to help them as much as I can. Hopefully when you do go back to school your bullies will have moved into something else but they are not your friends, you really don't want to be friends with them again as they can and will turn on you again
Either both are yellow, or A is woodgrain and be is Gold
I got pregnant with my then husband’s baby, after he had a vasectomy ( He just had to try out his equipment to see if it still worked So anything is pissible
She's a sociopath
I tried blocking everywhere. It ends up in threats.
Hope it goes well and he was just having a stupid man moment. Maybe he said it because he is insecure in the relationship and is afraid you'll leave him.
Remember tho, a crush is fleeting as long you don't do anything about it so it's very much likely she will lose any interest quickly
LOL yes I do believe I only need someone of the opposite gender who isn’t shooting blanks HOWEVER the dating pool scares the heck out of me.
Hmm… i totally understand why you feel strange that he’s been open with you in the past, but not direct about this one relationship. Maybe you should just ask him why he called her his friend before. If I had to guess it’s because this was a very casual /short relationship. He was only in Korea for 3 weeks… it couldn’t have been that serious of a relationship!
Another thing to consider – your boyfriend is 41… he has potentially had a lot of short-term flings that were not significant relationships to him.
Also – I’ve been in the Korean girl’s situation (age gap and all), and I fully knew what I was getting into. I was sad when the person left, of course,but I wasn’t devastated or completely heartbroken or anything…. Just a little sad that something short and beautiful had ended… and I certainly never thought I was taken advantage of.
God, yes – leave. You’re wasting your life with him – and he’s not going to change.
You leave, what the fuck else is there to do?
Yeah, this is sounding fishy for sure. Do you have an old phone sitting around collecting dust? Install a GPS tracker on that bitch and put it in the pocket of his backseat.
I understand that you said it was OK when it started but I couldn't imagine continuing if my partner couldn't get naked. Obviously something is not right, sucks to disappoint the 3rd but I'd have to send them packing and comfort my partner.
Once is too many times.
I'm sorry about your dad.
Doesn't matter if it's once a year even, once is too many times and these things have a cycle of escalations.
Either way you deserve better than him.
negatory.
The unreciprocated yet continued flirting began to constitute harassment. when contact was made, it graduated to sexual assault.
Imagine if a man had gotten a woman alone, then pinned her and kissed her against her will. Surely that would be sexual assault.
Put a restraining order on Mary and notify the rest of the family about what happened letting them know this behavior is completely unacceptable. Cut off contact until they step in and put Mary in her place.
Thank you so much!
Your familial online is already doomed.
Get an abortion and a divorce for cheating.
He needs to fuck off and keep fucking off until he can fuck off no more
Talk with your parents and explain to them that your “husband” is demanding you to have threesomes with his previous girlfriend in which case he’s more than likely is still smashing currently. See if they’re willing to help you away from this guy.
Your life and the baby’s life is in danger. This chick and your husband could’ve contacted hiv/herpes/syphilis recently and have no side effects as of yet.
If your parents still refuse to help you out, start contacting shelters, especially domestic abuse shelters. Your husband is mentally and emotionally abusing you currently and if he ever had put his hands of you, then physically.
These shelters will help you get a food card, cash money if you don’t have a current income, schooling if wanting to further your education, along with having a lot of programs set up to help those there, yourself included, including sec 8 programs. Try going to a shelter for women only. You being pregnant will almost guaranteed entrance. If there’s a waiting list, get on it. Get on multiple waiting lists.
As for the section 8 programs, some will not mention it to you until after monitoring your behavior and seeing your adhering to their rules there, typically around a couple of months, give or take, they’ll take you to the side in the office and give you the option of taking it.
With the voucher, you can start going house hunting for you and your baby. If given this wonderful gift, don’t mess up by letting the father move in with you right away. He must prove beyond a reason of doubt that he has change his disgusting ways. Plus there are rules you must adhere to concerning having people living with you. Their names must be added to the section 8 voucher. Plus if he start acting up again, in which I can almost reassure you that he will, it’s going to be hell getting him out of your home.
Family are not always family if you get my drift. Sometimes a close friend can become more family than blood ones. It’ll be great if you could have your family support, but you’ll be okay without your family support as well.
So your boyfriend starts talking to a ‘friend’
Gives you no attention
Wants to be able to sleep with other people
Is he even your boyfriend at this point? Sounds like he’s checked out
Where is the insult?
This
You have the right to keep the beard. Your girlfriend has the right to not kiss you or be near you if the beard feels abrasive to her.
To you want to look good to your mother, or do you want to feel good to your girlfriend?
