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It is natural to feel used in this situation and it sounds like you were what she wanted for attention or an emotional crutch. It's okay to not be okay with it and go no contact
ANYTHING is grounds to move on. I understand in a marriage with kids long term sometimes things need to be worked through. But we are talking one month. We are talking dates. If you think his house was too dirty, his nails weren’t cut, he breathed funny. Idc – your entitled to nope out. You don’t need a “reason”. You don’t have to stay with someone until they do something so bad that it allows you to leave. But if you did need one: his behaviour is enough. Great job for working on yourself, we are socialised to accept a lot and be nice. When you aren’t used to setting boundaries and standards it can feel a lot like being a bitch. But it’s not.
There is no right/wrong. Every couple has a different dynamic based on what the people involved in the relationship prefer. For example In my relationship we don't share email, social media etc passwords but we know the password to each others laptop for when we watch films. If you are not comfortable sharing passwords to your emails, and your fiancé was ok with this dynamic until everyone else got involved than maybe it's time for some pre-marital counselling so you can figure out together, as a couple, what you want your relationship dynamic to be on this issue & others. Find a compromise & boundary together. Preferably before the wedding.
It is natural to feel used in this situation and it sounds like you were what she wanted for attention or an emotional crutch. It's okay to not be okay with it and go no contact
ANYTHING is grounds to move on. I understand in a marriage with kids long term sometimes things need to be worked through. But we are talking one month. We are talking dates. If you think his house was too dirty, his nails weren’t cut, he breathed funny. Idc – your entitled to nope out. You don’t need a “reason”. You don’t have to stay with someone until they do something so bad that it allows you to leave. But if you did need one: his behaviour is enough. Great job for working on yourself, we are socialised to accept a lot and be nice. When you aren’t used to setting boundaries and standards it can feel a lot like being a bitch. But it’s not.
There is no right/wrong. Every couple has a different dynamic based on what the people involved in the relationship prefer. For example In my relationship we don't share email, social media etc passwords but we know the password to each others laptop for when we watch films. If you are not comfortable sharing passwords to your emails, and your fiancé was ok with this dynamic until everyone else got involved than maybe it's time for some pre-marital counselling so you can figure out together, as a couple, what you want your relationship dynamic to be on this issue & others. Find a compromise & boundary together. Preferably before the wedding.