Your call
Your feelings are absolutely valid but don’t throw your relationship away because of this. If she really is and has been a good partner all these years, I’d say forgive her. It will take time and work for you both to rebuild the trust, but I’d say it’s worth it.
Some things you don't let go.
What happened that led to you looking?
OP updated. Her g/f’s reason is that she finds the sister “annoying”.
1) OP didn't say her husband discussed it over the weekend in email. OP just said the meeting had been arranged over the weekend. Yes it could have been a long thread which included convos from everybody or if could have been a simple meeting invite from the owner to the 4 managers (no OP).
2) I didn't see anything in the original post about him accepting the offer. If he did accept without talking to the wife, then he's an AH.
3) they went to lunch without her. Did you expect them to invite OP? “Hey, we discussed selling the company to the other managers, wanna grab a celebratory lunch with everyone?”
My opinion hasn't changed; the real beef is with the owner. If the husband made any actual decisions, then of course he'd bea real dick. But I haven't seen anything in the original post about any actual decisions.
Why do you want to stay with a man who doesn't love you enough to wash his own own ass?
WOW
run away from that! You don’t need a girlfriend like that, shame on her!
I mean, isn’t it kind of? Maybe more invalidating than gaslighting.
“I guess I’ve just never been okay being single. Never liked it at all.”
That doesn’t sound healthy. You need to know and be happy on your own before you can be in a healthy relationship. With this comment and your talk of ex’s always dumping you, it leads me to think you haven’t been single very much in your adult life.
You are focusing on the fact that she’s had other partners when you should be focusing on how she treats you. She knows you are inexperienced, she is patient and caring with you, and you’re going to psych yourself out of a really good relationship because of insecurity.
I like this plan.
I dunno what he walked in on and neither does he. Maybe she cheated. Maybe something happened to her, seeing as he describes hearing her acting drunk. Maybe she did stuff when she wasn't even capable of consent. Maybe nothing happened and she's too drunk to know for sure so she got Plan B. We don't know shit.
I’m sorry man. She’s cheated on you. I took a Plan-B ONCE the same day a condom broke, and I thought I was dying. Horrible stomach pain, vomiting, writhing in agony for over 12 hours and then started my period. I know it sucks to hear and you love her but she’s lying to you. Plan B is ONLY to be used as an emergency contraceptive because that is its only function. Stay strong, my guy.
Those big changes can be intimidating, but you have to question yourself that you love her because of the woman she is or the person she is? Talk this out with her and see if you can support her as a friend of boyfriend.
All I’m left with is the knowledge that another man made the woman I’m gonna marry cum in a way she never has before
Stop right there. 'Another man' didn't make her orgasm. SHE herself had an orgasm. These things happen. If there was anything – ANYTHING – personal about rando massage therapist that made her orgasm, she would have told you – or not told you at all.
Please don't take this personally, is my point.
Have you ever gotten an erection out of nowhere? And by out of nowhere I mean thoughts or seeing a beautiful person or anything? Have you ever orgasmed in your sleep or in the shower or any other random how-did-that-happen?
Again, I don't think you should take this personally. In fact, if you can drop your ego – maybe this is a play thing you two can explore? Within reason of course.
Your fiancee is a sexual person, she got aroused, she told you about it. Don't be one of Those Guys who take a physical response as a blow to your ego.
My two cents.
He didn’t just lie, he lied multiple times. It’s called “trickle truthing”, and he would have stopped at each new lie without you pushing for more
I’m not sure why you’re insisting on continuing to date someone who is so obviously untrustworthy. You’ve only been dating six months. Her naked drinking lifestyle isn’t for you, and that’s okay. Date someone who doesn’t make you worry.
Good lord, the shit women put up with.
Are you so afraid to be alone? So deeply insecure you don’t believe there’s anything better out there for you?
Have you so completely sold yourself on his “redeeming” qualities that you actually believe a relationship with this person is worth being treated and made to feel this way?
Time to wake up and respect yourself, OP. He is not a catch. No man or relationship is worth reducing yourself to accepting this kind of treatment. You deserve better, and better is out there. Please love yourself enough to cut ties with this jerk and go find it. Even being alone is better than being with a person who behaves this way.
So sorry OP, I had something similar minus the toxic misogyny happen to me back in the day. I thought we were just friends, but from the outside, we looked like a couple. The problem was that he never asked me out, so I genuinely thought we were just friends. It wasn't until I met my now husband and started dating him pretty seriously that my “friend” finally cracked and said he thought WE were together. He faded away eventually, and I've been with my husband for 16 years, but I'm just here to say that this can happen, it's not so unbelievable.
I'd still look at what you can do to protect yourself, because if you divorce whilst your father is alive. Your husband could be entitled to half.
I agree completely!
Why are you with this person? God the bar is low that men honestly think they can pull this shite and expect to remain in a relationship with you. Wtf
Talk to a lawyer, talk to some friends. The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step, etc.
he is a sweetheart
doesn't sound like it
Good for you, OP. You can do this!
If you still love him, you need to talk to him. Come up with a list of things you’ll need in order to continue being in a relationship with him. If it’s just an apology, be prepared that he will continue cheating on you, likely with the same woman. You need to protect yourself. It doesn’t seem like you’ve fully grasped the level of deception they’ve both hid from you. I don’t understand how you are not besides yourself with anger for your friend. It seems like you think that this is just something that happens and it doesn’t change how you feel about them, but the people you thought they were do not exist. These are two selfish fucks who care more about fucking each other than they care about you. If he loved you the way you think he loves you, I promise you, he would have shown it with his actions. You don’t cheat on the people you love.
I probably should've mentioned that. I have absolutely talked to him about it like an adult, ad nauseum which is why I said now I'm to the point I don't want to bring it up because I've created an issue
I definitely am. Sometimes I overthink and I’m trying naked to not get too deep into my head.
I love the way you talk (text?). That first line
Reddit gives me less and less hope almost daily as to why its better to just be single because wtf is this???
This guy is not a good person
It appears you are just a sex toy to him
Unaliving yourself is selfish and a permanent solution for a resolvable problem. Yes, you seriously F’d up, but you can get through this. You’re going to have a kid, you want to be alive and part of their life?
Be honest with your wife. It’s gonna suck, suck a lot. But it will get better as you adjust to a new life circumstance.
Yeah, at first I read it as “I would love to go”. Which wouldn’t be weird, but he said “I would love to go with you.”
I’m 33 and I remember at my prom that someone I knew had to get permission to bring their 25 year old boyfriend and at the time it grossed me the fuck out. Also? As a 33 year old I cannot imagine even dating someone under maybe 28 tops. This dude is weird and OP deserves better.
So what happens if an 18 hits on him now? It’s okay because she started it?
No.
THIS is how abuse starts: being shitty and then—when called on your shit—being mad that you were, to the point the person you upset ends up apologizing for daring to be upset.
That’s fucking bullshit; trust me, been there done that. She deserves better than his guilt-tripping BS.
It sounds to me like you have been living a very chaotic life.
I suggest that you focus on work and your education if you have not yet completed it.
In the future, you cannot move in with a romantic partner that you have dated for fewer than six months at the very very least. If you find yourself involved with someone who is suicidal you need to get them help but you also need to exit the relationship if it has just started and the problem recurs.
Find a different GF. Even if you gave it up entirely, they'd still think you have an addictive personality.
This!!! Toys can be an excellent sexual aid if everyone is on board with them.
My husband and I are a huge fan. He has some issues that can cause mild ED, and I have my own physical problems that can make “regular sex” uncomfortable. But we have a reasonably healthy sex life because we both believe in toys to help out where we fall short. If my husband can't quite stay naked, cock rings or penis sleeves can help – as can an old fashioned vibrator. That same vibrator (or another) can be used on his penis for additional stimulation. If I can't quite get to orgasm, he's happy to encourage me to “top off” with a toy – he's not insecure at all, and neither am I.
While sex is important to a relationship, it's one of the more easily supplemented aspects. You can't buy communication, or caring, or sensitivity. But you can pop over to AdultMart any day!
No don’t work on it.. she’s high matinence and she’s looking for somebody to keep up.. she wants a relationship and your not giving her what she wants. She’s right. You play the role of boyfriend without actually being boyfriend. Leave her alone to go find somebody who actually wants to be her boyfriend and isn’t just using her for sex.. in another comment somebody said you probably just like her sexually and wanna hold onto that and I think their right. Let her go.. for her sake
honk mimimimi
In a couple of years you’ll think back to this moment and ask yourself why you didn’t break up with him then and there
There’s a saying, “when someone shows you who they are, believe them”. She is showing you who and what she is. She’s emotionally manipulating you and she doesn’t have a problem with lying about her actions, but even more importantly she’s trying to blame you for things that she has made up in her head happened and taken away your rights to privacy so she can continue to do it. You don’t want that kind of relationship, if you have anxiety now you’re going to be a basket case by the time she’s done with you. You deserve better, you don’t treat a friend like this much less a loved one. Think about that.
Yeah, “just hire help” isn't very realistic for many people.
Is he seeing your wife and his child?
You need a paternity test, and a loyal wife.
Having a friend is one thing, hiding a friend is another.
I am not ?